Premature ejeculation after prostate massage use

@lee92,

I would continue the Helix Syn V use in sessions alone without touching the penis.  When I insert my device (same one) I start out doing Kegels with belly breathing.  I breath in while puffing out my belly slowly (maybe a 5 count) then exhale while trying to pull my penis up & in for a 5 count. This pulls the Helix Syn V against my prostate, warms it up.  I do about ten of these and relax, then repeat as I feel to need.   I do this on my back in front of a mirror, to get the feedback and clearly visualize myself.  Some time I get up on my knees, ass facing the mirror and look into the mirror back through my legs and do the belly breathed Kegels.  I can see the penis lifting up and down, and the drips or oozing of pre-cum starting to form on the head of my penis.  I try not to touch it, but easier said than done, because I am a masturbator too.

My wife says that since starting prostate massages over a year and a half ago, and having HoLEP surgery for an oversized prostate, my orgasms and ejaculations are more intense.  She focuses on the feeling in my perineum.  This may cause an explosion in me and I like to yell when I cum.  I am not sure it happens faster, but it does happen with more intensity now, and she loves it.  So I do not worry for now.  I have the urges to do the prostate massage because it is relaxing and I ooze cum.  It is my decision and I control that to masturbate at not, and most of the time I do not in order to save myself for my wife.  I think the decision to do that is easy and, in my control, even if I become erect during the massage, because the pleasure of seeing an erect penis in Kegels is more satisfying than satisfying the urge to ejaculate, hence masturbate.  It is purely mental.

Try it and see, and I would like the feedback from you, Lee92.  Cheers!