I am a newbie when it comes to anything anal. I recently bought the helix and one of the first things I've noticed was the peeing sensation on the milestone list. I was happy to see that I was making progress; it took me a few days to insert the helix without pain, and then a few more to insert it without any discomfort. Well I started to get that gotta pee feeling, and was working on some contractions, I could feel this pressure building up. At first, in my ignorance, I thought this was a p-wave. I got caught up in the contractions, and this feeling was becoming more and more pleasurable. After doing this for a minute or two, I thought I was about to cum. Thinking I had hit the jackpot, I decided to go where ever the feelings took me. This is where I forcibly pissed all over myself. Once I realized it was piss I tried to stop, but there was no stopping it. Fortunately, I was in the tub and it didn't really matter.
What am I doing wrong? Asides from these weird feelings of peeing, and then actually peeing, I have had no real sensations from my device.
Any ideas?
It's a good idea to have a good empty out before a session, both bladder and rectum.
I did empty out both. I don't really know where it came from, but I did empty it.
MMO_RPGlol,
You're probably not doing anything "wrong" per se, it may be just a bit of overlooked prep work.
Early on in my learning journey I encountered a similar experience. I had urinated prior to starting a Progasm Anerosession, about 30 min. into that session as I was doing some contraction then relaxation exercises, I was feeling some really nice P-waves so I relaxed into them even more and discovered I was also experiencing some alternate "Pee" waves. Needless to say I was a bit embarrassed over this little accident but learned a good lesson as well.
Even though I had emptied my bladder prior to session start I had also drunk a cup of coffee and a cup of tea less than a half hour before starting that session. This new volumn of liquid had not yet been processed through the kidneys and into the bladder so, as anyone can surmise, 30 min. into my session my bladder is ready to relieve itself again. Henceforth, when planning to have an Anerosession, I make sure I don't drink any fluids one hour before the session and always drain my bladder immediately prior to the session. I haven't had a repeat episode of "Pee" waves since.
Good Vibes to You !
rumel,
Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it. I wasn't sure if I was doing something completely wrong or just missing something simple. I hope to stay dry from now on!
In a long session, I will occasionally interrupt "play" as it were, to go an relieve myself. I don't mind - I get some nice mini-orgasms as I pee (it is the movement of those PC muscles that does it), and then I can return to the game completely unaffected.
Squeezing PC muscles, and then relaxing them, is quite likely to allow the release of urine if it is present, which is something that guys into water sports know all about (not my personal experience you understand - O:-)), especially if they want to pee with an erection.
This kind of experience is all part of life's rich tapestry. I'd suggest you go with the flow
:))
I'd suggest you go with the flow
...but try not to cause one. 😉
Linum,
Wait. Could That be what I felt? A mini-orgasm? Because it did seriously feel good. Not just "ah relievin' my self good". It felt really good, but I may have discounted it because it was pee. If that is the case, then is that a feeling I can expect to feel more in the future? I have been trying to stay away from that feeling out of fear of soaking my bed. Should I not try and fight that feeling?
It could easily have been a mini-orgasm - or even a full blown one - the difference is only the relative intensity after all. I get them all the time while I pee, and recently for the other too :)) Life is very strange!
If that is what it was, you are further on than you thought.
I don't tend to get the "need to go for a pee" sensation now, unless I actually need to go for a pee. Best empty out, and avoid having drinks an hour before, as Rumel suggested, and then definitely don't fight any sensations that come to you.
Good luck - life is often stranger than fiction.
I echo Linum. I did daily 40 minute sessions over the last year. One in ten I interrupted by going to pee. (I've changed my routine to 15 minute sessions. So now the interruption isn't happening as often.)
Hello MMO_RPGlol!
Nice to read from a another new user. Me myself is new to this. My first session was 7 days ago.
I had a similar situation in my first session. I had also other bad experience of stingy feelings. If you like you can read about it in this thread: https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14351/2-sessions-bad-and-good. It also have information about my 2nd session and maybe it can give you an insite, a spark to your fire of what might happen.
Back to what you asked about. "What am I doing wrong?" I do not think you are doing anything wrong!
Even if im new at this I have a very small experince from different sensations. The urinate sensasion to me was actually both plessure and discomfort. But I did'nt know that then, now I know. I stopped that session because of the circimstances of urinate sensation and stingy sensation ( no good lube). Im pretty sure that if I had gone back to the bed after I urinated and if I had not had that stingy sensation that particular session would had better results.
Like the recommendation in this thread. Dont drink coffe or tea before, it's diuretic wich make you to urge to urinate more often. Me personally, if I feel like having a session today. I take my last coffee after dinner round 18:00, and dont drink soda, Coca cola or any other drinks except for water this evening, and the last glass of water I drink is 1 hour before the session. And I empty my bladder just before my session.
Good luck to your new journey!
/Malmo
Thanks for the reply Malmo! I remember reading that thread a while ago :)I have gotten the urinating sensation under control and have actually finally experienced some sort of tingly sensations as of yesterday. At one point, I am sure it was a P-wave! The journey is happening and im pretty pumped for whereever it decides to take me!