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Yeah, I would like to get one that is most like a live penis. There are a ton on the market. I wouldn't want to pay for something that doesn't fill the bill. For that reason I have paid minimally for a couple that were 2 hard, and I just discarded them.

See that is exactly where i am at with it, i want to order something but am afraid of wasting my money on something that is uncomfortably hard like you are saying. and yes same here want it to look realistic. i was kind of considering one of those mold your own kits cause that would be pretty kinky lol.

i was kind of considering one of those mold your own kits cause that would be pretty kinky lol.

Gives new meaning to the phrase "go fuck yourself."

It seems we are all pretty much pooheads! And aren't all aneros users ass fucking themselves? I think everyone, if could admit it to self, is on a continuum between hetero and homo. After all, sexual pleasure is pretty much one's own feelings, and it doesn't matter if it is coming from contact with another bodily person, giving pleasure to another and receiving, but experiencing one's own erotic sensations. When one feels affection for another, same or opposite sex, sexual feelings can be aroused by the attraction to the other. Taboos prevent us often from acting out on these feelings, or admitting them, even to oneself. Naturally a commitment relationship to some person is another reason, also, from acting out on feelings and attraction to others.
Paul

I highly recommend the "titanman" line made by doc Johnson. Absolutely great quality but not a bank breaking cost. Lots of sizes and shapes to choose from also. if you feel like indulging and making a real investment look at the manufacturer square peg. Hope you find something you enjoy.

... I think everyone, if could admit it to self, is on a continuum between hetero and homo. After all, sexual pleasure is pretty much one's own feelings, and it doesn't matter if it is coming from contact with another bodily person, giving pleasure to another and receiving, but experiencing one's own erotic sensations....
Paul

Interesting you should mention this. Several years ago, I did in fact engage in oral sex with another man a few times. After that I also indulged myself in receiving anal sex. Whilst I find no attraction or connection with men on a sexual level, I was curious to know what it felt like to feel another man's cock. I knew what mine felt like, but I wanted to feel another man's warm, hard cock in my hand, to feel it twitch the way I know it does when approaching climax. Girls have sucked my cock and they generally fall short when it comes to swallowing the length. They don't understand what it means to a man to bury their cock as far as possible. I think it's a fundamental thing for a guy to want to get their hard cock in as far as they can. I regularly watch porn since I left my girlfriend some months ago and I find there are impressive looking cocks and unimpressive ones. Luckily I was working with an impressive one and it felt strangely natural to work it's length. When I say natural, I think it's because I know what I like and I think it equated to the same for him. It was extremely erotic for me. It was hot to know he was loving it. Slapping his hard cock against my face was a horny pleasure. It's a little hard to explain. I don't necessarily expect others to appreciate it but it was incredible horny/wrong.

Receiving anal sex was the opposite at the time. It didn't do anything for me, at all.

I thought I would share, courtesty of the the relative anonymity of the internet.

EDIT: I would say though, that I do not relate use of the Aneros in any way to the above experiences. It seems entirely seperate. Receiving neither here nor there, very disappointing. The Aneros however, gives genuine pleasure

Thank you for sharing your experience, Walnut. It isn't the kind of thing that I have anyone I can discuss it with. I have had an experience with a woman, and it was great. I have never had one with a man, but I sure would like to try. I think though that on the continuum I lean more toward the homosexual end, at least at this time in my life, and may actually always have, but was hesitent to admit it to myself. I find, as I said above, I experience erotic feelings for both men and women that I find attractive, and not only sexually, and feel affection for. I think we can move back and forth on the continuum, at least I know I can.

I own the Njoy fun wand, and I really enjoy it. It has two sides one with a bulbous head to manually stimulate the prostate and the other with three graded beads. While I do wish it could be just a little bigger (max of one inch on both ends), it is really amazing when i'm in the mood for manual stimulation.

I personally love my cock rings - I have two sets, one with three separated silicone rings, and one with all three attached. I don't know why it's such a turn on for me to have them on as I'm not interested in maintaining an erection during sessions, but the tightness really gets me going.

I also have a Flexi Felix, which is a silicone anal bead thing. The act of inserting and pulling it out prior to a session has been a great warm up for me.

@mover Every heard of the Oxballs Spark Plug ?

Jimmy Boy
I have recently discovered in pulling out my larger aneroses (plural of aneros?) like Eupho and Maximus (haven't used my Ice Progasm recently so don't know yet) that are more like the real thing in shape and size, can give the hand-held dildo effect. Try it, you might like it. I have found all the other ones suggested too pricey for me to try w/o knowing what they are like, and don't seem much like a penis, at least in looks. Don't know about the feel. I like that full feeling, although I have never had a real one in. I am enthralled by what I see on gay porn, and want to try it all. I guess the human (and some animal?) penis, especially big ones, of which I unfortunately am not blessed with the endowment thereof, which may be part of my attraction to them, has been a cause of enthrallment forever to humanity.
Paul

jimmyboy
I have been having a hell of a time the last few days writing replies, and finding when I try to submit them I get a message that I am no longer logged in. I lose the reply, and have to start all over. I sent one suggesting to you that the larger aneros models could be used as regular hand-regulated dildos by pulling down and pushing up by the handle. This came to me as I was taking one out. The Maximus is my favorite because it feel like a penis might feel inside of me. It further came to me that I might not take the handles off as I was considering. The ones suggested by others are too expensive for me to try without certainty of liking them. The certainly don't look like a penis, except perhaps in size, and some of the Titus line, although maybe they feel like one(?)
Paul

ran across some shapes, all in silicone... www.fleshjack.com/freaks