OT: how come men always end up

Active/Passive, giving/receiving. I've wondered about this in homosexuals as well. Does the 'bitch' not only do the sexual receiving, but also the dinner's/gifts etc?

Hello zzz, 🙂

And welcome to the Aneros forum.
I find that to be a really lop sided point of view that is likely biased by your own experiences. From my own personal experience, any good sexual partner does their fair share of initiating and doing what is needed to please their partner and themselves. Otherwise you have a crappy sexual experience that isn't likely to happen again unless you really like each other and are willing to communicate and work through whatever is going on that makes sex turn out that way. Rarely is it ever any one persons fault or blame. That's just my two cents.

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Active/Passive, giving/receiving. I've wondered about this in homosexuals as well. Does the 'bitch' not only do the sexual receiving, but also the dinner's/gifts etc?

Makes you wonder who the 'bitch' really is at times.

Makes you wonder who the 'bitch' really is at times.

This is true. For example lady boys in Thailand, I used to think they were some mutation, that they were actually women born with a dick. And what I found on youtube seemed to confirm this believe. They looked femine, some even looked much prettier than the average women and I found myself, perhaps due to my Aneros-experience, strangely getting turned on by them and the idea of a women with a dick fucking you in the ass. So I decided to download some films with Thai ladyboys but was sadly disappointed. Sure they looked like women, acted like women, but the dicksucking and the way they sounded(to someone like myself that's oriented towards the auditory side) was a huge turnoff. They sounded like men:(
So unless there are women born with dicks in the world this fantasy will sadly never come to fruition. A women's voice is still one of the biggest turnons. Even a gorgeous woman with a man's voice would fail to turn me on, more likely off.

Anyways, who's the bitch? Ladyboys are confusing to say the least.
Sometimes I wonder about myself. Am I bitch? I haven't noticed any change yet in falling for money and status and loving material things like diamonds and stuff. But I suppose in some cultures and the way things used to be in ancient Greece/Rome etc, sexuality isn't divided into homosexual and heterosexual, but into masculine and feminine and this is perhaps a better classification as those things aren't carved in stone and of varying degrees.

As women have been the defacto receivers and men the givers, men can do both, so they can IMO learn a lot from women, like the sound they make.
In NLP it's been known for years that certain sounds open up certain pathways. It's probably due to human development, first we grunted etc before we developed language. I've found thru selfdiscovery that certain sounds I make can start off a chainreaction in thoughts and cascading feeling.
For example when I make a mistake when I'm playing the piano and I say:"tsss" this used to start off a chainreaction to the point that I end up breaking and throwing things. So now I try to become aware of this automatic response and respond with the curiosity of a child that's just hurt himself but learnt something in the process:"hmmm"
Bandler's example was for in anxious situations to make a sound like a pig.

So I believe sounds can lead into a pathway of orgasm. So sometimes when using the Aneros I find myself almost moaning like a woman and vice versa I can sometimes bring myself to orgasm by starting off moaning like a woman. It's like were all wired for this de facto-ness. Like when I'm sad I push myself to smile and more often than not I feel better. This is perhaps why genuine moaning of a woman turns me on, a woman that's into moaning will probably enjoy sex more than women that fake their moans on are completely silent. Seems logical, but I'll never know for sure.Although faking their moans might eventually lead them to enjoy

The KSMO IMO is a misnommer. For me, and others(as testified by the fact that the sound doesn't have to be made just the motions of making the sound), it's what the sound enables your body to do, IMO it's the bearing down that does it and this cascades into an automatic orgasmic reflex.

So yeah, I think moaning like a bitch can open pathways that lead into (multiple)orgasms. Does that make you a bitch?
That's for your own conscience to decide

I was just talking about the unfairness in relationships and how men give more than women do. Not about homosexuality and ladyboys.

Looks like you didn't understand a single word I wrote, pity, I was actually trying to help you out.
Besides I already responded to that, the last bit was in response to your ambiguous reply

Things the way they are really suck, woman should be genetically modifed to have dicks ass well as pussy's, it's only good for both

And now, perhaps some place, somewhere, there is some rich, lucky bastard seeining this and nodding his head in approval and saying:"yes, I think Hanz can make a species consisting of a cock as well as a cunt.Yez,I think
we can work$$ zis au$$$ switz1= 2 into 1 into 1=3, yeah this works au$$gut|!
"yezz, Hanz can go to Thailand and make me a bitch with a dick"

So who knows maybe in 20 years time I'll get lucky, cheers!

but for now I think i'm gonna rape my fleshlight, if only Aneros would make a model like a Progasm that quirts fluid into your ass when you're cumming hard