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01/03/2016 5:37 pm
New Helix user. Have tried it several times now for an hour or more and sometimes have a little pre-discharge but never lasts. Now I must say that I'm a large body.. over 300lbs and I didn't seem to be getting much movement ie: sliding etc. Today I shot a good amount of Coconut oil up there and the slipped in the lubed helix. Within about 2 minutes I was have some leaking and it was consistent and it felt like the Helix was sliding in and out.
My question is because I have a big ass and I'm overweight, would my previous attempts have failed because of not enough lube to overcome tight places so the movement was basically nill. I'm thinking I might be on the right track here, but want to make sure if I'm assigning rational to made up in my mind bullshit.
I had my wife press to test my prostate yesterday and yes, its there and when she touched it I got the "gotta pee feeling". She's not in to participating in this type of activity so this was a once in forever thing while wearing a glove. I appreciate her going out of her comfort zone.
Is my experience normal with "not enough" lube situations cause of 'tight places"
thanks for your guidance!
Topic starter
01/03/2016 6:27 pm
How the heck do i get rid of the generic Aneros User name. I don't see anywhere to change it.
Thanks,
matt
01/03/2016 6:48 pm
What I can tell you from my own experience is that this journey is unique to every individual. And that the prostate orgasm is so different in attaining compared to the traditional male orgasm. The traditional male orgasm is mechanical in the sense that with enough stimulation, orgasm will be achieved. Prostate orgasm on the other hand is more about a mental state.
I've been at this for a couple years now, and I have had success. But the first dozen or so sessions, I got nothing from it. I was too focused on the movement of the device, and not on the sensations brought on. What I've found is that I get some of my best sessions when it almost feels like it isn't moving at all, only very slightly. I don't know if i will work for you, but try a session with no manual contractions and just relax, and mentally listen to your body.
As far as lube is concerned, just make sure that you are using enough. Focus on internal as well as the back door entrance, as most of the lube applied to the Aneros will be squeezed off at insertion. My best suggestion is to just keep experimenting, and find what works best for you.
Oh, and to change your user name go to your profile page and click on edit account.
Topic starter
01/03/2016 7:07 pm
Nuclear Gamer, Thanks for taking the time to respond.
01/04/2016 9:15 am
First - I was never able to find the right spot on the edit to change my Aneros name so I finally just e-mailed support and asked them to change it.
Now for lube and movement - I being a big guy used to think the same thing back when I began two years ago. I now totally find that the do nothing is for me the key to feeling like there is movement. I can't really explain how it feels other than saying you should focus your mind on the sensations going on and soon they just grow and grow.
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Topic starter
01/04/2016 12:26 pm
So I'm beginning to think that it's not a movement in and out but a sort of pivoting movement where the Helix brushes up against the prostate when contracted. Am I right in this conclusion? There should only be enough lube to make the Helix comfortable but not sloppy?
Thanks for those that are taking to time to share your experiences with me.
matt
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