New to Prostate Massage, several questions, not found direct answers

Adding to the last paragraph ... I have been focusing on the massager for the last three months, so that may be why I have not been having best erections. I quit using either of the toys a week ago and started focusing back on my regular play and the erections have gotten better. Also I was using the toys every other day, a couple of times day-to-day back-to-back looking for the new experience.

Thank you for reading.

@rikki1960
You have proven a point I speak upon (rather vociferously). That being, the balance between the penis and the prostate. Mind you, my experiences with the Aneros (I have six) have been exemplary! I've never even had a dud session, and I've been using the Aneros almost a year.

I curtailed my masturbation and ejaculation somewhat, after I began with the Aneros. I noticed my penis was not getting erect as it used to. I thought nothing of this until... I had erection issues with my GF. I diagnosed my problem rather quickly, curtailed my Aneros use, and started my masturbation and ejaculation back (in full force). Now I have the stiffest of the stiffies, the most wonderful ejaculations, and nuts that are not tender! When I ejaculate I don't feel tired or drained. The M&E (no relation to A&E) has not affected my Aneros experience in a negative way. I feel it has enhanced my journey. M&E has greatly improved my refractory period, and has boosted my sex drive.

There is too much penile renunciation and ejaculatory loathing floating about here. The penis must be included or Energy blockages will occur. Ejaculation (without guilt and/or angst) must happen regularly, or glitches will appear in the system. Many may not agree, but that is not my problem or concern! Jack your dick and ejaculate! Have certain days to masturbate, and have certain days to have Aneros sessions. Find and maintain your point of balance, and you will be fine.

Since you are a veteran of anal buggery, you perhaps should look into a Progasm Classic. Mayhap it will give you a better Aneros experience. Hopefully this will be of some assistance to.
Quoting the Great Poet and Philosopher Michael Jackson: "Just Beat It!" But beat it 'til it spits up!

Best of luck,
Pspotsquirter

Good advice @potsquirter. I'm learning the same lesson about balance. I'll add that edging for hours is sublime but can rewire your penis to avoid ejaculation.

@rikki1960, you've just started this dry orgasm practice, give it time. The problems with ejaculation are rare and only for those who's prostate has been rewired IMO. Read the wikis http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Getting_Started. It's normal to have erections come and go when you're massaging prostate. It's not like anything else you may have experienced except direct digital prostate massage. Don't expect to cream, it's NOT that kind of orgasm. Read the wikis. It's different for different guys but the wikis have the distilled experience of many men. Does the p-tab keep knocking on your perineum or is it just pressing too hard? It's designed to hit your perineum with your involuntary anal contractions. You can cover it with a rubber eye dropper bulb if it's hurting. You made me laugh when you threw the device at the wall. I think many of us have wanted to do that at first!