Here are a few questions for the experts on this topic:
How does prostate milking affect your sessions? Does it improve it or is it irrelevant?
If yes, does the frequency of milking affect the outcome of your sessions?
Does milking a prostate more frequently increase health benefits more so than on occasions?
@GGringo I have been doing regular prostate milking since starting with male chastity about a month ago. I need to do it in conjunction with semen retention/chastity; otherwise I am prone to "blue balls". I have noticed a reduction in BPH symptoms almost right away. I now do milking about every 3-4 days (twice a week). I blogged about a recent session today. For me, milking is about getting fluid out of my system; the pleasure it brings is not irrelevant but a welcome treat! These "milking sessions" seem to provide a focus for prostate stimulation for me.
Goldenboy: I see from your blog you do prostate milkiing with a special HIH toy you have just purchased. Can any aneros toy milk the prostate or should we invest in the one you have or the ones I have seen on Amazon and/or the net. What is the benefit you are finding with the HIH toy you ordered.
Also, can you describe how the welcome treat pleasure you experience in prostate milking compares to say a super O you have. Inquiring minds want to know.
@Turnrow Interesting question! I like the HIH 950 because it always seems to gently milk more fluid out of my system than my Aneros toys. The only massager that did this before was the HIH PS-NEW but it caused me to get sore pretty much all the time I used it. Not so with the 950. I guess the trade-off is that Super-O's I have experienced, say with the Helix Classic or the Eupho Classic seemed much more intense than the feelings from the 950. But the sensations are still great!
Thanks goldenboy. I always enjoy reading your posts and your blog. You seem to have discovered the fountain of youth and are a teenager once again. I think you said you are in your mid sixties and I am about five years or so beyond you. Probably, in your present rewired state, you are beyond your teen years experiences. You seem to be driven by arousal in all of its forms that you capitolize on, having the aneros toys and your A LESS sessions consume you with pleasure while you relax and enjoy the wonderful involuntary pleasure that is going on in your body, not being provoked by anything necessarily that you do.
I think that every man secretly desires to have his body ravished involuntarily with pleasure that he cant contain. I think that in our sex lives as men, we are always hopeful that our wives take us to new places by their ravishing our bodies and pushing us to the brink of sexual containment. The aneros to me seems to fulfil a mans desire to be ravished to the max and beyond with orgasmic pleasure. You seem to be there and I am on your trail, techpumps trail, and others on this website who are experiencing pleasure beyond their limitations involuntarily. Thanks again.
How does prostate milking affect your sessions?
Prostate milking definitely reduces my arousal level. As such, if I perform a prostate milking immediately prior to beginning an Anerosession, I am almost assured I will have no Super-O (or dry-O's for that matter) or anywhere near the pleasure intensity I might otherwise enjoy. I've learned to do prostate milking following an Anerosession or at an entirely different time. While prostate milking does decrease my arousal level it does NOT do it to the extent that it causes the hormonal cascade and refractory period caused by a typical ejaculation. Hence, it is my preferred way to avoid the 'blue balls' syndrome to which @goldenboy alluded.
Does it improve it or is it irrelevant?
Yes, I think it is relevant in the sense that it can have a negative impact when performed prior to one's Anerosession as I just noted above.
If yes, does the frequency of milking affect the outcome of your sessions?
Generally speaking, for myself, the first Anerosession following (within 24 hours) a prostate milking is lackluster, not really a 'dud', but lacking P-wave intensity and frequently no dry-O's. So to reduce the occurrence of these lackluster sessions I limit the frequency of my milkings to about 1 per 10 days.
Does milking a prostate more frequently increase health benefits more so than on occasions?
I don't know if there have been any scientific studies specifically investigating the health benefits (or lack thereof) of prostate milking to make any kind of determination with respect to frequency of use. As far as I know prostate milking (not simply prostate massage) may or may not have health benefits, anecdotal evidence suggests that 'milking' may be beneficial for men (who by circumstance) are not able or allowed to ejaculate by typical methods. IMHO, the frequency of prostate milking, like so many aspects of prostate massage practices, is highly variable and dependent on the individual's desires/goals, age, health and relationship status. Good Vibes to You !
@rumel thank you so much for your post. It helps me understand a few things. I was milking almost every second day thinking it would help but I will follow your experience and push back the practice to every 10 days or so. This is the kind of response I was looking for and you, as always, delivered.
Good vibes to all.
Yes, milkings should be an occasional treat rather than a daily occurrence. Anywhere between weekly and twice a month, with every 10 days being the middle ground.
@chastityisland thank you for your input. I value everyone's opinion in my evey move in this journey. All opinions are valuable; they provide ways of doing things we might not have thought of.
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All opinions are valuable; they provide ways of doing things we might not have thought of.
I agree, over the years the topic of prostate milking has occured frequently on this forum and I've often posted links to Lady Lubyanka - Prostate Milking and the blog by Andr. titled HOW TO MILK A BULL. For those of you interested in more information/opinions regarding prostate milking here are some additional links to articles/websites I've run across over the years which I found helpful and/or interesting in my own learning journey.
1.) Self Prostate Milking for Health and Pleasure!
2.) Prostate Massage/Milking
The male chastity community has developed a more focused interest in milking techniques/variations due to their limitation of traditional ejaculatory orgasms, the following links are from such sites.
3.) Male Chastity Milking (Three Fun Ways to Do It)
4.) Different Male Milking Techniques for More Control
5.) A Lazy Domme's Guide - Prostate Milking
It seems every year there are more new articles extolling the merits of prostate milking so I guess the tide of social taboos against this activity is slowly changing. Good Vibes to You !
For me, about twice a week works well, since my wife is unavailable except for once a week. Sometimes, I can manage three times a week. It does seem to help.
i actually enjoyed getting my prostate milked around twice a week by my wife, with no penile stimulation. usually, ended up with total of 3-5 drops of fluid leaked at the end of the session
What does milking feel like? Is it amazing? And what's the feeling comparison to aneros? Is it harder to learn than Aneros usage? Thanks.
@GGringo, she's odd about it; she sometimes is playful about it, but usually acts disgusted and repulsed by it. Other times, she pretends that I don't have them, and is surprised and offended when she 'rediscovers' them. So, needless to say, I'm somewhat perplexed by her reaction to my Aneros use. I won't quit, because it's been so helpful in building P-muscle strength.
For me, milking has a gentle, mildly erotic flavor accompanied by a great feeling of peace. After release, I feel energized rather than the feeling of being drained which comes with ejaculation. Definitely do it after aneros sessions, rather than before, because after a good milking I feel like a content monk and it takes a few days for my libido to return.
What does milking feel like? Is it amazing? And what's the feeling comparison to aneros? Is it harder to learn than Aneros usage? Thanks.
i could not speak for others, based on my own exp, it is really amazing only after i learnt to feel from my prostate (prostate awakening). Else, thr will be no pleasure coming from that alone, same goes to using aneros.
I could not say which one is better, sometimes aneros gave me better orgasm while the other time, i am longing for my prostate to be milked by my wife and have powerful multiple orgasm.
I agree, over the years the topic of prostate milking has occured frequently on this forum and I've often posted links to
3.) Male Chastity Milking (Three Fun Ways to Do It)
4.) Different Male Milking Techniques for More Control
5.) A Lazy Domme's Guide - Prostate Milking
This is the first time i have been introduced to chastity. After go thru all the url posted, i only realize that coincidentally, what my wife and I are doing is actually practicing some kind of 'milder' male chastity here
instead the chastity device, i would wear a briefs, kneel over with pillow supporting my chest or lying on my back and she will massage and milk me with my briefs on until orgasm, without penis stimulation(to prevent traditional orgasm) for the whole session. Usually, i would have around 5-7 prostate orgasm before exhausted and at the end of the milking, my briefs will be stained with those clear, watery prostate fluid