Paul's Progress. Aneros is frustrating sometimes

I'm a newbie at this, but I think your assumption is spot-on, your frustration & expectations are what's holding things back.

Unbind your mind!

Hopefully then it's not because I've worn out my prostate. 🙂
The feeling is so beautiful I want to have it every day.
Maybe less is more.

I'm desperate for that fantastic feeling but it just won't come.

A desperate mental state is not conducive to generating prostate based orgasms! Early successes can set up unrealistic expectations. Frustration is the result of expectations not being met, when you start dropping your expectations I suspect your frustrations will abate with them.

Anyone got any ideas. I assume I am just trying too hard or I'm tiring out my prostate !

Yeah, you probably are trying too hard, I would recommend you read the thread "Just Let Go !". As regards tiring out your prostate, it is possible you may have temporarily desensitized yourself but with a few days rest it should be fine.

Pretty sure it's all in my mind.

YUP, well 90%+ anyway. Remember to relax, this is supposed to be a fun, pleasure generating activity, not something to drive you mad with frustration trying to achieve some elusive mythic goal. Just accept what your body wants to give you when it wants to give it to you.
Good Vibes to You !

@paulpeterson , it seems you are falling in a mind trap. The fact you are thinking about what you no longer have puts additional expectations in your mind. You find yourself concentrating on that fact meanwhile you are most likely you're missing the small sensations you are getting .
Get back to basics and restart enjoying every bit of your sessions.

Good luck and may the good vibes return to you.

I concur with the others that your expectations are probably sabotaging your sessions. Though I feel there may be more to it than that. For me, sometimes my body is just not receptive to having a great session every time. I can do everything right, be super relaxed, be in an awesome state of mind, but the sensations just aren't there. Maybe it's hormonal, or I'm tired from my day, lack of dietary nutrition during the day, or other unknown factors. But it's okay because at the very least I'm having a good time relaxing, and it makes me appreciate the times that I DO cum my tits off. The unknown in itself can be exciting. I think we males have been spoiled a little by the predictable nature of penis based orgasms. I'm batting 1.000 for them and I don't think there was ever a time in my life I couldn't have one when I wanted it. Prostate orgasms only happen when your mind AND body are ready, and it's really a beautiful thing. You'll get back as soon as you're ready to let go.