Recently ordered the pair of Peridise. I didn't use them right away because upon inspection I thought they were too small to do anything. Boy was I wrong. I've used them twice, both sizes in the same session. Both sizes give medium p-waves within minutes. I've done 30 minutes with each size and then switch to the progasm ice. This combination drives me wild. Still no intense super-o (or even dry-o) but after 90 minutes I am so horny I can't stand it. Both times I had to end with a super t and boy was it super. Another new development is that I have been dripping pre-cum like crazy with the peridise. A few times I touched the tip of my penis just to see how much is dripping out and I noticed my penis has a super erotic tingly sensation running through it. I wouldn't have noticed if I hadn't touched, which I try not to do. Wow, things have ratcheted up a few notches. I only wish I had the discipline to not super-t at the end. These new feelings are driving me wild and are unbearable. I believe that if I want to progress, I have to find a way to hold back. I just can't find a way to do it. The sensations are just too much. On one hand I feel bad that I don't have the discipline to hold off so that I can progress with my rewiring. On the other hand I feel that it's probably ok to enjoy myself even if I make no further progression. The truth is, If I do not progress any farther, it has still been one hell of a ride. For that reason I'm not going to beat myself up. If anybody has any tips or tricks on how to resist the urge to finish with a super-t please let me know.
Well, i recently decided not to ejaculate anymore when using aneros in order to speed up the rewiring process. It does take some discipline to end a session without ejaculation, but i always try to keep in mind my goal: to achieve a super o. By ejaculating, i feel i am obstructing that goal. Aside from that, i learned to appreciate the pleasure i get from an aneros session without the final ejaculation. And i appreciate the fact that no refractory period sets in after the session. When i use the toilet hours after my session, I'll sometimes see threads of precum dripping from my penis and it instantly turns me on again :). Also i Will feel that my prostate is still swollen from arousal. This is a nice after effect i dont have if i ejaculate at the end of a session. I hope this will help a bit!
I end my sessions when the several Os have just worn me out...yes...I'm extremely horny and would love to shoot a big load...but I try to tell myself that it's better to save the sexual energy that the session has created for the next session and my daily activities...although I must admit that I'm not 100% successful...I'd say my super T rate is about 10%.
@roygbiv, I truly can feel with you. It's hard to withstand. But as with taking a cold shower, you alone are the one to pull the warm water plug. Perhaps it can help to handle it step by step to get an idea of the benefit. By myself again on day 18 of semen retention I feel arousal all day and would suggest to start with SR for only one (though it might become a quite long) day. Enjoy some pleasure with your new friends "from peridise" but don't dare to get near the point where you usually start masturbating. Instead take a rest, at least for an hour. Then start over again. If you already can get pleasure from Aless do that next time. Promise yourself you won't shoot your load before sundown. Until then enjoy your arousal and think of it as your aim, not of those few seconds of cumming. And go on doing more sessions all the day. I just get extremely horny while writing this. Hanging the fruits higher and higher can lead you to a maximum of desire, making you drip precum in lustful anticipation. Perhaps the other day you want to keep your semen until next sunrise. I do wish you success, because it's worth it.
At least I want to mention another approach. With edgemeplease and for example looking for "cock hero frenzy" on p*rnhub you can receive orders and give away control, as you will be told whether you're allowed to cum or not. Especially my exercises on edgemeplease have been very helpful to me to achieve my goal of one full month of sr as I coped with lately.
Good luck and have fun!
My thoughts were the same when I saw the Peridise pair - what are those little guys good for? Was expecting something with larger bulbs! Have only had one short session and man was I wrong! Takes some time to relax and learn to control each sphincter muscle but the rewards are mind blowing! Recommend the Tempo as well which helps to learn the muscle control! Spending hours of complete enjoyment!
[...] Was expecting something with larger bulbs! [...] Recommend the Tempo as well [...]
Yes, indeed, size isn't always all that's matters. The Tempo needs some patience until you know how to ride it, or let's say it knows how to ride you. 😉 I do love it.
My thoughts were the same when I saw the Peridise pair - what are those little guys good for? Was expecting something with larger bulbs! Have only had one short session and man was I wrong! Takes some time to relax and learn to control each sphincter muscle but the rewards are mind blowing! Recommend the Tempo as well which helps to learn the muscle control! Spending hours of complete enjoyment!
Can you please elaborate on the sphincter muscle control you mentioned?
Are you focusing on relaxing the sphincters, or?
Each sphincter can open diffferent enjoyment for you. Contracting and relaxing the inner sphincter which is located about two inches inside the anal canal is necessary to move the Peridise or Tempo and can lead to anal orgasm which feels awesome! You can practice with the toy in or not (aless). Contracting and relaxing the outer sphincter will also provide much pleasure and tingling sensations and eventually spasms leading to an anal orgasm as well. Practice controlled breathing along with the sphincter movement and you'll be amazed what can happen!
I am also trying to experiment more with the Peridise after initially feeling it wasn't worthwhile. I have a couple questions: 1) About how far in and out will it usually move? 2) It seems from what I've read that the larger size is the "beginners" and the smaller is for after you've gotten used to it. Why is this? It seems a bit counterintuitive.
Each sphincter can open diffferent enjoyment for you. Contracting and relaxing the inner sphincter which is located about two inches inside the anal canal is necessary to move the Peridise or Tempo and can lead to anal orgasm which feels awesome! You can practice with the toy in or not (aless). Contracting and relaxing the outer sphincter will also provide much pleasure and tingling sensations and eventually spasms leading to an anal orgasm as well. Practice controlled breathing along with the sphincter movement and you'll be amazed what can happen!
Can you elaborate how you learned to control the inner sphincter? I always thought it was not under voluntary control.
The inner sphincter is controlled thru focused breathing and muscle control. You'll find that a lighter control will move the inner sphincter while a more intense control or contraction will move the outer sphincter as well. Through focused breathing and contraction you'll begin to notice the difference and be able to move the Peridise or Tempo back and forth.
Movement is usually from the outer sphincter to just beyond the inner sphincter but will vary from person to person. The smaller one is for more advanced users as you develope experience.