Question on getting progasm.

Just a matter of terminology: Progasm is one of Aneros's products. I think you're meaning "super-O".

Contractions aren't always necessary, as I'm sure others will tell you.

Don't try too hard. Relax into it. Give it time. Enjoy the sensations you're getting at that instant and don't worry about them building into anything bigger.

You're trying to coax out a very shy creature here. Going in with a megaphone shouting, "Come out wherever you are!" isn't going to help.

Oh hello, sorry I didn't know about the term. I read the chat you posted. Will try it out asap, thanks!

Sounds as though you were working hard at doing anal contractions to drive the motion of the massager. This certainly with massage the prostate but the greatest sensations are created by assisting the development of involuntary contractions which are key to bringing on the dry prostate orgasms. The most successful thing for me was to relax and hold gentle PC contractions (like you'd use to cut off urine flow--not pulling in contractions with the anus) for a half minute or so then relax then repeat several times while lightly tickling the nipples.

Try this and see if you don't experience some interesting feeling wiggling contractions in the anus and a mysterious feeling contraction that involuntarily pulls the Aneros into your rectum. Focus on whatever helps this happen and you'll eventually reach the ability to have orgasmic sensations with it.