No models work for me? Even non aneros models?

Same here about the "Super T" with the toy inside.

Hey @jja2 ,

But the Super T just requires achieving an ejaculation with the aneros in.

Actually no... it's more than that. Of course Super-T's come in all shapes and sizes and everybody will understand something different under this term. Still, I would argue that the Super-T can be as intense as a Super-O. A more general definition would be, that it falls somewhere in a spectrum between a Super-O at one end and a Traditional-O on the other.

It's supposed to enhance the orgasm but all I feel is an uncomfortable pressure, that cuts the enjoyment of the orgasm by probably 70% leaving me actually irritated feeling like it ruined an otherwise enjoyable experience.

I can relate - had the same uncomfortable feelings when ejaculating with the Helix at the very beginning of my journey.

I have been practicing for 10 or so years. Used every aneros model, and models outside the aneros line. Read the forums a lot over the years, and just can't get there.

I'm sorry to hear that. 🙁 But frankly: relying all your hopes on a new massager design won't do the trick. The most reliable helpers may be KSMO, weed, kegels, erotic hypnosis and maybe diet (@zaneblue had some interesting remarks on that). Have you tried any of that?

I'm wondering if maybe some people just aren't able to enjoy prostate stimulation.

Don't fixate on the prostate so much - that's not the bottleneck. Super-O's are about waking up your nervous system in general and training ones brain to build up nerval arousal to orgasm with other stimulation than from the penis. This other stimulation may come from the prostate, but it can as well come from any part of your body or from all parts of your body at once. That's where the term Full-Body-Orgasm is coined from.

Cheers, Unfug

@jja2

You appear to be more successful at prostate massage than I am (and I'm doing this for nearly 3 years), so I'm not sure how well-received my suggestions would be.

When you feel you are within minues of orgasm, do you notice your body doing anything interesting? Such as tightening of your abs, of your PC muscles, maybe legs, faster or hectic breathing anything like that? Do you concentrate on the feelings you are getting?

And when the feelings stop, do you just completely ignore the aneros, and the prostate, and the session, and your penis?
Might be worth trying that if you've not done so already. eg. Go have a 2 hour nap and totally ignore the Aneros.

But the Super T just requires achieving an ejaculation with the aneros in. I have done this on many occasions with every model, and I can tell you that it ruins the orgasm.

I can confirm that with many attempts at getting a Super T, I have never achieved one. If it was simply the case of ejaculating with the Aneros in, I would have had that many times. You may want to re-evaluate your idea of the requirements to obtain a super T - it may not be as simple as just ejaculating with Aneros inserted.

@jja2 To quote a popular Beach Boys' song: "I know there's an answer, I know now but I have to find it by myself...." When I started with Aneros about a year-and-a-half ago, I experienced many intense Super-O's. Now, however, during the last year, I have not had a single one that was as intense as those before. I'm not using my previous Aneros models: Helix, Eupho, PS-New and Progasm Jr. Rather, I'm using an HIH Model 950 for BPH relief. Am I worried? No. I am practicing semen retention, male chastity and generally refrain from masturbation. All that seems to put most emphasis on my prostate and occasion sessions and ejaculatory releases feel great.

Have you set the "bar" too high? Have you ever tried the 21-Day No Ejaculation challenge? That is a good starting point. BTW, my night-time erections (while in chastity) are stronger than ever. When I perform a session while greatly aroused, it almost always guarantees a blissful time. Since I don't aim for a Super-T and can't touch my penis while in chastity, all the attention is on my prostate during sessions (where it belongs). I may decide to get a Helix Trident in the future and see if I can get some of those Super-O's back. But if not, I won't be disappointed. Just keep on; you know your body best. I know you will find your way! Good luck to you!

I want to use the prostate stimulation to enhance my sex life, not cut it down to a once in a while amazing time. I have talked to married guys on here who get super o's who also have an active sex life. Their advice was to just take 2 or 3 days off from ejaculation before a session. That's my goal. I have no intention of hypnosis, or drug use or anything like that. Others can get the super-o without use of such things and I won't dabble in them. Again I consider the orgasm play as a addition to sex, not the complete focus.

It took me about 6-7 years before anything real started happening for me....and believe me i tried EVERYTHING...i also thought i was one of those people were it just wasn't gonna happen for...i stumbled upon the Super completely by accident...when i wasn't trying...LOL....the best way i describe it is you kinda got to teach your body a whole new language...but the problem with that is you don't know it yourself...LOL...once it clicked and and i started to "GET IT"..it's been one hell of a ride.....one thing that i never understood that i understand now....is and I CANNOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!!!! you have to have patience.....and another thing was...i used to think these large scale strokes were what was gonna make shit happen....that is so far from the truth it's not even funny....the smallest softest movements are what generate the most mind blowing electrifying body numbing feelings that will literally bring you to tears....it is the most unbelievable feeling you'll ever experience...what ever you imagine it...100Xs that when you really get going....dont give up!!!

Hey @jja2 ,

I have no intention of hypnosis, or drug use or anything like that. Others can get the super-o without use of such things and I won't dabble in them.

Sure, but others don't struggle for 10 years. Others don't need an aneros at all. In the end, it's "only" a tantric training wheel and you could just learn tantra the classic way, but the aneros still helps a lot. I totally understand, that drugs are off limits, but the rest of the list is far from "anything like that". It covers a rather wide spectrum of different possible approaches - all well-proven.

Not to dabble into it is more or less like finding your way without a map. It's possible indeed, but not seeing the road on a map won't make the actual road disappear. The skills you'll have to learn are still the same, you'll just deny yourself some usefull tools to learn them faster and understand them better. They are not sidetracks, they are the track.

Cheers, Unfug