Was on my 5th session yesterday since I started my prostate message journey. Had my Aneros trident inserted. Some sitting, some side laying. Had a few minor pleasant feelings nothing much really. After 2 hrs I removed it. Couple hours later went to bed. Just laid there and tried to fall asleep. Just relaxing and normally breathing. Well low and behold I start to have some nice pleasant feelings again. A little fullness & some pleasurable warmth. I didn't have my toy installed either. I just kept relaxed and and enjoyed was I think were pleasurable waves. Happy but a little confused. They slowly subsided & I finally went to sleep. Is this common? Has this happened to anyone else ? Being new to this I'm a little unsure what happened. But it nice though. Thx. John.
@Spikester71 Welcome to the journey, buddy
Yes, it's very common and very, very positive. You are waking up new pleasure pathways and your body is reacting positively to your play. This is just the beginning of many, many new sensations, experiences, stories, and wonderful orgasms. Stay the course and keep us posted! Although you may think that we have 'heard it and felt it all before', your body and path is unique and we are excited to hear about your journey.
Hi Neveryman, the small amount of time I've been doing my anero sessions things have changed. My libido seems a bit more revved up lately. Walking around in a perpetual low state of arousal all the time. The other day in a session, I got up to a warm comfortable buzzing. Some ( what I call ) cool waves and mild euphoria. I start to quiver and my breathing changes at that point. But I maintained the warm buzzed feeling for quite a while. First time that ever happened. Think I'll take a break. Had a sessions for three days straight. Too much maybe? Just happy to have a new sexual outlet other than the penis and done for awhile thing. It's new, exciting, & liberating to me.
@Spikester71 only you can decide if you need a break, but it sounds like it is a good idea. Not only can you rest your prostate and body but your brain is repairing and reforming new pleasure pathways that can only strengthen with a nice break. I ride at night so i really have to be careful not to stay up too many worknights until midnight enjoying dry orgasms. Also, you don't want to take a really good thing and burn out on it. Enjoy the journey, buddy
Well last night I tried to go Aneroless and had good results. No PO but great warmth, attentive buzzing and in a nice hazy feeling. For being in it for only two weeks I couldn't be happier. Even at work just sitting back in a chair ( off & on )my mid section starts having nice feelings. Not even trying. I remember though, no expectations.
I have thought about that. Has anyone had success with that ? Something tells me though your sleep might not be of the best quality.
@Spikester71 Like with most things Aneros, you will need to 'try it and see'. The Helix is a good one to start with. If it is the SYN model, make sure to lube up as you may dry out during the night, and that is irritating. If it is not pleasant, causes you to wake up, remove it, clean up and go to sleep. You may wish to keep some notes in an app or something, so when you do try new things like sleeping with it in, kegels in the car, etc, you can record cause/effect of your journey. For instance, sleeping with the toy may not have immediate pleasant effects, but perhaps the next day you are experiencing a delightfully swollen prostate, you leak precum, etc.
Personally I have never had night orgasms or any really pleasant experiences from sleeping with the aneros inside me, but I know many guys have awakened to screaming super orgasms from doing it. You'll just have to see what happens. No shortcuts...
Success Success Two PO yesterday. On my side this time. Not on my back. Seems though I really need to work on my breathing. If I change the way I breathe I can lose it. Question, as time goes by with sessions does the time it takes the prostate to warm up and respond get shorter ? Albeit I'm a newbie, mine takes awhile before I can feel it moving and responding. Thx, John
@Spikester71 It really depends on different factors. Eg. Frequency. Arousal levels. After seven years i am rewired. But still a super prostate orgasm is not guaranteed. Especially expectations is a pittfall. Do not forget, a prostate orgasm is not a climax orgasm like a a traditional orgasm. It lasts longer and can be multiple.
I always think we should be happy that a p orgasm is not a switch of on and off. It would be no fun. Like a quick wank is not very rewarding.
Enjoy each session as a nice stroll in the parc. No need to rush.... Enjoy every moment of this wonderful journey.
@Spikester71 Those out of the blue P waves that occur sometimes a day after a session are a really special reminder of the Journey.
As far as 'sleeping' with the device inserted, I have done it twice now. I wouldn't exactly call it sleeping though...more like nodding off between mind blowing orgasms that seem to take on a life and frequency of their own.
I have learned a couple of things from my limited (so far) sleeping experiments. First, don't expect to get a lot of good quality sleep, because the relaxed mind state of nodding off seems to be exactly what the device wants to wake you back up again. As a consequence, orgasms seem come and go all night, sustain longer, and are of greater intensity.
As a consequence of this, a little planning ahead is necessary. Sleep with it only when you do not have a lot planned the next day. The first time for me, I had a pretty active schedule the next day, thus getting through the day was a challenge. The second time, I just lounged around the next day and that was great...p waves and mini Os reminding me of the night before.
What does sleeping with my Eupho do for me. The first night I didn't keep a count, but do know it was many Super O's lasting from 2 to 10 min. Each quite a bit different.
The second night, I set out with a goal of counting, but lost track after 10 distinct orgasms because at that point they all blended together in to one gigantic orgasm party with maybe a short 'catch my breath' moment here and there. I think an additional benefit of an all nighter is that there is plenty of time with fewer thought distractions like 'I have to stop soon because the lawn needs mowed'. Consquently there is little to think about that might bring things to a halt.
Also, keep a bottle of water and some lube handy. I was amazed at how dry my mouth got. As for the lube, I keep a syringe to which a small diameter 10" long tube is attached. The syringe has 15 cc of water based lube that contains no glycerin or parabens. When I notice things getting just a bit dry, snug it into my anus about midway on the sphincter muscle and add in a few cc. It is very convenient and avoids the need for removal/reinsertion.
On the lube, I do recommend avoiding KY jelly. Did you ever read what is in that stuff? Over the course of a night, I will add maybe 7-10cc of lube, and the KY, being glycerin based is akin to using a glycerin suppository. KY in me in any quantity produces a fairly strong urge to evacuate that takes away from the all-nighter experience. Also, the stuff has sodium hydroxide (lye) in it, and prolonged exposure plays havoc with an external hemorrhoid the next day.
Finally, if you do have hemorrhoids, I do recommend a 20-30 minute session with the Tempo following an all nighter. I have been using it daily for that purpose for about a month now, and the smaller ones have disappeared and my one external problem roid has shrunken to about I'd estimate 20% of its previous size. Plus sitting on the Tempo for half an hour just feels so good in a different way as it quivers inside you. I can even walk around with it and that is another sensation alltogether.
I hope you do try an all-nighter with the Aneros. It is a truly special experience.
Is Astroglide a good water based lube to use ?