Not for certain individuals? or are those individuals just being closed-minded? Just wondering what everyone's thoughts are.
peacelove
Hey wontquit, ...my 'thoughts.'
Ignored them for six decades. Occasionally a g/f would give mine a free-ride. Then got married and my wife tried 'em. Thought it was a 'gal thing' so I discouraged nip play. Not Macho enough for me.
Then, in the '70s I read somewhere that gay guys were into nips. That firmed my negative attitude toward nip play.
I discovered mine about three months after I started with the Aneros. 'Assigned' them to my wife during foreplay. Thot she would know how to handle them better than I. Finally.started stiming them during solo sessions. Took only one session to find out what I liked. Four sessions later they were firmly wired to my Prostate. Without them I think I'd still be grinding.
I use a simple nail-flick to erect them. Then, very mild touching to fuff up my prostate and light the fire in the downstairs fireplace.
hth ...rook
Hello wontquite, 🙂
Much like Rook wrote, I thought they were useless vestigial appendages on me for 35 something years of my life. It wasn't until I read some posts about nip stim here in the Aneros forums part way into my journey that I realized that I've been missing a very pleasurably sensitive part of my body all these years. It probably took me a month of semi-regular sessions before they woke up and I realized how much they added to my Aneros sessions. Matter of fact, in hind sight I don't think it was until I started working my nips that I actually started making real progress and getting really nice prostate and anal pleasure that weren't yet orgasms. This was a real incentive for me to keep at this Aneros practice.
I suspect the experience will vary for all men of whether nip stim works for them. I know I've seen one heck of a lot of posts in this forum showing that a lot of men get pleasure from their nipples. But perhaps there are men that didn't practice enough times with their nips to wake them up, and so never realized the potential. Difficult to say for sure.
Love_is
Love_is
As the kids say, OMG, OMG. Nipple stim is SOOOO important, IMHO, to Aneros success. I can't imagine not using it as a standard part of my routine. I start with gentle fingertips all over my abdomen and upper thighs. I particularly stay away from my nips to start with...as they are SO stimulating. I can almost always generate a nice firm erection while getting higher and higher with my Aneros, and the nips...well they just send me over.
If you're not using them for stimulation, you may be, as Rook says, grinding away. I'll make this bold statement:
IF you're not using nipple stimulation, you're missing a key ingredient to Super O.
Start easy, flicks and gentle massage. I find that my nipples have definite areas of arousal for me, and by stimulating the outside of each nipple lightly causes my erections! Simply marvy!
So, start if you're not using them, and if you are, continue to find new ways that they can stimulate you and your enjoyment of your Aneros massager.
My thanks to Ohmy06 for his encouragement and instructions on this vital bit of Aneros enjoyment.
Cockadoodle