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Welcome suwaneeguy!

Congratulations on a great family, supportive wife (Assperatus! Indeed!), great home set-up, AND great success to date! I'm sure you have much to contribute here.

I'm curious about whether you incorporate aneros use while making love with your good wife? Are Super-Ts part of your practice with her? Does she engage in prostate play with you? You with her and her G-spot? Is she interested or has she tried the Peridise? Not that I'm prying mind you... 😆

It is interesting to see the varied stories of the many couples here in the forum, usually with one partner as the active forum member, sometimes the wife, not the husband. My wife and I are about 15 years older than you and with two wonderful grown boys/young men.

Are there other orgasmic development practices you also engage in? Hope you will consider starting blog here too. Mine/ours is at: http://www.aneros.com/displayblog.php?id=3544

Your first paragraph conclusion is a great question for discussion here. Have you seen the post on rumel's Super-O Society and its logo etc. Some of us are thinking of making personal pins and there is some possibility rumel will do editions of this kind of thing. Icebreakers maybe?

All the best to you and your family as we look forward to your active involvement here in the forum, blogs, wiki... as far as you would like to share your journey.

artform

suwaneeguy,

Welcome to the Forum,

“Assperatus” , that’s funny, it certainly brought a smile to my face. Thanks for downloading “HypnAerosession”, hopefully a couple more listens will get you really relaxed and into a good groove for you, but this was really primarily aimed at the newbie user to get him into the relaxation mode quickly.

I’m glad you brought up the topic of spreading the word about the Aneros and prostate massage and the feelings these other men are missing out on. I too have been grappling with ways to approach my male friends to share this knowledge. It is difficult to delicately, tactfully broach this subject because of its intimate nature.

As ‘artform’ alluded to, I am in the process now of designing some T-shirts that will incorporate the Super-O Society logo, with the hopes of selling them and getting the symbol “out there” to initiate some dialogue. My thoughts at this time are to print up an accompanying “one page” to be included with each shirt explaining what the Super-O is, how one approaches attaining it and where to get more information. I believe there is a deep pool of interest and curiosity in this aspect of male sensuality that is only now beginning to emerge in mainstream society. The members of this Forum are all potential ambassadors to the Super-O state of being.

Thanks for such a quick and nice reply artform. And no, I don't consider your questions prying. After all, isn't that what this forum is for! To answer your question, I have used the Aneros a couple of times while we are making love. And yes, she has given me a prostate massage with her finger a couple of times. With my wife it all depends on how much wine she has that dictates how adventurous we get! Not to mention finding any alone time at all with two hellions running around. I'm sure you know about that! We are also on different schedules most of the week. I don't get home until 8:30 or so two or three days a week and by then she is wiped out after getting up at 5:15, working all day and dealing with two boys all afternoon and evening. She usually heads upstairs around nine and I go the basement for a movie or a session (more sessions than movies here lately, this device can get addictive!) As far as the Peridise goes, she doesn't know I bought them yet. She already thinks owning six different models is a little over the top, so to speak! But, as I've explained to her, each one feels completely different. To answer your question about G-spot play, the answer is yes. I've purchased a couple of toys for her that I hope she is getting some use out of, though she prefers my manually massaging her. There are times when she can still be a little prudish. We also had different levels of sexual experience before we got married 12 years ago. This is the second marriage for both of us. I was single between her and my first wife for 8 years and was only married the first time for 2 years. She, however was married for 8 years and was single for only a year or so when we met. Not that I'm proud of it or anything but I messed around with alot of women in that time, some who were very adventurous! But so far my wonderful wife has been game for anything (depending on the wine!), Just joking. We try to set aside Wednesday and Sunday nights for ourselves. Sometimes it happens, sometime not, depending on what all is been going on that week.
Anyway, hope this answers some of your questions, feel free to ask anything (within reason!)
Not really sure what paragraph conclusion you were referring to. Let me know.
suwaneeguy

Wish I could tell some of my male friends about it, but haven't got the nerve! If they only knew what they were missing!...

...The Aneros has to be one of the greatest inventions ever. Too bad there are so many guys out there who are not experiencing what most of us are.

Most of us here agree most heartily! The first half is the "first paragraph conclusion" I meant, as rumel detailed in his post above. Many of us are looking for the natural door-opener for such a conversation with other male friends. Perhaps the Super-O Society will evolve an approach that works without threatening too many assumptions too soon. Something we can all think about and contribute to, as we develop here.

Your responses to my ?s add wonderfully to your self-portrait and re-enforce my comments above about your potential!

all the best to you and to you and your wife together

artform

Hi suwaneeguy,

I am so glad that you decided to join us after lurking for so long. Everybody has their time.

Sounds like you have a nice set up at home. What I wonder is what about the boys? I would figure that talking to them about sex in general might be hard for some, but do you think that your Aneros experience might get worked into the conversation?

Anyway, welcome aboard.

Buster, thanks for the reply. To answer your question about the boys, we have talked to my 11 year about sex to some degree, but only answered questions he was curious about. As far as the Aneros goes, that would probably never come into a conversation with either of the boys. By the time they reach their 20's maybe prostate massage will be more commonplace, something that most of the male population will practice reguarly. Hopefully in the next few years maybe the benefits will start to be recognized and it will be considered as normal as brushing your teeth! The general male population has to get over the stigma of having something in their butts!
Hope this answered your question and thanks.

suwaneeguy

Rumel, Thanks for you reply. Glad you got a kick out of the "Assperatus"!
Anyway, wanted to share what happened last night. It was above and beyond anything that I've experienced before. What I thought have been Super-O's all this time were nothing compared to what happened. Maybe this was the true Super-O.
I had about an hour last night of alone time after everyone went to bed, so decided to have a quick session with the Peridise. I wasn't expecting much because I felt a little rushed to get finished and hit the sack in order to get up and go to work this morning. I was enjoying some nice sensations and oozing. I was on my back with legs spread apart alot more usual, making th Peridise work a little harder. I did a few hard squeezes which were making things pretty intense. I moved my legs close together and suddenly it hit. It was unlike anything before. My stomach tightened up, my erection was so hard it almost hurt and my entire lower body was throbbing and convulsing. All the sound went away and I thought I was going deaf! I felt as though I was floating on air. It felt as as if I were shooting load after load. I also felt as if I were almost spraying as opposed to oozing pre-cum. This all lasted about 5 or 10 minuted until it gradually subsided into light dry-o's. I thought for sure I had ejaculated all over myself but there was nothing but a huge puddle of pre-cum.
So, was this your definition of a Super-O or something beyond that. I will have to try this technique again soon because it was mind-blowing. There are really no words to describe the pleasure. Your input or anyone elses would be greatly appreciated.

suwaneeguy

Greetings, suwaneeguy!

Just popped in to say Hi!

Looks like you have already talked with some of my favorite people, here . . .

Since your success is evident in you above posts, all I can say is:
"Keep it Up, Man and stay in the Groove!"

A quick thought though concerning the HypnAerosession sessions; I find that
if I use a "Sleep Mask" (purchased at Wal-Mart for about $4, I think?) to completely
darken the room, now I can visualize and concentrate much easier when listening!

Breathing and relaxation are key IMHO???

Later, Hlaser99

Buster, thanks for the reply. To answer your question about the boys, we have talked to my 11 year about sex to some degree, but only answered questions he was curious about. As far as the Aneros goes, that would probably never come into a conversation with either of the boys. By the time they reach their 20's maybe prostate massage will be more commonplace, something that most of the male population will practice reguarly. Hopefully in the next few years maybe the benefits will start to be recognized and it will be considered as normal as brushing your teeth! The general male population has to get over the stigma of having something in their butts!
Hope this answered your question and thanks.

suwaneeguy

suwaneeguy-

i concur that most teens are not ready for the aneros. this has been discussed here in the forum before and the consensus is that they have enough to deal with already.

one thing to mention, however. you might consider pointing the older boy, now or in a year or two, to the jackinworld site: http://www.jackinworld.com/

it is a fantastic site for teens and older guys to get info about masturbation. i SO wish i had such a thing when i was a kid, which would have helped me dodge the feelings that i was abnormal and abominable for whacking off. plus, it teaches guys principles of sexual technique that will be helpful in relationships coming in the near future.

darwin