Prostate Orgasm Side Effects - Need Help

I haven't had exactly what you've described, but I have had sensations that wouldn't stop when I wanted them to.
For me, I consider it a case of mind over matter. In short, I will the sensations to stop, and help that process along physically by sitting upright, busying myself with an activity, or what ever else helps in the moment.
I think what makes it worse for me is to be anxious about it. It can be deeply alarming to feel things like that, that I can't control. But if I allow it to make me worried, then it'll become harder to ignore and tune-out... which is exactly what I need to do in those situations.
It's a bit like that old line: "Don't think about a purple elephant". Once that gets into your head, you can't help but think about it.
So, I'd say try to find something that works in the short term, and keep doing that. I don't know whether you eventually learn to exert mental control over it, or whether it calms down on its own once you leave it to relax. I suspect a mixture of both... and you have to interrupt a self-perpetuating cycle.

I think the worst time this happened to me, I couldn't lie down without my head launching into these orgasmic surges, and I was kept awake for hours. In the end, I got to sleep by remaining more upright... I propped my back up with pillows and watched TV shows on my tablet. Which is like what I talked about before... the physical remedy and something to take your mind off what's going on. I think panicking about it just gets your nervous system all excited, or something? So my attitude is always to just ignore it, know that it's not going to go on forever, you haven't broken anything, and you just have to mentally step away from it and let it gradually spin-down on its own.

I think something most of us here would agree on, is that sensations you focus on become stronger. So it's pretty much the opposite of that.

I sympathize with your predicament... we're really on the edge of what anyone understands about orgasm. I mean, people in college are probably still being taught that only women can be multi-orgasmic. It's such a weird place to be.

@OrgasmHell do you happen to have a link to these erotic hypnosis files? I shall proceed at my own risk...

Usually, when I get "prostate horny" I will relieve the (Aless) prostate spasms with a session. That almost always calms things down. So my question for you now is: Would you consider getting an Aneros massager and trying it out?

If you don't want to try it, then I would agree with @Clenchy when he said:
"So my attitude is always to just ignore it, know that it's not going to go on forever, you haven't broken anything, and you just have to mentally step away from it and let it gradually spin-down on its own."

I have experienced other vague symptoms that might be associated with my prostate. But they always resolve on their own; they are not persistent nor permanent.

Good luck to you!

@OrgasmHell The first year of my starting prostate play was at first fun then it turned into something else in which there was no off button. Driving to work, driving back home from work, watching tv, pretty much sitting anywhere became an orgasmic escapade especially if I was by myself. I did get a worried and worked myself into some panic attacks. Even before prostate play my sleep quality was already not that great but during this period it certainly exacerbated the problem. During the panicky period it was certainly a love to hate relationship. Tried to quit the prostate play a few times but damn was that difficult and I ultimately would give in.

Now, I never had any forehead pressure my stuff was all in the prostate and seemed to be always be in "on" mode. Pretty much an annoying but yet really pleasurable buzz and it was never painful or uncomfortable. But as others have noted no two people seem to react the same to this activity but this forum have given me a certain level of comfort. Some people have good experiences and some people just ok experience. As for me somewhere between 6 months to a year things seem to really mellow out. As in the constant buzzing stopped and life more or less returned back to normal. What did help is coming to a certain level of understanding with the change that had occurred in my body.

Hang in there, I do believe things will get better. Your body just has to get acclimated to the new reality.

@Clenchy Thanks for the advice - I have tried sleeping upright myself and whilst it is slightly better, it makes my knees ache which sucks, so I'm stuck with lying down. But over the last week or so, I have been trying to actually live my life more (rather than just sitting around worrying about this) and have noticed that when I'm busy, not thinking about it, it is certainly less bothersome, so attempting to ignore it definitely seems the best way to go.

@goldenboy I really don't want to do anything that might make this situation worse - I feel like if I started using an Aneros (which if I wasn't going through this, I would be perfectly comfortable considering) it might further normalise this feeling to my mind, thereby prolonging this situation for me.

@hazy86 Thanks for your comment - its good to know that this has passed for others, so could pass for me. Since it stopped, have you continued using your Aneros and having super orgasms? Or did you quit all together? I ask as, if this does stop, I have intended to just abandon the super orgasm experience for fear of going through this again.

To everyone who has commented, having experienced similar symptoms, what would your advice be regarding masturbation/porn? Does it make things better, worse, or neither?

Thanks for taking the time to offer your help and advice!

@OrgasmHell I would like to add a couple of things. First, IMHO when your prostate is "re-awakened" you will feel a low-level "energy" coming from it most of the time. I do now, especially when sitting down. But I don't dwell on it and it subsides. And as @hazy86 said you need to realize that changes are occurring in your body (prostate) and you will adjust.

Now regarding masturbation and porn, I would like to turn this back to you: what is YOUR experience? You should notice something either WRT the "refractory period" or your arousal level. BTW, do you listen to any binaural beats for erection and/or ejaculation? If you do, do you notice any changes in the way your prostate feels? Good luck again and let us know of your progress!

Well if hypnosessions did this maybe you should visit someone who does hypnosis and have them undo it. Like "your prostate is calm, it is relaxed" or something

This brings back memories. I'm 54 now, but I was 27 at the time. Grad student. On weekends after getting my work done, I'd de-stress sexually. Masturbation was too quick. I was a virgin in those days. I bought the ESO book and I got heavily into hands free auto eroticism. Spent hours and hours with that. I did get to the point where I was having spasms leading to repeated dry orgasms almost continually. I did seek medical advice. The doctor did note that my blood pressure was running rather high so she ordered an ECG and a stress ECG to make sure my heart was ok. It was. With anything sinister ruled out, she said it was likely a stress issue and that my self-pleasure attempts had been hijacked by an already stressed person [grad school makes a lot of people stressed]. She gave me a couple options: to try to relax from all this secure in the knowledge that I was healthy or to do that plus take some medication to relax.

I can understand where you are coming from and why. I have done the hypnoaneros sessions and others before with the an aneros. I have been rewired for a long time and understand the problems. Sitting in a moving car, watching a movie, reading or anything could set off the PC muscles to contract. I can willfully contract the PC muscle group and cause dry-os, but I can also cycle the energy into creating waves of pleasure throughout my body since learning meditation. My problem was that I was keeping the PC muscles contracted most of the time since getting close to a Super-O with the Aneros and my conscious mind screwing with me over the pleasure. It even affected my bathroom habits. I had to learn to relax all over again, but that was only half of it because it was uncomfortable to even sit on anything.

One thing I had to accept was my penis wasn't the only way I liked and desired sexual pleasure anymore. In the back of my mind was that unconscious voice telling me nothing was wrong with it from the hypnoaneros sessions, but my conscious mind (ego) was still telling me it was wrong and it made me a homosexual somehow. It wasn't until I began to accept "anal" wasn't this evil sin I had been brought up with and it didn't make me gay, that I slowly began to relax the PC muscles again and start getting in tune with what my rewired body wanted to show me.

Instead of fighting it one time try to relax into it. Let the sensations build and don't be afraid of what happens. Fear and stress are what will keep the PC muscles contracted then any pressure and BAM. They go off. Learn Kegals and practice them. (Seems like you might have been.) Understand that there are more pleasures in the body than even what you know now. Seek out how to calm your mind and body through meditation or relaxation techniques.

Some hypnosessions are not for everyone and can linger (if done wrong or without proper knowledge) in the mind continually unless a stop phrase or word is used. I have seen this in people. This is why I like the hypnoaneros sessions. They have a control phrase that I can think of at times to make my body relax and turn off the memories of the session. It does work. Find out if your hypnosessions have an off phrase or word. One might be missing it. One could be what is also keeping you in an aroused state too. Remember, hypnosis doesn't control the mind and body, it simply allows the hypnotized to do something if they wish it. When we sit and relax we allow the mind to blank which can turn on a broken hypnosis session if not ended. Still, a hypnosis session without an off phrase or counter word is courting danger.

The euphoria you are feeling with the mild visions you are seeing come from the sacral plexus chakra's power. You head throbs because of the crown chakra bouncing it back since it too is open. In meditation, we would tell you to concentrate on closing off the crown some until you had this under control. This is usually only possible through advanced meditation techniques but can be done through hypnosis too.

I wish you well, OrgasmHell.

I listened to a file which encouraged the listeners to flex their prostate muscle throughout the course of the session. This file gave me the most intense hands free orgasm(s) I have ever had in my life - it was amazing, so, the next night, I listened to the file again and had the same experience.

@OrgasmHell Using the Aneros I have had similar issues. Whenever I'm still, there is this constant "buzz" from my prostate. When I wake in the morning, my prostate wants to orgasm. When I take a nap my prostate wants to orgasm. When in bed my prostate wants to orgasm.

I solve this by physically moving or mentally changing.

When I wake in the morning, if I want to sleep longer, I mentally tell myself I want to sleep. If it's time to get up, I get right up and don't give my prostate the time get going. When I take a nap I mentally tell myself I want to sleep (sometimes allow an orgasm at the end of a nap :D). When I go to bed at night the same, I mentally tell myself I want to sleep.

Like you, initially this interrupted my sleep pattern.

It took a while, but this eventually solved the problem.

Also, would you share the link to this erotic hypnosis file? At my own risk of course. I'm open to these challenges.

@OrgasmHell Using the Aneros I have had similar issues. Whenever I'm still, there is this constant "buzz" from my prostate. When I wake in the morning, my prostate wants to orgasm. When I take a nap my prostate wants to orgasm. When in bed my prostate wants to orgasm.

I solve this by physically moving or mentally changing.

When I wake in the morning, if I want to sleep longer, I mentally tell myself I want to sleep. If it's time to get up, I get right up and don't give my prostate the time get going. When I take a nap I mentally tell myself I want to sleep (sometimes allow an orgasm at the end of a nap :D). When I go to bed at night the same, I mentally tell myself I want to sleep.

Like you, initially this interrupted my sleep pattern.

It took a while, but this eventually solved the problem.

Also, would you share the link to this erotic hypnosis file? At my own risk of course. I'm open to these challenges.

Careful...the name OrgasmHell is advice in and of itself, and no joke! It's like the stories of these women that have constant uncontrollable orgasms throughout the day. If it is unwanted, it is disruptive and can be debilitating! This stuff needs to be kept *in control* or it turns into a nasty self inflicted handicap!