Hello All,
I purchased the standard Aneros three days ago, and have used it twice now.
As I am mostly gay, I am no stranger to anal, and no stranger to playing around with muscles down there.
My first time using the device was pleasant, but I did not really know what to expect. I had read a bit about it, but wasn't able to understand what i was reading to what and how I should be experiencing the events. But I gave it a go anyway. I started with some water based lube and lied down on my back for a while, and just mucking about with different muscle contractions. I was very pleasant, but no real shuddering or semi-auto contractions or anything, as I was just manually doing everything myself, albeit it was still very pleasant! I then decided to flip over on my front and start fantasizing one of my old favourites. Pretty soon, as i became more aroused and my breathing became a little more hasty, the pleasure sensations were very nice, but as I was on my front, I became a little too physically aroused also, and started humping the mattress. Then I got into a bit of a frenzy, moaning loudly and ended up delivering one of the largest messiest loads upon my nice clean bed sheets. OK, lesson learned, use a bloody towel next time! Anyway, I figured for my first go, that wasn't too bad!
In between the first and second attempts, I came on to the forums and came across a recent thread with some links to an X-Hamster video showing a more realistic look at what it looks like in the wild, rather than just interpret what I was reading. It was very informative, and I had that aha moment. I was definately going to try again with all that new information!!!!
Second night ( last night) I decided to have a bowel movement an hour before ( helps if you lift up your legs on to a small platform near the toilet to assist ) and then I had a nice relaxing shower, and even had the water running past my anus stimulating there. I then used some water based lube on myself, and generously applied that on and in myself as best I could with my finger, then used plenty of silicon based lube on the aneros, inserted it, and then put on my PJ's and relaxed in bed not doing anything for about 15 minutes, just enjoying the sensations and resting. I nearly drifted off when I felt a jolt or two - one went down my leg, and the other was near my prostate. It felt more pleasurable than the night before, and I think the shock of made me startled a bit and it dissipated. I then moved to my back and then relaxed more and after another 5 minutes or so felt some pulsating, and then I felt the slight auto-pilot of muscle contractions, I was aware that i was contracting the muscles, but it was more after the fact - I was working with what was already happening. I suppose this is what is called the wave, as it built up a bit, then subsided, and then another one came that was a little more intense, then that subsided, and then there was another 10 minute wait, and then a more powerful wave came across, and I was really getting a good workout! Wave after wave built up and I am not sure if I had the big 'o' or not but I certainly had small ones that got better and better. Then I looked at the time, holy crap - I had been at it for nearly 3 hours! So i decided to finish up manually with some other toys.
Altogether it has been very nice so far, and I think with a few more sessions i will get better and better at it.
I will scour through some more postings to try and learn more, but I feel i am well on my way!
A little update.
I decided that last night I would not do anything so as to try and build up fluid for my tonight session.
Today I decided to work from home so things were a little more relaxed, and I couldn't help myself. I thought, ok, I will pop it in and get to work......
Yeah, well that idea didn't last long. I ended up having 5 or 6 or however many mini o's, then got tired so I went to my computer and checked my emails, but as I sat on my office chair the lug pressured a little more on my perenium, and I statred shuddering from my hips then all the way to my whole body, even my head was shuddering. Thought my teeth were going to start rattling! So I ended up back on my bed again and had more fun there, but could not get the same feeling as the office chair. so ni went back to the office chair and had more suddering there, but started to feel the lug on my skin getting uncomfortable. So I tried many other positions, using the corner of the bed, using a pillow between my legs, going back on my front. All these produced great feelings, but I think the mood was lost a bit because of my constant experimentation!
One of the biggest waves and o's that I got was by imagining that my P spot was my vagina and that I was receiving something there. It made it all go hot and I felt like I was getting close to something big, I felt liquid moving in there somewhere, but alas i couldn't keep it up.
Anyway it still has been great experimenting with it.
I think from now on I will try a more gentle approach, perhaps more meditative.