About me: I've posted on Reddit before about my experiences, so feel free to read through those. I'm <30 y/o. Gay male. Bought my first Aneros SGX in 2009, forgot about it for a few years, and then in 2013 started picking up more Aneros models until now. My new fav models: Eupho Syn Trident, Progasm, and Peridise.
tl;dr: I used my Aneros everyday for a week in a hotel room and orgasmed for hours everyday. I did some great things and learned some great things. Sessions are only getting better with each use. Life is great.
A few weeks ago, I was away on business and stayed in a hotel for a week. I brought my Aneros ended up using it every night with incredible results (I have videos that I will upload at some point). It was during this time that I really had a chance to discover myself, my body, my prostate, and how to really use the Aneros to its fullest potential. I had back to back dry orgasms lasting 1-3 hours every night, and finished off with hands-free wet orgasms every time because I get really bad blue-balls if I don't cum. I alternated between Eupho Syn Trident and Progasm.
What I did:
1) Got myself really horny throughout the day by watching porn and surfing Reddit, but never touched my dick
2) Practiced kegels throughout the day
3) "Rewarded" myself with an Aneros session after a long day of work (that mental build-up really got me raring to go)
4) Locked the doors, lie down, put headphones on, and either listened to porn (NOT WATCHED) or binaural beats (I swear by these two: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7YCefwSNgE and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YeMAzOqN7jY&t=2845s )
5) I touch myself in the places I know work for me - inner thighs, groin, chest, nipples and soon enough, my rectum is quivering and shaking, begging for the Aneros to be inserted
6) I lie on my side and tease my hole with the tip of the Aneros, making my body want it even more. Then I give in and insert it partially, letting my body suck up the rest of it just to where it wants it to be
7) The act of doing that alone was enough to send shocks through my body and on some occasions, sent me into immediate orgasms
8) I stayed on my side for some time, just breathing deep into my abdomen and sort of "pushing out" on the Aneros with each inhalation. On each exhalation, my hole quivered and pushed the Aneros against my prostate, driving me even crazier
9) I experimented with several positions but found my top 3 were: Lying on my side, lying face down, and bent over a table/bed
What I learned:
The movements/contractions/kegels that you need to do when the Aneros is inside are actually SO subtle. Focusing on the sensations from the tiniest little movements yield the greatest results. I used to squeeze hard and almost "ram" the toy against my prostate hoping it would give me the same sensations as having anal sex but it never worked. It never felt good and left me really disappointed.
Watching porn or listening to porn during a session is too distracting. It makes my brain expect the sensations of whatever is happening in the porn, and distracts me from the pleasure that is ACTUALLY going on in my body. I would recommend staying away. I used to feel that I needed the porn to keep me horny during a session, but now I know if I need the porn to keep me horny, the Aneros isn't the right toy for that day. I think this may apply to many other people.
The crazy shaking/seizure movements that we see in videos aren't fake (I genuinely used to think they were paid by Aneros to do that shit). Faking those movements will also not help the Aneros feel any better. They come when you have reached a point in your journey where you can surrender entirely to the Aneros and the sensations it generates. Once you do that, just let your body guide you. BUT! I found that I could only "let go" once I started feeling pleasurable sensations, because before that I was "searching" too hard, if that makes sense. (Sounds cheesy and I never understood what it meant, but really there's no better way to describe it other than just letting go).
Less psychological pressure is best. Don't pressure yourself into feeling like you HAVE to have pleasurable feelings because it is a toy in your butt and it's pressing against your prostate and that should feel good. No. Just go into it with the intention of being happily pleasured by any sensations you feel. There is no pre-Aneros equivalent, so you really cannot even fathom what to expect.
I don't douche for Aneros sessions. I think it puts too much psychological pressure on me to enjoy my session because of the amount of effort in douching. I take Pure for Men fiber supplements and eat a healthy diet. That's it.
I was able to do this every night for a week and the sessions only got better and better. However, I had absolutely no desire to put anything up my butt for the following week. I think maybe I burned my prostate out. However, I can say after a week off, I'm back to loving my Aneros sessions again. In fact, I think I had one of my best sessions the other night where I floated on that feeling you get in your groin right before you're about to ejaculate for TWO HOURS. That was a new high for me, and it finished with my screaming into my pillow for 4 minutes while I climaxed and had a hands free wet orgasm. If you're interested, I can write another post on that in the future.
I'm writing this because I've learned so much from these forums and want to help people achieve this level of bliss. It is too incredible not to share. I'm happy to chat with people about it, so please feel free to DM me!
Thanks for reading!
Loved reading your comments and will definitely incorporate those in my sessions.
Can you give the link for your Reddit content and would like to see anything else you have to say whether videos or further information.
Your content can only help people to perhaps get nearer to what you have managed to experience so thank you for taking the time to write so in depth.
@johnhope Thank you! You can find my posts under the Aneros and Prostate Play subreddits. My username is therealdeal99 there too.
Very helpful thank you.
Did you use the Peridise any time during that time?
Hi therealdeeal99 any chance of seeing the videos you mentioned in your first post?
The movements/contractions/kegels that you need to do when the Aneros is inside are actually SO subtle. Focusing on the sensations from the tiniest little movements yield the greatest results.
Absolutely! I came to the same conclusion you did. Sometimes I even feel like I'm having such weak voluntary contractions that they're probably imaginary. But they still produce incredible results.
Watching porn or listening to porn during a session is too distracting.
I couldn't agree more. If necessary, my imagination has much more effect than looking at pictures on a screen.
6) I lie on my side and tease my hole with the tip of the Aneros, making my body want it even more. Then I give in and insert it partially, letting my body suck up the rest of it just to where it wants it to be
Yes! It feels so good to play with the instrument right at the entrance. Making my body wait a little while before insertion is always very erotic. And once it's slightly in, it's like my anus swallows the massager. And then it's going to be positioned exactly where it does the most good...
In fact, I think I had one of my best sessions the other night where I floated on that feeling you get in your groin right before you're about to ejaculate for TWO HOURS. That was a new high for me, and it finished with my screaming into my pillow for 4 minutes while I climaxed and had a hands free wet orgasm.
Great, what luck! I haven't had a two-hour orgasm yet, but during one of my sessions with the Progasm Junior, I was lucky enough to have three orgasms of half an hour each with just a few seconds of respite in between.
I think we are extremely fortunate and privileged to know these toys and to be able to have so much sexual pleasure. It's an adventure that seems to have no end, it's really incredible. How can we have the best sexual pleasure of our lives, the best orgasm every two or three sessions (at least that's the rhythm for me: every two or three sessions, my pleasure is even better ...).
Nvm lol the phone app is just weird
Your story mirrors mine in so many ways, I too was sceptical about the videos of guys thrashing around, the whole mystery surrounding the 'Super-O' and now I know these things are for real my sessions seem to get better and better.
I like you have benefited enormously from having prolonged sessions with time and privacy to relax and focus on the sensations and where the lead to with no stress or distractions getting in the way.
Enjoy the journey!
3) "Rewarded" myself with an Aneros session after a long day of work (that mental build-up really got me raring to go)
It helps if the work is physical, including heavy physical exercises. I like pull-ups, push-ups or running (not necessarily on the same day). Conversely, when I sleep badly a session on that day will be disappointing 80% of the time so I re-schedule it with no regrets.
9) I experimented with several positions but found my top 3 were: Lying on my side, lying face down, and bent over a table/bed
Please state your Aneros model when giving advice like that. For me, "on my back" is much better when using Aneros Helix Classic, while Progasm Ice takes off in doggy and related positions. I
What I learned:
The movements/contractions/kegels that you need to do when the Aneros is inside are actuallySO subtle. Focusing on the sensations from thetiniest little movements yield the greatest results. I used to squeeze hard and almost "ram" the toy against my prostate hoping it would give me the same sensations as having anal sex but it never worked. It never felt good and left me really disappointed.
Yes. This makes "prostate orgasm" (amateur) videos on the internet so disappointing. They are mostly two kinds: guy milks himself by holding aneros with his hand, leading to a ruined (wet) orgasm. I've tried this, as well as fingering, and know it's only barely enjoyable - compared to a proper Aneros ride as well as a good traditional penis edging.
When masturbating, boys learn that faster and harder is usually better. This is not true for me with Aneros. You need to point it in the right direction and keep the force and speed more or less constant. Success comes from patiently teasing the same spot with minor position adjustments from time to time.
Watching porn or listening to porn during a session istoo distracting. It makes my brain expect the sensations of whatever is happening in the porn, and distracts me from the pleasure that is ACTUALLY going on in my body. I would recommend staying away. I used to feel that I needed the porn to keep me horny during a session, but now I know if I need the porn to keep me horny, the Aneros isn't the right toy for that day. I think this may apply to many other people.
Even more, it's usually a good idea to close your eyes! This stops you from watching your erection and obsessing over it. When I'm having a great session and precum is flowing steadily, I love to watch the drops. But if you're less than 30 minutes into your session, doing that probably sabotages your efforts.
The crazy shaking/seizure movements that we see in videos aren't fake (I genuinely used to think they were paid by Aneros to do that shit).Faking those movements will also not help the Aneros feel any better. They come when you have reached a point in your journey where you can surrender entirely to the Aneros and the sensations it generates.Once you do that, just let your body guide you.BUT!I found that I could only "let go" once I started feeling pleasurable sensations, because before that I was "searching" too hard, if that makes sense. (Sounds cheesy and I never understood what it meant, but really there's no better way to describe it other than just letting go).
Where do you think my forum nickname comes from?
Actually I think these movements are not as pleasant. They stop me from feeling what's going on and I'm no longer able to aim Aneros correctly with my muscles. Recently I do my best to prevent them. They happen more when you use less stable positions such as on your side. I do my best to subdue them and for this I enjoy a variant of doggy (on all fours). But I sit on my heels and usually support myself on my elbows and not palms. I prefer a pillow-biting experience instead.
I don't douche for Aneros sessions. I think it puts too much psychological pressure on me to enjoy my session because of the amount of effort in douching. I take Pure for Men fiber supplements and eat a healthy diet. That's it.
Douching is *much* easier when you do it after pooping. I do all my sessions after pooping, and make sure to not eat any more before the end of the session. When I do this, I only need to douche twice to be very clean inside. I open the water tap, count to seven, close it. I pull out the shower head out of my butt, count to 120 or 180, then go to toilet. I used to use a douche but the rubber broke. Fortunately it came with 2 shower head replacements, so I unscrew the regular one and screw in a plastic head for douching. Be careful not to lose the rubber seal/washer/gasket.