New technique?-gctid9994

@smudgefish It's been mentioned on here before, some even find using pressure on the spot as well as rubbing. However it gave me an ejaculatory orgasm not anything 'dry'. It also feels uncomfortable if I use one finger (especially if I get engorged with an erection), I find I need two hands to do each side of the area, but I also have trouble finding the 'spot'. Could you describe what you do exactly?

Only thing is I've never had an anal orgasm so personally I've no idea what to look for.

-Sorena

All I ever get from that is an ejaculation as well. I discovered that when I first started back that it felt incredibly good rubbing it, but it always led to a wet o. I may try it again sometime though since it is fun to cum without touching your penis. Maybe it will led to something unexpected and dry the next time I do it.

Oh well, not that revolutionary then...

I just rub hard in the general area and it always helps get an orgasm, feels just like normal masturbation but with different results. Strangely it does give me an anal orgasm as well. No wet orgasm.

Anal orgasm is nice - just an orgasm in the anal area, when you have one you will know.

Works 100% of the time? If so keep doing it, sounds liKe no more dry spell ever for you.

Not failed yet but I'm sure it will soon, nothing is perfect.

Then take it as a sign that you don't need to get upset if it doesn't happen or you're in dry spell from now on. You're still leagues ahead of some people in here, me included. You're saying every-time you do this its successful? Have another and tell us how it goes.

Better yet try an aneros session again soon while you're in this state, i will bet that it is far more successful than recent ones and i will even believe that any device you try will work. It seems there are cycles of when we can achieve a run of success aka being in the 'zone', and when you're in it anything with work, even a-less or any sized device.

A quick one for you: when you say super O, do you mean 'the most intense orgasm you have had'

-Sorena

When I describe an orgasm as a super-O it is one that is just way more intense than a normal one. There seems to be a jump up to something just very different to a normal dry-O. Can't describe it really it just sort of totally takes me over and is just 'diffferent' - does that sound like one to you? Not necessarily the most intense ever though.

My super o was more like something out of this world. An out of body experience. The mini and dry orgams I have just feel more pelvic based and don't take over and give me the intense euphoria that I had with a super o. Super o's, to me, feel like taking some imaginary drug that gives you the most euphoric and pleasurable feelings you could ever possibly imagine. I've never tried MDMA, but it's how I imagine it would feel like.

I haven't really had the euphoria with the last few, maybe I am just getting used to them. I think it's because they have always been a total shock until now and I have felt like my mind has been blown after but now they are just a bit more 'well that was a nice super-O'. Or maybe they aren't really super-Os.

Also I feel even more horny after them now than ever, rather than totally satisfied like I used to, and I need another orgasm.

Things keep changing.

I appreciate the discussion here. After a couple of years of on again/off again use, I finally started experiencing the intense pleasure lately. I am awakened to something strange! but I like it. I feel the need to communicate with other older guys like me who are into prostate stimulation with the Aneros. How long do your best sessions last? can you use the Aneros too much? And how do you get the best response with the aneros? Thanks!

@smudgefish how do you do this specifically? You mean Prostate right?

By rubbing the P-spot vigorously, obviously without the aneros, I can generate a prostate or anal orgasm. It's sort of like masturbating the prostate. Feels like cheating but it works.

Yup, nicely said. I had this ejaculary prostate orgasms too, when I was on my long way to the Super-O. Usually with the aneros inside, but in "manual" mode: I grabbed the perineum handle and made small circles like I was working a clitoris. This and a streched foreskin lead to easy success. But it's not a Super-O, rather a very circumstantial traditional-O.

Only thing is I've never had an anal orgasm so personally I've no idea what to look for.

-Sorena

Anal Orgasms are great and from my personal experience the strongest. I only had a few so far, but oh boy, they made it top of the list instandly (right after the Super-O maybe)...

If you want to get an isolated Anal-O, I would suggest you do the following: aneros-less session, the usual relaxation and then caress the sphincter with one fingertip only and only from the outside. No insertion needed. Do very subtle, very slow movements and focus on the sensations. You will hopefully experience some kind of sweet aching or just some weird sensation. Try to interpret them as arousal. And don't fall for the usual mastubation habit of raising the speed when you encounter good vibes. Stay slow, try to fall in deep relaxation and build up the arousing feelings with mental focus only.

When I did this, my breath somehow became synchronized with the movements of my finger and I eventually came to a point where I was catched by some serious arousal. I began to breath faster and faster and since the breath was hardwired with my finger, the caressing accelerated accordingly. This was a feedback that escalated in like 10-20 secs from very calm and slow to very fast and exploding orgasm. It hit me so hard that I fainted - strongest orgasm of my life. This dramatic feedback-like ascent feels very similar to a traditional penile ascent. Only in the butt, with some serious muscle tensing in this area. I guess that's what makes this kind of O so strong.

My super o was more like something out of this world. An out of body experience. The mini and dry orgams I have just feel more pelvic based and don't take over and give me the intense euphoria that I had with a super o. Super o's, to me, feel like taking some imaginary drug that gives you the most euphoric and pleasurable feelings you could ever possibly imagine. I've never tried MDMA, but it's how I imagine it would feel like.

So much this! I posted recently in the "My First Super Orgasm..." - Thread and described it as stepping in a bathtub full of heroin. 🙂

Or maybe they aren't really super-Os.

No they aren't 🙁
As the wiki states: if it's ejaculary, it's no Super-O! Furthermore, Super-O's have a very strong body-own drug aspect. They are rather a state you find yourself in than an single event. They make you lose track of everything. You won't find yourself thinking "Oh yeah this is it, it's happening now, this is a Super-O." but rather "OMG, I'm floating. I can't even remember when this feeling started, but what does it matter? I'm so happy I could die right now".

Well @smudgefish appears to be the only person able to have this happen without ejaculation.

@unfug I will give that a try, though I must stress that it might just be something that works for you and nobody else.

-Sorena

@unfug they're not associated with an ejaculation, but I get your point, and I haven't had a super-O from the technique I mentioned above. The recent ones I mentioned were something between a super-O and a normal dry orgasm, maybe a 'better-O'. Not complaining though I have had some super-Os and they are like you describe them, just wish they could be on tap. Your description of anal orgasm is spot on, I'm getting a lot of those at the moment.

@unfug Man, I really want an anal orgasm after reading that. I'm going to try that technique out tonight. I think I've come close before, but never had a full blown one. I've had that sensation you described when rubbing it, but I think I prob sped up and tried to force it into an orgasm. I'll stay relaxed and try to focus on the arousal instead of the orgasm.

On another note, after a wet o last night, I've had the most sexual energy I've had in the last week today. My prostate has had that dull and achey energy to it all day.

@unfug I will give that a try, though I must stress that it might just be something that works for you and nobody else.

-Sorena

Well unfortunately it's not so easy and reliable. I had this superb Anal-O only once and that was before I experienced my first Super-O (which is easier to achieve imho). It's really hard to keep the pace down and work with mental focus only. 🙁 In the following sessions (after that big one), I tended to be too impatient. I usually inserted the finger a bit to create more sensation. Doing that, the prostate got some stimulation too. Not directly but all the wobble and vibrations reached it to some degree. It's easier to come this way but it's not so spectacular.

@unfug they're not associated with an ejaculation, but I get your point, and I haven't had a super-O from the technique I mentioned above. The recent ones I mentioned were something between a super-O and a normal dry orgasm, maybe a 'better-O'. Not complaining though
I read your post again and figured I confused/mixed it with Soreans_'s (who talked about ejaculation). :-O
It sounds quite good though that your prostate is susceptible to this kind of stimulation. I have this kind of "better-O's" usually during my a-less sessions, so I get the idea and I think it's a very good sign, that you develop new skills and new types of O's.

Not complaining though I have had some super-Os and they are like you describe them, just wish they could be on tap. Yep, me too. I had my first half a year ago and then struggled a bit to reach it again. Only in the last few weeks I had reliable success and Super-O's in all of my sessions. But they still differ quite a lot in strengh. E.g. I had my first big spasm in legs and arms that remind me a bit of the overdramatic aneros-videos out there. It feels, like these have the potential to escalate into something bigger, but at the moment it's rather some kind of (very strong) pleasure wave that sends my limbs dancing.

Your description of anal orgasm is spot on, I'm getting a lot of those at the moment.I envy you for that. 😀 For me it was like seeing a unicorn - a "once in a lifetime"-event. Maybe I should take the time and try this again. Aneros sessions are a bit more tempting atm, due to their reliability.

@unfug Man, I really want an anal orgasm after reading that. I'm going to try that technique out tonight. I think I've come close before, but never had a full blown one. I've had that sensation you described when rubbing it, but I think I prob sped up and tried to force it into an orgasm. I'll stay relaxed and try to focus on the arousal instead of the orgasm.
I wish you the best of luck. As you said, you can't force it (with more stim) and that can make it really, really frustrating. It's a bit like with Super-O's: there is a point when you fall into another state of lightheadedness and relaxation. From there on it's almost auto-pilot...

This approach relies very heavily on mental arousal and focused sensation. I had to unpack my weirdest and dirtiest fantasies to push my mental arousal far enough... if you are lucky, your brain goes "click" and suddenly the ascent feels very similar to a traditional penile ascent.

@Unfug

Your comment is great... but the use of term "anal O" might be misleading as it refers to a very different thing from what we usually mean here.

What we usually call analO here is the peristaltic anal canal orgasm. It is internal, comes from extreme relaxation and surrendering, turns your whole insides into a living snake, is very deep and powerful but rarely very intense.

What you described seems like it might be related with the tailboneO. I didn't reach that one myself but from what I know the intensity matches the usual description.

Ive always heard anal-o's not being very strong as well, its why I'm a little confused. I think we need to focus on prostate orgasms here for now.

-Sorena

Not sure what I'm having then! Fits @unfugs description, it's certainly centered around the anus, and it's quite strong and deep. Whatever it is the name is irrelevant, they are nice and I would recommend them. 😉

For all of these different orgasms there is still a wide variation in intensity and exact sensations. It's interesting to classify them but you just have to take what's given and enjoy it.

Ive always heard anal-o's not being very strong as well, its why I'm a little confused. I think we need to focus on prostate orgasms here for now.

-Sorena

Why?

Not sure what I'm having then! Fits @unfugs description, it's certainly centered around the anus, and it's quite strong and deep. Whatever it is the name is irrelevant, they are nice and I would recommend them. 😉

For all of these different orgasms there is still a wide variation in intensity and exact sensations. It's interesting to classify them but you just have to take what's given and enjoy it.

It's true labeling them isn't exactly helpful. But it is interesting to understand how many of them exist, how differently they come (through action or relaxation, localized or full body) and how differently they feel. Knowing extreme multiplicity is the norm. Just to open your horizons a little more.

It's true labelling them isn't exactly helpful. But it is interesting to understand how many of them exist, how differently they come (through action or relaxation, localized or full body) and how differently they feel. Knowing extreme multiplicity is the norm. Just to open your horizons a little more.

True. It's certainly interesting discussing them. For me I don't have a clue how I get them most of the time different things seem to go in runs like 2 super-O's one after the other, or the 'anal' orgasm each time for several sessions. Maybe it's a state of mind. I am just grateful for what I am given.

Ive always heard anal-o's not being very strong as well, its why I'm a little confused. I think we need to focus on prostate orgasms here for now.

-Sorena

Why?

Because at this stage is confusing. Its best to achieve one thing before trying for another and muddying the waters at this stage.

Also it seems he is the only person here able to have through the technique described without ejaculation, i am not wanting to ejacualate and would rather not take the risk at this stage of requiring, things are progressing well as it stands.

@Unfug

Your comment is great... but the use of term "anal O" might be misleading as it refers to a very different thing from what we usually mean here.

What we usually call analO here is the peristaltic anal canal orgasm. It is internal, comes from extreme relaxation and surrendering, turns your whole insides into a living snake, is very deep and powerful but rarely very intense.

What you described seems like it might be related with the tailboneO. I didn't reach that one myself but from what I know the intensity matches the usual description.

That's intersting! Maybe it was a Tailbone-O then. I refered to it as anal, because the sphincter was the epicenter of sensation. The deep muscular tension was involuntary and I can't recall where it was located exactly.

Ive always heard anal-o's not being very strong as well, its why I'm a little confused. I think we need to focus on prostate orgasms here for now.

-Sorena

Why?

Because at this stage is confusing. Its best to achieve one thing before trying for another and muddying the waters at this stage.

Also it seems he is the only person here able to have through the technique described without ejaculation, i am not wanting to ejacualate and would rather not take the risk at this stage of requiring, things are progressing well as it stands.

That sounds reasonable, but it's in fact not so complicated. Imho, anal/peristaltic-O's bear no risk of ejaculation. Vigorously, direkt prostate stimulation (fingers, dildos) does though! At least for me, but I'm mostly cheating by streching my foreskin and breaking the "No-touching-of-the-penis"-rule.

What you try to achieve in the first place is rewiring, and that is, more or less, a universial skill that is not bound to a specific region. May I ask where you stand atm?

The wiki says, that the aneros devices stimulate anal canal and prostate more or less equally and it depends on the length of your strokes which stim will take the upper hand (long strokes -> prostate, short strokes -> sphincter). It generally seems to be a mixed thing, with your mental fokus making the difference. For me, an inserted aneros puts up way more stim on the prostate than on the sphincter. But when I'm in the zone for quite a time, the orgasms seem to mix (and I'm usually too semiconscious to tell the difference - or even care 😉 ).

I just had a peridise session last night, my anal-O's were indeed not so strong and remind me of "regular" Dry-O's. Regarding this, I guess Canacan is right with his upper statement.

I tried @Unfug's technique last night before riding the Helix. Although I had no orgasm, it was very pleasurable and set the stage for one of my best Aneros sessions ever. I didn't have a super o, but did have some of the most intense lusty feelings ever. Same feelings I get when I have sex with someone I think is really really hot, and they lasted just about the entire session. I felt like I was a hair away from coming the entire session. In fact I had to tone it down a notch the first 20 minutes because I probably would have. Had some very nice dry o's, probably some of the most intense I've experienced outside a super o. I'm going to start using the butthole rubbing technique as a warm up to an aneros session every time now! This may be something to really help my sessions because normally I just insert and and wait for the first pleasure waves to hit. Doing this warmup kicks things off immediately upon insertion.

It feels like finally things are waking up again! Going to do a quick a-less session tonight when I go to bed and see if I can catch super o lightning in a bottle again. It's getting closer to a full moon too, so I know I'm about to turn into a sex maniac. 🙂

@orgazmo

I'm glad to hear that! 🙂

Yes I forgot to also mention that using @unfug method it generated good pwaves that allows you to avoid a 'cold start' with a device.

I forgot to mention that last night I had that squirting sensation again. There was a little wet spot, but with the feelings I get from it, it feels like a lot comes out.

No more cold starts for me. I really think this helps. It's nice being able to insert it and immediately be like hnnnngggg. I think a super o may be lurking around the corner for me. I think I was too aroused last night to relax into one, but feel like I was close. I feel like everything is starting to kick into overdrive again after a couple weeks of nothing. Hopefully if I do have one, I avoid the negative side affects of last time.

@orgazmo I could be wrong here but I think a super-O is more likely if you are more excited, at least that is what I have found. Mine took forever to come back but then I had one when I least expected it.