Oh my god it's real! What worked for me

@daverrr 

Thank you for sharing your experience. I've only ever had relations with women but I don't think of myself as heterosexual, as I have found people of other genders sexually attractive. My wife and I have an open marriage and we've both been curious about non-heterosexual sex. Your post really helps!

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@helical , thank you so much for your reply and advice! Reading your post is getting me excited for the next time 

I’d heavily quoted you, and supplied just icing on the cake.  This underscores for you and everyone that we ultimately find out the hows & whys for ourselves, albeit expert secondhand help is available.  Similarly @Grendel witnessed this for himself, yesterday https://community.aneros.com/forum/postid/123292/

Writing these personal accounts can serve many purposes:

-Remind ourselves it’s real when we will marvel about it or even momentarily doubt

-Commemorate a life-changing day, lets you process it

-Fun for the experienced to remember the discovery process, let them congratulate you

-Signposts for those along the way

-Lets you consider what’s next and builds excitement for the future

Keep writing, guys

Every time I watch @diddlemethis's videos, my excitement gets rekindled to continue with this prostate/anus work, so thank you again for your videos (all 5 vids) and looking forward to further vids you'd like to upload.  I truly get excited and inspired by watching you work at this. 🙂 

@daverrr I'm really happy to hear that you like the videos 😀 ! I am somewhat surprised myself at how excited I get re-watching them, and thinking about other people watching them!

I plan to make a longer video capturing a session from start to finish, showing insertion, warm up, and talking through what I'm doing and feeling. I think it could be exciting to put words to my feelings in real time! I'm also really leaning into the mental aspect of arousal; I got myself some slutty accessories to wear in my next session 😊 . So stay tuned, it will come one of the next few Sundays!

I don't know where I would host a longer video, though. erome limits videos to 1GB, which with my current filming setup would work out to around 10 minutes. All the other porn hosts I can find have lower limits or require intrusive verification processes. I suppose 10 minutes is a reasonable chunk of time, so maybe I'll just chop up the video if it's under an hour. Or maybe I'll just seed a torrent.

Interestingly, I'm watching your vids while doing my own session.  Somehow that gets me going quicker.  Something in how you do it makes me excited and starts the waves moving.  Whatever it is, it's fun for me to watch you work while I'm working.  Yes, start to finish would be good.  Careful insertion to Super-O and remove the device.  LOL!  Do you find that your anus retains its normal shape and color after a session?  Mine does even after close examination with a mirror and light.  I've been doing anal play for many years and now I find it fascinating to watch other guys doing anal play.  Thanks again!

@daverrr - hot!!! 🤤 

Posted by: @daverrr

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Do you find that your anus retains its normal shape and color after a session?

Even the largest aneros toys are still pretty small, so my anus's shape doesn't really change too much during a session to begin with. I have experimented in the past with much larger dildos, and even then, my anus would snap back into shape after a minute or so. As far as color, I never noticed any change in color. My skin is pretty dark there so it doesn't flush or anything.

@diddlemethis I'm finding that I need anus stimulation along with prostate stimulation at the same time to get the waves starting. So I bought a remote control "thruster" to do this job.  It's called "The Invader".  It also vibrates which I don't use.  It's an inch in diameter for the first inch, then tapers for the next inch and then goes back to an inch at the bottom so I'm working up to being able to take it all inside, slowly pushing it deeper into my ass with each session.  Should be really good to feel my sphincter and prostate being stimulated together hands free.  I think you said you tried larger toys in the past.  How did that go?  Did it take you a while for your anus to stretch to handle the girth?  Will you be doing a video with a larger toy anytime soon?

@daverrr anal stimulation feels really nice. I really like the ridges on the base of the MGX, I wish the other massagers had those ridges. I'm wondering if they could be carved into the ICE models like progasm Jr. When the MGX moves in and out the ridges make this kind of static electricity tingling in my ass. Maybe that would provide you with both the anal and prostate stimulation you're looking for 🙂

Posted by: @daverrr

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I think you said you tried larger toys in the past.  How did that go?  Did it take you a while for your anus to stretch to handle the girth?

Yea, it's been awhile. I looked through my email receipts and found:

• Perfect Fit Medium Tunnel Anal Plug (~2.1")

I tried and failed to take the XL (3.1") version of the above. I also had a 2.5" metal plug and a 2" dildo. It did take awhile to be able to handle that girth, and honestly it wasn't very pleasant; I used a lot of lube, but I was impatient and too forceful. I didn't do any permanent damage but it made me sore and it was more of a visual spectacle than a pleasurable sensation.

Posted by: @daverrr

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Will you be doing a video with a larger toy anytime soon?

I want to try riding a dildo, for sure, but I think it will be more narrow and long. But I don't think I'll do it very soon; I am focusing on the aneros toys for now, and finding more consistent ways to have a good session.

@diddlemethis Awesome videos - thanks for sharing them! Have done similar activities with great results - the nipple tweaking along with the bouncing movement all contribute to mind blowing orgasms! The videos are excellent - keep them coming!

@fred27 thank you so much! I'm glad you liked the videos!

I had an extended session yesterday and about 2 hours worth of footage. It needs some editing before I can share it. I went a bit wild, but I did manage to provide some narration when I wasn't moaning 🤭 

I've gotten a new appreciation for the full-size progasm; it's so big and heavy that it makes it easier to maintain a rhythm, and it really feels like it takes control of you with authority and confidence!

I would like to achieve a more peaceful orgasm at some point, with less bouncing and stroking and just soft, precise pressure and breathing. I feel like my orgasms so far have been wonderful, but I've cut them short or came prematurely(hah!) by clenching and losing the rhythm. So if a penile orgasm is a 10, they've been around 50, and I'm looking for that 100. 

I woke up this morning and my voice was hoarse from all the moaning I did last night. I can say with confidence that it was my best session so far. I was filming, but only got the beginning of the session before the battery on my camera died:

https://www.erome.com/a/B6CsWEjC

As you can see, I've started using the njoy pure wand. It is a really useful tool to start my sessions with, as the fine manual control produces very intense, direct stimulation on my prostate in a way that is difficult to replicate with the aneros devices, and the weight is really satisfying. However, I find that once I really get going, the need to control the wand and be mindful of its orientation and respectful of its weight become a distraction that keeps me from letting go 100%, whereas an aneros device will eventually feel like it's part of my body. So early into the session, I switched to the Maximus, and stuck with it until I decided to finish.

After these videos, I spent a lot of time on my back, sometimes hanging over the bed, sometimes knees up, feet flat. I kind of let my body do whatever it wanted; sometimes slightly lifting my legs up felt really good, sometimes bearing down felt really good, sometimes flipping over and going prone felt good. I didn't really think too much about what to do.

However, once I started having orgasms, I really started to moan. I was constantly moaning. I started speaking gibberish. I started saying really naughty things. Every time I moaned the pleasure increased. Eventually I had a series of orgasms that I don't know how to describe. Thinking about it is generating an icy-hot sensation in my prostate.

I could feel warm shivers radiating out from my prostate, like I'm already familiar with from previous prostate orgasms. I could feel tension and anticipation building up around my navel, in the tops of my feet, in my shoulder blades. I felt pleasure running up my spine to the top of my head and back down to the tops of my feet. But I didn't feel the release I usually feel. It was almost like my moaning was preventing me from releasing all the tension, like a cork in bottle of champagne. It just kept building and building up. At this point I was truly incoherent. I remember saying something like "fuck my suck in me hard right there lick suck in my cum" before devolving into what probably would have sounded like a possessed person speaking in tongues. I imagined tongues and lips running over every inch of my body. I imagined a penis in my mouth. I imagined someone sitting on my face. I imagined my penis was hooked up to some device that would suck it dry. I felt like the skin of a drum, pulled absolutely taught, but not physically, it was pure sexual tension with nowhere to go.

I didn't make a conscious decision, but at some point I sat up very slightly. This triggered very powerful, rhythmic hip thrusting. The cork popped off the bottle, and I erupted. I remember my back muscles convulsing rhythmically with such force that it whipped my head down into my pillow. I saw flashes of light in my head. For a fleeting moment I pictured myself in future sessions wearing a helmet. It must have looked like I was having a seizure. These extremely intense convulsions continued for about 30 seconds. I don't think I was fully conscious for all of it. As I started breathing again I could feel tingling waves of pleasure washing down from the top of my head, like fizzy suds seeping out of the top of a champagne bottle. Each wave felt easily as good as any prostate orgasm I'd had up until that point, and the next one started before the last one finished. My whole body felt incredibly alive and hungry, like every pore was open, every nerve at attention. I don't think I've ever felt so horny in my life. This was a Super-O. I honestly do not know how long this went on. Between 1 and 15 minutes, I suppose.

After this my whole body was extremely sensitive. Simply arching my back put the maximus in such an intensely pleasurable spot that my hips would jolt forward. It felt as if the Maximus pierced right into the center of my being. Rhythmic thrusts trivially generated more orgasms. It was amazing. I only stopped because I looked at the clock and realized I had been at it for over 4 hours.

I ended my session with large end of the njoy wand, in the position of the 2nd video from the above link. I lightly rubbed the underside of tip of my penis with some lube and had a combined prostate/penile orgasm that was so intense I shouted myself hoarse and didn't want to move for a good 20 minutes afterwards. I teared up a bit just reflecting on what had happened.

I don't really know what else to say.

@diddlemethis I do pretty much the same routine using my HSV or Vice2 with a pillow under my hips and do nipple tweaking! Also do some contractions while slow up/down movements on the pillow. Occasionally use a handheld massager on my perenium which further enhance the pleasure intensity!

@diddlemethis Did you have to rest very long after that? It must have been very exhausting. How long do you usually rest after such an intense session? Do you have any tips on what is the best method of recovering after so many orgasms?

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Did you have to rest very long after that? It must have been very exhausting. How long do you usually rest after such an intense session? Do you have any tips on what is the best method of recovering after so many orgasms?

The session definitely took a toll on my body, but I actually felt energized afterwards, in the same way you'd feel relaxed but energized after a good run! I am in pretty good shape physically, so I don't have too much muscle soreness and I just took it easy the day after. I was planning to go again today but my digestive system is not cooperating so I might have to postpone it :(.

@diddlemethis Yet another reason to maintain good physical strength. I liked your videos very much 🙂

@diddlemethis I have replicated your last video with a wand and it worked for me so good. Once I was lying on my belly with it I had a very similar reaction to yours. I didn't know that it was so easy. Except that I ejaculated. Thanks for inspiration 😉

@sebastian-minski I'm glad it worked for you!

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I had the most unbelievable experience yesterday. I feel so loved, and so grateful that my body is capable of these sensations. Even now, a day later, there is a glowing feeling in my belly.

I have experimented with anal play, on and off, since I was an adolescent. I've never had anal sex. I'm now in my mid 30s. I've tried various toys and plugs, and a few aneros massagers, and while it felt nice to stimulate all the nerves in that area, nothing really ever happened. I never felt like I hit "the spot", so to speak. I never really pursued prostate orgasms in earnest and just went on with my life.

Over the past 4 months or so, my interest in prostate orgasms was rekindled, and I acquired several aneros devices; the Progasm, the Eupho, the Helix, the Tempo, and the Peridise. I have an MGX on the way too. I used one or some of them around 2-3 times per week, sometimes overnight, sometimes just for an hour or so. At last, yesterday, I had multiple (at least 6) orgasms over a 2 hour session.

What "unlocked" the path for me was the Tempo. The Tempo was the key.

Tempo really helped me initially to learn the tug-of-war technique, to generate a stroking motion using my PC and sphincter. The weight of the tempo helps to make the strokes longer and deeper, and made them easier to sustain compared to having nothing. This skill transferred easily to the other devices. I learned to do this within a week of getting the Tempo. Still, I wasn't really feeling anything.

Finally, yesterday I decided to take two 1:1 weed gummies (2.5mg THC/2.5mg CBD) during my session. In hindsight, two was too much, and I should have just taken one. I had the Tempo inserted as the weed started to take its effect, and was using the tug-of-war technique to get it moving.

I was on my back, legs slightly spread, knees up, feet flat on the bed, hands under my butt to prop it up. My eyes were closed. I started to feel like I was entering a dream, and had a vague vision that my bed, with me on it, was transported to some night-time, star-lit desert scene. And I perceived that I was not alone. There was someone there, with their hands on my hips, and they were thrusting the Tempo into me. I tried not to realize that I was in a dream, I tried to stay in it. I eventually became aware that my hips were moving in sync with the strokes of the Tempo. Then my whole body was moving. It was like the Tempo was slamming into me with the full force and weight of another person, and my whole body recoiled from the impact. I was being fucked by an apparition.

I eventually discovered that I could control this apparition like a puppet. By relaxing or tensing my PC and sphincter muscles, by bearing down or contracting my stomach, by pressing down with my feet, by squeezing my buttocks, I could completely control the angle, speed, and depth of the strokes. I visualized an impossibly skilled lover who could enter me from any angle, even change angles at the drop of a hat, and who always matched my rhythm. I was in heaven, but it was just the beginning.

I started getting P-waves. There was no rhyme or reason to when they came, and I couldn't figure out the right angle to trigger them. They started like little flashes of laughter in my groin, just behind my penis, then radiated outwards like warm water. I stopped trying to make them happen and just appreciated them when they did.

After some indeterminate period of using the Tempo, I removed it and inserted the Helix. At this point I was very afraid that what I had experienced was a fluke, that my mysterious partner would be gone forever after I removed the Tempo, and the Helix wouldn't be able to reproduce it. I was wrong.

After about 1 minute of downtime from transitioning to the Helix, my spectral lover came back. With my eyes closed I could visualize strong hands pulling my hips into the Helix, and my ass slamming into another pelvis. I could almost imagine the sound of skin slapping on skin. The auto-fucking from the Tempo had transferred to the Helix. Only now it was different. The Helix was curving upwards into me. It felt like it was driving into something bright. 5 out of every 10 strokes ended with a light sensation that I could best describe as a giggle in my groin.

I kept using my pelvic muscles to pull my lover's puppet strings. I marveled at how responsive the strokes were. I began to perceive that the Helix was actually not moving at all: it was stationary, floating in the air, and my whole body was moving around it. I found that if I really relaxed my anus, the strokes became slower and impossibly long, as if the helix were pulling out of me completely only to slam back inside on the next stroke, with great force. That was the first time I moaned.

At some point, my feet slipped off the edge of the bed, and I was in a spread eagle position. The strokes became shorter and faster. Impossibly fast. I could even tense my muscles to approach the speed of a vibrator, but I always relaxed again, because tensing too much might make the motion stop.

I decided to try deliberately moaning. This is what sent me over. Initially my moans were wordless, then I started talking to my imaginary lover. "Yes!", "Oh my god, right there!", "Fuck me harder", "That feels so good". Finally, I decided to bluff and say "Oh my god I'm cumming". I thought I was bluffing, but it sent me over the edge. The strokes became faster and faster and shorter and shorter. You could no longer call them strokes, they were vibrations. But each one was generating a wave of pleasure. I couldn't take it any more, I tensed every muscle in my ass and abdomen. I held that for maybe 10 seconds, and I could feel my existence squeeze through the eye of a needle.

I finally relaxed, a bit, and a more casual, gentle pace of stroking took over as a wave of calm rushed over me. I could hear my heart pounding in my ears, and perceived my heart rate slowing down to a more normal pace. I was in utter disbelief at what happened.

At this point, the Helix had found its target, and it seemed like it was perfectly calibrated to hit my prostate from any angle I desired. I found that I could achieve an orgasm from just about any position that allowed sufficient hip movement, so I got fucked in all kinds of positions; cowgirl, squatting off the edge of the bed, on all fours, prone, on my side. I even got fucked standing up, back against a door frame, and then bent over my kitchen counter.

I tried playing with my nipples. Sometimes stroking, scraping or pinching them would trigger a ticklish sensation on either side of my balls, and I would feel the "center" of pleasure shift forward, closer to my penis, but most of the time playing with my nipples had no effect. I will have to train them more.

There was almost no downtime between Os. I could keep going and going. Each time I had to moan and talk to push myself over the edge. I never ejaculated; one time I tickled my frenulum very briefly, before resuming intense self-fucking, and I feel like that was the closest I came to ejaculating. I was vaguely aware that the pounding was taking a toll on my body, but I wasn't concerned, as I am in pretty good shape.

What ultimately ended my session was the weed; I simply got too high and it was distracting. I regretted taking the double dose. Now that I know what it feels like, I will try to wean myself off the THC.

For me, the visualization of getting fucked by someone else was really what helped to start the automatic motion that ultimately brought me to orgasm, and the speed and weight of the tempo was instrumental in teaching me the sensation and motion. I am really looking forward to doing this again, maybe with the Eupho next time.

I am also thinking about finding some way to secure my penis, because during the really intense periods of stroking, it would flop around a lot and become distracting. Towards the end I put on a pair of underwear to reduce the flopping, but I missed being able to see my penis grow and shrink. A cage might be fun.

I recorded a couple videos. If I can confirm they don't share too much and find some hosting, I might share them here.

To be honest, before yesterday I was growing disillusioned and thinking I would never achieve the orgasms that people write about on this forum. I even thought that people might be exaggerating, and that I had already experienced one. I'm so glad I was wrong.

As I write this, the day after, my ass is a little sore. My stomach, lower back, and thighs are sore. It really feels like I got fucked by someone else. Someone who was rough when I needed them to be, and tender when I needed them to be. They were completely tuned in to my body and my needs, and they took care of me. It was me. I made love to myself. I didn't think it was possible.