During my Aneros sessions I mostly always have an erection, especially during any good feelings which to me is a subtle pleasure at the base of my penis/perenium, I don't see to feel anything anywhere else. This feeling is very similar to what you get when you are building towards a traditional orgasm. It does build to a certain point but then I have an urge to voluntarily contract my PC muscle (Like I'm expecting a normal orgasm) which in turn makes my penis bounce, this distracts me and I lose all of the buildup I had.
It feels like every session I get so close but either get anxious of that amount of pleasure, cannot fully relax into it so I contract and lose it, or I stay at that point for a while and get frustrated because it plateaus while my penis is really erect and on the very edge of orgasm, but I never achieve it so the pleasure just fizzles out and I feel underwhelmed and finish manually.
Does anybody have anything similar / advice?
@TekWiz Lately when I do my sessions, I wear a lightweight swimmer's jockstrap. This not only keeps my cock under control if I get an erection, but it makes it impossible to even see it. As most Aneros guys will tell you, just keep your penis out of the prostate stim sessions. No matter what it is doing, just stay focused. If you do not ejaculate during a session, okay, just let it go. BTW, what do you mean by "finish manually"? You don't have to achieve an ejaculation with every prostate orgasm!
@TekWiz I can relate to your feelings. I would just recommend during those times of very high pleasure and "on the edge feeling" to remember to breathe and become aware of your ENTIRE body, not just where the highest voltage of pleasure is. SometimIt really helps me to surrender to what my body is feeling and let the body take me where it wants to go. Let the pleasure take you on the ride fueled by breathe and relaxation along the way. The feelings of surrendering to the pleasure and not caring what comes next really helps to open the pathway to more full-body pleasure. ... and then, sometimes all the stars align, and the SUPER-O!... cums to visit 🙂
@Neuro I fully agree. It works the same way for me. It takes practise how to really let go. After 5 years it has become relatively easy.
That's great @gdunn! RELAXING is a lifetime lesson. My best Aneros sessions have always been in the right RELAXED frame of mind.
having an erection is normal during the session is normal. I do have erection when i am reaching climax from aneros. but i have learnt to ignore any signal from the erected penis. I could go and touch it and i could feel no pleasure stemming from there. I have trained my mind to read from the pleasure from the internal massage instead.
You are not alone. As a pre-teen my first pleasure discovery was the intersection of my pubic "fat pad" and the base of my shaft. @artform has also spoken in forum about the pleasures of that spot. Some toy manufacturers have catered to the joy it can provide from massage or vibration.
For the time being I'd suggest shifting some of your stim action to alternate erogenous spots such as your nipples. Later on in your re-wiring you might return to pubis-land to regenerate a session. Since the Male Deer Exercise is applied just 'North' of this this spot, you might use it to expand sexual energy into your Dan Tien and upwards into your Heart Chakra.