It has been a while since I have been on the Forums. I have had a Helix for about ten years. When I had more alone time due to my and my wife's work travel schedules, I was able to use it alone quite frequently, and then as is now, we use it occasionally during sex.
This past weekend my wife inquired about the fact that I have not used it lately. She also admitted to being turned on when she knew I was using it during sex; something I kind of forgot about. It definitely enhances the experience for us; gives me better erection quality, lets me perform longer, I can be more aggressive in my lovemaking with her with diminished fear of ejaculating, builds up more semen, and prolongs my orgasm when I come.
I wanted to take that experience to the next level, so I took advantage of the current 30% off sale on the Progasm. I am looking forward to the experience, and how it will be different than the Helix. I was wondering if anyone has used a Progasm during sex with their wife or gf, or is it too large for that?
I have and, as you expect, it is awesome! A word of warning, though, when you climax the first couple of times, it may come shooting out. This is the only Aneros model that does this to me...
It does stay in better during woman-on-top positions but this may also hinder movement.
The Progasm is amazing, though. Take your time and enjoy it!
I have and, as you expect, it is awesome! A word of warning, though, when you climax the first couple of times, it may come shooting out. This is the only Aneros model that does this to me...
It does stay in better during woman-on-top positions but this may also hinder movement.
The Progasm is amazing, though. Take your time and enjoy it!
Thanks for the information about your experience. I am excited by the possibilities. Can you clarify; do you mean my semen will come shooting out more so than normal, or that the Progasm might come shooting out behind me?!
@7sdoor that is surprising. It seems like it might be challenging to get in (or out) because of the size. I had a Vice but only used it a handful of times (I have prior posts about the difficulties I had cleaning it - a total turn-off; eventually using a small condom on it to keep it clean - again not ideal.) I did not have an issue of it popping out with the Vice at the time, and I guess the size is comparable to the Progasm. I am looking forward to using this new one.
Yeah, the Progasm definitely goes in slower than the other models. I think because it has a wider base, the sphincter isn’t able to “pinch” it as well to get a grip to hold it in. It stays in pretty well, but if you bear down on it and push, like a reverse kegel, it can eject pretty easily.
Haha, yes, I meant the progasm may shoot out. I have the ice and it is way more slippery than the regular plastic or the silicone models. Something happens while the muscles are contracting during orgasm that has made it pop right out. It’s not unpleasant or painful or anything, it just takes me out of the moment if I’m worrying about messing up the bed sheets...
@moeseph thanks for the feedback. I bought the sale model, which is the white plastic version. I will watch for that issue though. Was your partner able to see any difference with any aspects of your performance when you had it inserted during sex with her?
I haven't noticed any performance enhancement with any of the models during sex. For us, the biggest improvement is during foreplay. She has figured out how to really get me going and enjoys pushing me to the edge.
As far as orgasm enhancement, the progasm and the eupho have caused what I consider a dry-O that leads right into a traditional. I don't know if that's what's considered a super-T but it is like one orgasm that comes moments before the full-on traditional. She definitely notices when this happens and it puts a huge smile on her face.
The biggest thing that introducing the Aneros did for us is make her more comfortable with toys in bed. She resisted for a long time but after I started using the Aneros, she opened up to us using external suction toys on her. She now laughs at what she used to think were orgasms...
I thinks it's awesome that your lady is turned on by you using the Aneros. My wife denies being turned on by it but she offers to give manual massages with the Njoy wand so she definitely gets into it.
That was a bit more than you had asked for, but there it is, haha.
Well, my Progasm arrived today and it is huge! Haha. I bet this feels pretty amazing during sex. Can not wait to try it out.
I haven't noticed any performance enhancement with any of the models during sex. For us, the biggest improvement is during foreplay. She has figured out how to really get me going and enjoys pushing me to the edge.
As far as orgasm enhancement, the progasm and the eupho have caused what I consider a dry-O that leads right into a traditional. I don't know if that's what's considered a super-T but it is like one orgasm that comes moments before the full-on traditional. She definitely notices when this happens and it puts a huge smile on her face.
The biggest thing that introducing the Aneros did for us is make her more comfortable with toys in bed. She resisted for a long time but after I started using the Aneros, she opened up to us using external suction toys on her. She now laughs at what she used to think were orgasms...
I thinks it's awesome that your lady is turned on by you using the Aneros. My wife denies being turned on by it but she offers to give manual massages with the Njoy wand so she definitely gets into it.
That was a bit more than you had asked for, but there it is, haha.
Thanks for the info. We both try all sorts of sex toys and it makes it fun and a few of them really enhance the experience in bed for us. Those suction toys (pussy pump, clit suction pump) can really bring her orgasms to another level completely.
I had my first session with the Progasm yesterday. I had about an hour while my wife was out, so I wanted to try it first myself; even under a time constraint. More of the mechanics of getting it in an out. Harder to get in than I expected. Felt great once inserted and in place. A very full feeling; much more so than the Vice I had. Got semi-erect almost immediately. I got up to wash my hands and I had a really thick cock in a semi erection when I looked in the mirror. Nested nicely on my prostate; more so than my Helix ever did - maybe the Helix is too short for me? When I contracted I got a lot of movement in my cock, like a direct physical connection through my prostate. It felt like I could jerk off from inside, by contracting the Progasm just using my muscles - if that makes sense. My erection came and went while I did breath exercising. I def felt tingling and involuntary contractions inside. It felt great. No precome at all. That is about it from that experience. I also had great erection quality when it was hard. Much easier to remove it when I finished.
I went to my local sex shop and bought a progasm last week. I have used it during sex once, but found it to be too direct during penetration to keep it in for very long. Otherwise the prograsm was excellent alone, and with a partner during non-penetrative sex. But This Happens with all aneros toys+my anatomy: after a while during sex, they rub the prostate too much and i end up taking the toy out, because it goes from pleasureful to slightly irritated. I think it has to do with having an erection and thrusting/clenching...
Update. I have used the Progasm during sex twice. The first time we were well into foreplay when my wife asked me to kneel on the bed so she could blow me. As I was kneeling I arched back as she was bending down in front of me. I placed my hands on the bed behind me for balance. As she got more aggressive with fellatio I was pushing my pelvis up to meet her mouth... and then the Progasm popped out! It was kind of funny, and broke the mood. I quickly brought it to the bathroom and cleaned it off. Returned and we picked up where we left off.
The second time, more recently, was while I was on top of her in missionary position. As I was thrusting and getting more aggressive and pumping her harder it popped all the way out. Again, I cleaned it off and we continued.
What was pretty incredible was before it came out, while we were having sex. It felt absolutely amazing when I would thrust and clench, with the Progasm pushing hard against my prostate, we could both feel me get harder and longer and it honestly felt like I got more stiffness and girth for a second when I pushed all the way in her. She said it was thrusting against the top of the inside of her pussy in a different way, and felt deeper than normal. So I think I was getting slightly more engorged for a second during the thrusts when the pressure against my prostate was maxed out at the end of my stroke into her. It was a fantastic feeling for both of us. It will be fun to try and harness this to stay inside of me longer.
So glad it worked amazingly for you! 🙂
Honestly, I was a little worried the Progasm might hurt you during, despite your experience.
Similar to @divine_o that model irritates me after a while.
(Did NOT want to plant that negative seed of an idea though.)
Seeing as you're into trying new fun things in the bedroom, some open-fronted underwear might help hold the toy in place.