You might know from previous posts that the njoy pure wand has been one of my preferred toys, since the day it showed up on my doorstep. One of the reasons is because you can move it around and hit very specific areas. And I don't mean rubbing the prostate directly. For me, that is so intense that it actually hurts in a non-pleasureful way. I'm talking about:
-rubbing near the prostate, either overshooting or undershooting
-tugging on the toy as if to pull it out, but contracting just hard enough so the toy is stuck against the inner sphincter, like lips around a lollipop
-putting the toy in the right direction and place as if to massage the prostate but pushing on it (gently) in the opposite direction, so the pressure is on the opposite wall of the rectum. For me this is pure bliss. It feels so good it is scary.
-being on all fours and letting the toy hang. The moans and shaking vibrate the toy ever so slightly, which creates more moans and shaking. It requires a hand to hold it somewhat in place so it doesn't slide out, but when you get the right angle it balances.
All of this is with the big end. I tried the small end once and didn't see the point. Also all of this, even the active massaging, is excruciatingly slow. For the most part, I place the ball end, searching a millimeter at a time until I find a sweet spot, and then let my body massage against the metal through contractions.
Does it take a while to learn the Njoy wand ? I seem to have much better luck with aneros toys than my wand.
I also have that tool and used it several times but as of yet had anything one would call pleasurable results. All my reading on usage said there is a BIG learning curve for guys but once figured out it is pure bliss. 2 weeks ago I did try again & got the closest yet with some tingling in the pelvic area and a few drops of precum that I never ever get with any of my other tools or aless. I have used both ends but the last time was laying on my back, knees up, with the small end slowly pulling out to the ball against the sphincter while tipped up to rub the prostate and pushing in while tipped down to keep away from the prostate.
I so hope to get this figured out at some point as I'm currently working on week 4 of SR and am finding sensations are starting to really wane. All previous findings have been 14 days with 7 to 14 being the best. I could rub one out to restart the clock but I than have a change of attitude.
I tried a knock-off and I couldn't even notice the prostate with the small end.... uh yeah
@buick45571gmail-com it depends on for whom? I think I am very sensitive compared to others, as I discovered its wonders on the first go. At the time I was maybe a year into re-wiring...
I love my wand. I tried for about a year to have any results with the aneros and got nothing much (don't get me wrong, i still love my aneros). I got the wand and had instant results. I have still not had a super o, but i leak TONS of precum (usually don't leak anything), and have easily found the prostate and lots of pleasure.
@somebody try going really... really... really... really... slow?
Yes, absolutely slow! Even when using the smaller end. 😉
It's of metal, don't harm yourself!
Do it like velvetveronica (!NSFW!) shows it.
Cheers, Mart
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I love my Njoy Pure Wand! Thanks for sharing your experiences with yours! Yes the possibilities are endless! Just have to experiment and see what works best for your anatomy! My favorite is laying on my back on the bed with a pillow under me and let the ball of the wand rest on the bed as the other ball applies pressure to my prostate. I gently contract and squeeze as the wand is moved back and forth, producing intense pleasure and eventually MMO!
@sowithoutaneros, I would so love to be that guy knowing what I know now. One thing I did notice is how much tension he keeps in his body. Still hasn't learned to let go, breath and relax into it after all the 'training' he's gotten, he just wants to cum and bring the pleasure to an end. Kind of a waste in my eyes. This gorgeous woman wants to spend that much time 'torturing' a guy with unspeakable amounts of pleasure and he doesn't understand how enjoy it.
@somebody, gladly we Anerosians have a different approach. Being other-directed doesn't help here. First a beginner should achieve re-wiring before letting somebody else stimulate his prostate. After all it only should be an example how cautious one should take in such a heavy metal toy and she truly eases it into him most carefully.
Sadly she also misses a great opportunity, namly making her hubby a multiorgasmic man. 😉
Good vibes! Mart
I have only been successful once with my njoy wand. I have never been able to get the large end in so I think my fun with it will be limited...same with my Godemiche.
In my experience this massager has a very steep learning curve, but is well worth the effort, when mastered it is a veritable orgasm machine. The best advice I can offer is less is more, let the weight of the massager do the work. My most intense results come when I barely rock the big end against my prostate, if you move it too much or too intensely you defeat the entire purpose of the design.