No Orgasm Yet

Read neros post on do nothing technique and the sensation you are looking for. Read crimsonwolf posts on the confident boomerang. I've been using helix mostly for 16 months or so and it has been sufficient. Progasm I feel stretched and pressure but it hasn't given me the feedback the helix and peridise have. If you are new to this you may have read progasm was more for advanced users and not beginners. Mgx and helix are more for starters. Good luck on your journey. Had a stellar session today thanks to neros advice

Read neros post on do nothing technique and the sensation you are looking for. Read crimsonwolf posts on the confident boomerang. I've been using helix mostly for 16 months or so and it has been sufficient. Progasm I feel stretched and pressure but it hasn't given me the feedback the helix and peridise have. If you are new to this you may have read progasm was more for advanced users and not beginners. Mgx and helix are more for starters. Good luck on your journey. Had a stellar session today thanks to neros advice

I've followed his advice but I dont get it? Felt no aches? What advice of his particularly are you referring to?

I do feel an ache, and it is pleasurable, very pleasurable. It only gets more intense. I also feel a build up feeling in my penis that feels like an incoming orgasm. It felt so good that I even moaned. I do not try to force anything. I am entirely submissive, truly surrendered to the progasm like a bottom. But it does not spill over to an orgasm, for some reason I cannot get over that fence.

Now it's a matter of time then

In general, I think you shouldn't worry about getting orgasms. Focus on the pleasure that you do get and try to relax into it and enjoy it for what it is. Most of my orgasms don't have a noticeable buildup to them, they kind of just happen. I mean I can tell when an orgasm is starting, but I don't decide exactly when they are going to occur.

I think you've made great progress so far though; you've only been using it for a month and you can already feel pleasurable sensations. For some people it takes much longer for that to happen. Like yankeecowboy said, it's only a matter of time before you'll start having orgasms. But for the meantime, enjoy whatever happens in your sessions, relax and be patient. You shouldn't have a goal for any of your sessions. No expectations.

I would rather get wet-orgasms than multiple ones (it is quicker). Is there anything that is recommended to get hands-free wet-orgasms?

I would rather get wet-orgasms than multiple ones (it is quicker). Is there anything that is recommended to get hands-free wet-orgasms?

Yup, what works for me is pulling back the foreskin and keep it tucked. By that, you apply drag/pull on your frenulum which is hardwired to your prostate. This pulling supercharges the sensitivity of your frenulum/glans area and puts the prostate in ejaculation-mode. So, massaging the prostate while the foreskin is pulled back will lead to a wet orgasm. If pulling the foreskin with your hands is not "hands-free" enough for you, you can also tuck your ballsack between your legs (with your balls behind your legs) and then apply the pulling with your legs (straighten them out). Or you may grap your ballsack very firmly and stretch it. Since it's connected with your foreskin you will eventually pull on the foreskin too.