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Hey everyone, I purchased my first real prostate toy (got a small $30 one), the Aneros Vice. To get straight to the point, I'll list my questions below, and after the questions I'll list my notes on them.
1: Should I use my Aneros, even if I'm not super "in the mood"?2: As a beginner, is the vibration on the Aneros Vice worse to use, better to use, or doesn't matter?
3: I enjoy high capacity enemas, and am wondering if it's alright to use the Aneros while filled or better to have an empty rectum?

4: Is it OK to finish the session with a traditional penile orgasm or will that hinder progress?


Notes on Question #1: I don't watch any porn due to personal reasons, and I've read that you'll get best results when aroused. However, will using it when only slightly aroused or not at all aroused (but in no way repulsed to the idea) build sensations and build experience? Or should I wait until I am aroused, which might not happen for a week or more?


Notes on Question #2: I heard that the Aneros Vice wasn't exactly a beginners tool, but the idea looked good to me and after doing some research it had great reviews. However as a beginner I've heard rumors that you shouldn't use the vibration as it can be too hard on the prostate and not help you get the experience you need to get Super-O(s). Does it really matter? The vibration really helps me to get aroused for a bit but then it kind of subsides, much like general use of the device.
(PS: Is there a better model to get for beginners, like the Helix Syn? I heard that for tall people (I am 6 foot 3 inches) it doesn't work very well.)

Notes on Question #3: I find that if I am filled with water, I get highly aroused (don't ask why, you know how fetishes are) and I liked using my Aneros whilst filled up. Is it a bad idea to be filled, like will it not allow prostate stimulation because the rectum is stretched out?




Notes on Question #4: I also heard around that for training purposes you shouldn't finish with a penile orgasm, but if I choose to finish that way will it cause a block/hinder on my progress? Or it doesn't really matter and I can do it freely with next to no consequence?

Feel free to ask any questions, I'm very open to anything and any way I can help you help me would be very appreciated.

Thanks everyone!


   
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1: Should I use my Aneros, even if I'm not super "in the mood"?Concentration is key. However the do nothing method works many times.

2: As a beginner, is the vibration on the Aneros Vice worse to use, better to use, or doesn't matter?

The Vice was my first Aneros and I used the vibration before trying some of the others. So I don't believe it will hinder your progress.

3: I enjoy high capacity enemas, and am wondering if it's alright to use the Aneros while filled or better to have an empty rectum?

Empty. 🙂 You will understand why later in the process.

4: Is it OK to finish the session with a traditional penile orgasm or will that hinder progress?

I imagine you will have quiet a few sessions before you learn to forget about the traditional way as you have been programmed.

Good luck to you and enjoy your journey.

Awired

Some other tips here.

http://awired50.net/Other/2-uncategorised


   
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1. yes you should be in the mood IMO, the more aroused (in the right way, i.e. MMO horney) the better2. I would say it will hider progress potentially. I have the vice and TBH even now it does not help and I'm well on the way to being rewired
3. No idea, probably empty though
4. Up to you, but usually when i do this i get annoyed that i didn't relax and save up my energies for next time


   
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Thanks for the answers guys, it's very appreciated.

awired50, I'm a little confused by your response there. What do you mean by "I imagine you will have quiet a few sessions before you learn to forget about the traditional way as you have been programmed."?



   
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You need to tune into the way your body works in concert with Aneros. That's all about relaxing, feeling and observing. You can read about it but the "click" happens with practice. We can only say that this takes time. "traditional way" = ordinary masturbation and sex. Aneros really is something different.


   
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awired50, I'm a little confused by your response there. What do you mean by "I imagine you will have quiet a few sessions before you learn to forget about the traditional way as you have been programmed."?


A prostate orgasm has nothing to do with the ejaculating type orgasm you have always experienced. There are however, 10 X as powerful. When it happens, you will completlelyunderstand what I am talking about. Trust me on this one 😀


   
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awired50, I'm a little confused by your response there. What do you mean by "I imagine you will have quiet a few sessions before you learn to forget about the traditional way as you have been programmed."?


A prostate orgasm has nothing to do with the ejaculating type orgasm you have always experienced. There are however, 10 X as powerful. When it happens, you will completlelyunderstand what I am talking about. Trust me on this one 😀

Yes I understand that awired50. What I was wondering if I can finish my session after practicing with a penile orgasm or will that hinder progress? I'm nowhere near experienced with my Aneros but if I'm at the end of my practice session would going ahead with a penile orgasm be a bad idea? Would it hinder my progress or it doesn't really make much of a difference? It's suggested on the wiki but it's not written in stone so I'd like to know.

Also, I get why later in the process I shouldn't have an enema in me, but for practice sake before I hit the stronger milestones would it help? It helps me to feel much more aroused and I don't mind a mess if it makes it. Plus I'm sure it would help with extra internal lubrication.


   
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Yeah ending a session with a penile orgasm is completely fine. If anything, the wiki isn't very conclusive in whether or not you should take the aneros out before you do: First it talks about super-t's and then it suggests that you take the aneros out at the end of sessions if you do want to masturbate.

So I'd say it's up to you whether you take the aneros out or not. I personally took it out when I was relatively new, but I can't say whether that affected anything in a practical sense.

I do encourage you to experiment with not ejaculating after sessions though. It may make you more aroused going into the next one.


   
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Yeah ending a session with a penile orgasm is completely fine. If anything, the wiki isn't very conclusive in whether or not you should take the aneros out before you do: First it talks about super-t's and then it suggests that you take the aneros out at the end of sessions if you do want to masturbate.

So I'd say it's up to you whether you take the aneros out or not. I personally took it out when I was relatively new, but I can't say whether that affected anything in a practical sense.

I do encourage you to experiment with not ejaculating after sessions though. It may make you more aroused going into the next one.

I think that's a good piece of advice, thanks! I did try just that last night, but didn't finish with an orgasm so I could get back into it in a bit. I think it's a good point and is good for mental training so you can hop back to it later.


   
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