Progasm help!!!!-gctid141384

Just dont touch your penis.
This stuff takes time to learn and use and get better.
Do some light PC contractons, take note of what you feel (if anything). Then do stronger contractions. See if there's any difference. Go back to light contractions. Hold contractions longer, do fast contractions etc etc etc. There are things you can do and explore things.
Just don't touch your penis.

Get aroused! TOUCH yourself where you like it most EXCEPT your penis. THINK! As your mind is your main sex organ, use it. Try to remember your best blow job, your best f*ck, your best kick from sex ever, try to remember every detail, the sweetest spot where you would love to feel the same sensations right now. Now FOCUS on this spot, dream your memory. THINK it's happening again right now. Try to BREATH how you did breath when that sex explosion happened, LET GO and let your body take over, WATCH and SENSE, whether any involuntary motions or even breathing is controlled by your body, try to HELP your body the way it wants to move, but only very slightly. WAIT again, LISTEN and REPEAT. BE PATIENT! If involuntary movements come to a rest, don't think it's over, wait at least 10 to 30 seconds, whether your body takes another run. After 30 seconds tickle your body a bit or focus on another memory or visualize some erotic fantasy. HUM loudly and feel the vibrations in your body, try to locate the vibrations. HUM on various tone pitches and try to locate reactions in your body. AVOID any EXPECTATIONS. TRY AGAIN every day or as often as you like but don't insist on any success and it will come to you earlier as you had expected. Good luck and good vibes!

If you need to touch something, touch the nipples!

@Pareidolia, Affirmative!

@prostatefun14 , if you have not been into nipple play in the past, this post might help. Good vibes!

It also might help you to READ some blogs of other newbie's first experiences like mine: We Are Prostate. Resistance Is Futile. and of course many other's. I read some longer blogs beginning with the first post - it felt like living twice and it's giving comfort to see others stumbling as well.

But you should always keep in mind, everybody's preconditions are unique, so are his likes and dislikes and so will be his individual journey to his individual realm of bliss. Good luck!

READ more?

I would suggest a search for 'PDF The Multi-OrgasmicMan'!
And of course I recommend my new "Bilble of Bliss": "Urban Tantra" by Barbara Carrellas.

I've never understood the don't touch your penis thing. To be honest, that advice probably held me back years in achieving a Super-O. If you are just relaxed, and focused on the feelings, it feels good and heightens arousal to just slowly stroke your cock and feel how hard it is. Like, don't go to town, but see how your prostate feels and swells as you get more aroused. Just go slow, and if you are starting to feel like you are getting close to ejaculating, just go slower.

I guess when learning it could be hard to tell the difference between getting close to ejaculating vs. getting close to orgasm. But if you have a good strong PC muscle and some control, I don't think that advice should apply to everyone. But I think I'm in the minority with that view.

Progasm needs some powerful lube, like silicone lube, and apply quite a lot of it. It also needs stronger kegel muscles, otherwise you can't maintain the good rhythm.

If you're not using a "syn" model (made out of silicone - and I think there's no such variant of Progasm currently), silicone lube is the way to go. But silicone lube will damage your toy if you use it with a silicone (syn) version.

FOr me the most effective progasm positions are doggy, and on my back with legs spread and knees bent. It's not effective while kneeling because of gravity.