Hello, I’m new to the whole prostate stimulation thing. I don’t think I really knew what I was getting into when I ordered the progasm classic (black). It was on a different websites store and had positive reviews, and I was interested in trying a new sensation. I have had some minor experience with anal play, but no experience with prostate stimulation. I have no trouble getting it inside me, and it is pleasant from a pure anal play/penetration standpoint. However, I have received no new sensations from it. If it is doing anything to my prostate, I honestly can’t tell. Is this normal? I have tried it probably 5 or 6 long sessions now, and it mostly just feels like a long butt plug. Any feedback or tips would be greatly appreciated, and perhaps recommendations on what I need to use if I’m just looking for some simple pleasurable prostate stimulation.
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Yeh, I had the same impression for a while.
Here is what you need to do - pony up for a helix and a eupho and let them lead the way to discovery. They'll help you learn how to open up, spreading your butt cheeks, so they can roam free.
Once you are able to easily let them go wild, perhaps in a year or two, come back to the Prograsm. If you wait the for the right amount of experience to get under your belt, it will seem like a whole new toy.
I started with a Progasm, and have never used anything else. It's worked well for me.
I think I had about 3 sessions when I first got it before I felt anything and was just about to give up.
Couple of things you could try to start those first sensations kicking off, and once you start to notice them and can lock onto them you won't look back. Bear in mind that everyone is different these may or may not work for you.
1) DEEP breathing. I mean about as deep as you can possibly go, breathing through your nose. I always imagine the breath going up into my nostrils (imagine pulling the sensation upwards) or the back of the throat (that can be a really good one). With the Progasm in place do some squeezes, then breath in and keep breathing in until you feel like you can't get any more air into your lungs with your chest and abdomen fully expanded. Hold it there a moment and do some squeezes, see if you can get a few more mls of air in. You might find this triggers something. If it doesn't work try it again. When I do it I feel as if I am capturing an orgasmic sensation from thin air at the back of my nose - sounds strange but it works very well for me!
2) Breathe out as far as you can whilst pushing deep into your pelvis. Not sure why all of this breathing stuff works but I'm sure it's making some connection between your prostate and the central nervous system, possibly stimulating the vagus nerve.
3) Get turned on before you try to use the Progasm. The first time I actually felt anything I had been looking at porn first and was quite turned on.
And whatever you do concentrate on feeling something. It might be very mild and fleeting first time and you really need to notice it and lock into the feeling.
Hope you get some results!
PS just remembered one other thing - I might get jumped on by more experienced members for suggesting this - but when I get no sensation I normally just pull the P tab forwards a bit, or turn the Progasm a few degrees one way or the other. This makes it contact the prostate just slightly differently and trigger a new sensation and can often propel me from nothing straight into another orgasm. Variety helps.
PS just remembered one other thing - I might get jumped on by more experienced members for suggesting this - but when I get no sensation I normally just pull the P tab forwards a bit, or turn the Progasm a few degrees one way or the other. This makes it contact the prostate just slightly differently and trigger a new sensation and can often propel me from nothing straight into another orgasm. Variety helps.
Get this guy ! Call the Aneros police ! He touched the tab ! *mind-blown emoji*
Seriously I don't think there's anything wrong with ajusting things a little during a session or moving the tab a few times to get things going as long as you're doing it gently, it's better to try this than to end your session with nothing. Something else you can try which is similar is to caress just around the stem without touching it, using one finger on each side, this can sometimes nudge things forward. @smudgefish is right, variety is important.