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   I've read a lot here about not involving penis play during prostate massage.  I understand that and it makes sense to me.  I don't touch it at all during a session.  But now through progress and a year in,  I'm able to achieve some pretty intense nipple dry orgasms. They seem to be more genital oriented though but they're fun and feel great. Is this different than penile stimulation as far as during prostate message? Should I treat my nipples the same as my penis and leave them alone during prostate play ? Thx.


   
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My nipples are connected to my prostate. I've had both prostate-centred and chest-centred orgasms from nipple stimulation.

I'd say they don't interfere at all with progress at all.


   
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I'm able to achieve some pretty intense nipple dry orgasms. They seem to be more genital oriented though but they're fun and feel great. Is this different than penile stimulation as far as during prostate message?

First, congratulations on initiating dry-O's from nipple stimulation . With regard to your question, IMHO, YES, this is different. @cockadoodle ’s thread Penis, NOT pointed out the fact that you need to develop a new thought paradigm when it comes to prostate based orgasms and that paradigm need not include penile stimulation.

Breaking away from traditional behavior patterns can be difficult but once you are able to establish a second pathway to orgasm, such as through nipple stimulation, then venturing into other avenues becomes easier. You won't lose any abilities but you will gain new insights about yourself and your sensual body. Nipple stimulation is a well noted technique for creating and maintaining sensual arousal, a critical component leading to prostate orgasms.

Should I treat my nipples the same as my penis and leave them alone during prostate play ?

IMHO, NO ! If you are having pleasurable Anerosessions utilizing this technique then I encourage you to continue, you might find reading some of the posts by member @BigGlansDC 's regarding nipple stimulation and kegel regimes helpful as well as @Wuerstchen 's thread Multiple nipple orgasm and prostate health?. This is all part of 'rewiring' yourself to an alternate pathway to orgasm.

Good Vibes to You!


   
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To add to the previous responses, I would say it is safe to touch ANY part of your body except your penis during your path to prostate orgasm re-wiring. For me, even my testicles are fair game. Non-penile caressing helped me a lot while re-wiring, and I still partake in it today. Just think of the penis as being an off-switch (for now), and the rest of your body being tons of giant on-switches.

Otherwise, since you have figured out nipple orgasms, I highly recommend trying out having orgasms located in sensitive spots elsewhere on your body: palms, knees, feet, to name a few. While you caress yourself, see if your prostate tingles or warms. This in turn builds arousal, and creates positive feedback loops (the more your prostate is activated, the more sensitive to caresses you are, which activate your prostate more, and so on). These feedback loops can bring you to orgasm (as you have discovered with nipple orgasms) and can eventually be anywhere on your body, or even in your mind (replace caresses with sexy or other thoughts). At which point one starts to wonder how inherently sexual these practices actually are...


   
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@gnawdol. Thank you for the tips Gnawdol. Never knew that area to be much of an erogenous zone. I'll have to check it out.I'm 52 now. I don't get erections during the day so much. Not like when I was younger.  However at night asleep and waking off & on, I have them surprisingly frequently.  Wake up every night and morning with an erection.  Unfortunately couldn't have a session then, as I'd wake my wife and we both work early mornings. Been fortunate to have a couple super Os. By accident when I started.  And no I can not duplicate them. But they were unlike anything I've ever felt before.  Most sessions are ok. I can regularly get involuntaries now. And I start getting sensations only minutes after I start.  But orgasms are intermittent. So I'll continue to take it one session at a time with no expectations.  Thank you to the others for their tips & responses as well. Happy Vibes. 

 


   
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@gnawdol just goes to show how different we all are. I too partake in penis play, but not every time, and during my rewiring it helped me not to (except one memorable session). Since rewiring, I have discovered myriad ways to incorporate my penis in my sessions when I feel the desire to. And I have figured out how to have dry orgasms via my penis alone. I agree that the head of the penis is like a clit...


   
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Like I said earlier I can have some great dry Os with the nipples but with the penis alone it's much more difficult.  Been trying for a while now. Seems there are a few techniques out there. Relaxing before the ponr & letting it happen.  If it does. Getting close to the ponr and clenching down,. This one results in a retrograde ejaculation & is a little painful for me.  Or I just ejaculate a little. Mostly clear but slightly white. And then no more erection.  What's your technique for penile dry Os if you don't mind my asking? Thx. 


   
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Here is a thread on penile masturbation to dry O that I created last year on the old forum (I wasn’t able to recuperate my original account for some reason). I give a few links, and other users give helpful ideas and links as well. Since then I have mainly used the technique of focusing on the base of my penis with my hand when I get to around 9/10, where 10 is ejaculation. If I avoid the top half of my penis, I avoid ejaculation. I have multiple orgasms, very similar to trad Os but with no ejaculation, no painful reverse ejaculation (which I find unpleasant, and it drains you of semen, so doubly worthless), and often in quick succession. After a series of these orgasms I am usually tired, but my arousal is higher than before, and there is no refractory period. Also these orgasm get me so hard it almost hurts, just like prostate orgasms sometimes do.

https://community.aneros.com/community/general-discussion/traditional-masturbation-to-dry-orgasm/#post-101025

 


   
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