Do you have the tab just sitting on the spot, just touching, or is it digging in deep? How deep is it when you first put the toy in?
@Spanishguy69 As I remember, I only made sure that the P-tab was centered upon insertion, as per Aneros recommendation. After that, I just started the session and sometimes the P-tab would be pressed very firmly against the perineum. I believe that it's position is generally determined by your own body's response to the massager. You may want to check it during a session and perhaps re-orient it if necessary. This will help you to gain maximum feedback response from the Aneros. Good luck!
I agree with goldenboy - the Progasm Jr provides a lighter touch for me than the other models - at least that's what I think until I reach down to adjust and its solid. But also sometimes I find the models are much lighter but the sensation is very intense. And just to confuse you more, sometimes the really intense 'pushing out' sensations result in a feeling of the Aneros being pulled in very deep... sorry to not answer your question! 🙂
Enjoy the Journey!