NJOY Pure Wand Questions???

Posted by: @busnut

Anyone have any advice on what I may be doing wrong or how to use the wand to milk and not trigger an ejaculatory orgasm??

Please see my post in the thread Prostate Milking during Semen Retention which contains links to prostate 'milking' related information resources.

In my own practice I've never had an ejaculatory orgasm as a result of using the Njoy 'Pure Wand' but here are my suggestions for you. First, go urinate to make sure your bladder is empty. Make sure you are very relaxed, especially in your pelvic floor, this is somewhat antithetical to the Aneros practice of basic pelvic floor tension and high arousal state. Second, after inserting the 'Wand' (I recommend using the big end) go past the point were you know where you prostate is and then apply pressure as you move the 'Wand' downward toward your anus. Third, go slow but apply more pressure than you can with an Aneros device (not so much as to cause any pain), apply about as much pressure as you would if you were rubbing your eyeball. You will feel when it reaches your prostate. At this point just hold it there with pressure for 30 seconds then release the pressure and move the 'Wand' back up and repeat the process. Be patient, stay relaxed, if you feel tightening of muscles moving you toward ejaculation, stop movement until you are completely relaxed again (try deep breathing and self suggestion to relax), then start the practice again. After a period of time you should feel the movement of fluid in your urethra, almost like precum flow or like a very slow urine leakage. Do not try to rush this practice it may take up to 30-45 minutes to completely milk your prostate. Go slow and enjoy the subtle level of pleasure this leisurely massage can provide.

Good Vibes to You!

@rumel has the method down, that's pretty much how you do it.

The only thing I will add is that the small end is "grabbier" or has more of a "hook" or "bump" to it, compared with the gentler transition between the stem and bulb on the large end. So, while the large end might be the best for the actual milking, finding the right spot could be easier with the small end, using the same technique.