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@Hatsuhime
Welcome!

You should know that it won't work like that straight away. It's not like jacking off. You need time to let your body learn.
Your post shows that you seem to be paniced and rushing. You need to relax during sessions, and it can take many sessions for your prostate and nervous system to wake up and start rewiring.

Please read the wiki pages:
http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Aneros_Basics
http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Getting_Started

Patience and practicei are the keys to obtaining a successful aneros experience. Don't expect instant superOs. Give your prostate time to accustom itself to the stimulation of the aneros and to wake up. My first time, which lasted a good deal longer than yours produced no more than a little involuntary shaking. However, after that I was aware of a new sensation down below which showed that although I did not realise it at the time my prostate had begun to wake up. After that, each session became more productive and enjoyable, and eventually I was able to experience mind-blowing orgasms. So,, continue with your sessions for periods of up to an hour using kegel contractions interspersed with periods of relaxation and I think that you will find that gradually your prostate will begin to respond. Many have been disappointed after their first aneros session, but have persevered to success.

@Hatsuhime
What you are embarking on is a lifetime journey of self-discovery, experimentation and pleasure.
Your very short first session is not unlike many others' first sessions, as per @wulff 's response.
It will take some time to awaken your prostate, and you would probably find the wiki pages I linked to you, very useful.
Please don't panic or worry about your very first session. Please keep an open mind and try to sense anything new you might feel, however small or insignificant it might be. Make sure to relax your mind and muscles so that you can get a better idea of what's going on inside you, and then start doing the contraction exercises in the wiki and from @wulff 's post.
As you do these, very carefully notice if there's any difference in sensations, pressures, muscle movements / spasms, feelings. It's all in the wiki really.

It's a very common thing for us men, to try something by following the instructions, find that it doesn't immediately work, to then get frustrated and stop doing that something. This can lead to us giving up, or getting angry and throwing the Aneros in the bin / trash. It's unwise and unproductive to do that.

This, is very different. There will be deep hidden and unconcious changes taking place to your mind and your body as you use the Aneros, and during times you are sleeping, working, etc.

An analogy I like to use is: learning to use the Aneros is like learning a foreign language. It's impossible to go to a class (an Aneros session) as a beginner in a langauge and then come out of it as a fluent expert. It takes time to learn the langauge, pronunciation, grammar, vocabulary, idioms and such. Just like with Aneros.

On your next session, put the Helix Syn inside you, and just relax. Spend 10 to 20 minutes calming your mind, reduce tension in your muscles (ever REALLY noticed how your abdominal and PC muscles are tight as if you are stopping yourself from pasing wind? we just do it unconciously, but we need to learn to control the musles), then start doing gentle PC muscle contractions and play with rhythms and speeds and intensities and just observe what happens.

@Hatsuhime you urgently need to stop everything and read the WIKI. Understand the formula (expectations+ anticipation = disappointment) and this formula NEVER fails. Your journey will be a long and impossible one if you maintain the course you are on.

I'm 63, doing this since Jan 2016 and still no dry-o or super-om yet but in return, I have huge health benefits and GREAT sessions where I get sensations I never had before. I'm at the point where I rarely need to ejaculate but yet I thoroughly enjoy the feelings my body give me. Patience is a virtue.

Aneros will not replace masturbation or any type of penile sex. If you can accept that, you will be on a good journey and never look back.

Good luck and good vibes.

After reading a lot about prostate massage and multiple mindblowing superorgasms I want to experience that also. Huge excited I followed the instruction step by step...I followed all instructions given by aneros how to use this toy!

Unfortunately, your initial reaction is all too common, overcoming some of the Super-O Myths & Illusions is the first step toward your success. Please read @neros thread The Myth of Super Orgasm for more detailed insight.

Well to keep things short: no super orgasm, no mind blowing feelings, NOTHING!

Very few men experience a Super-O or the extreme pleasure intensity possible with their Aneros the first time they use it. Initial sensations may be so unfamiliar they are often interpreted by our mind as uncomfortable or just ignored altogether. It can take an indeterminate amount of time for you to eroticize these subtle sensations into orgasmic experiences. Patience and a positive attitude are essential to your progress. Aneros use is very much a mental exercise, see @SteelColdiron 's thread Aneros: The Essential Mind State

AM I TO STUPID TO USE THIS TOY???? After 20 minutes I surrendered very frustrated and huge disapointed!!

NO you are not too stupid to use your Aneros, you were very smart to find your way here to this forum and ask for advice. The frustration you are experiencing is a very common phenomenon with new Aneros users, I advise doing some more reading and give yourself more time. The Aneros experience is not a race or competition but a learning journey without an end point. Frustration is the result of expectations not being met, when you start dropping your expectations I suspect your frustrations will abate with them. I would recommend you read the two threads Identifying Obstacles to Progress and the companion thread Identifying Facilitators to Progress.

PLEASE HELP ME AND GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!

Members @lonewolf8, @wulff & @GGringo above have given you some good advice already.

HOPE REALLY SOMEONE CAN ENLIGHTEN ME!!!!!

The Tao of Aneros
Orgasmic success is inversely proportional to one's level of expectation.
Orgasmic success is proportional to one's level of arousal.
Orgasmic success is proportional to one's level of patience.
Orgasmic success is proportional to internal body language receptiveness.
Orgasmic success is proportional to the level of mind/body relaxation.
Orgasmic success can not be forced or coerced to occur.
Orgasmic success can be triggered or amplified by multiple stimuli.
Orgasmic success can begin anywhere along the erotic spectrum.
Orgasmic success is the gift of awakened body/mind energies.
Orgasmic success is dependent on trust in body and mind.
Orgasmic success is affected by all life choice practices.
Orgasmic success is achieved following your own unique path.

If you can morph your expectations into intentions,
if you can morph your anxiety into patience,
if you can morph your demands into desires,
if you can morph your mind noise into a mind mantra,
then you're ready for a Super-O to morph into you.

Good Vibes to You !

Appreciate all you guy's input and experience! It helps a whole lot! And it goes to show that it is not the same experience for everyone!

@TantricHealth STOP by the chat room so maybe we can discuss you situation some time... 😎

The Tao of Aneros
Orgasmic success is proportional to one's level of arousal.

Not necessarily, in my opinion; sometimes things happen without arousal but the 'Tao of Aneros' is a pretty good analogy @rumel .

Aneros syn Helix syn silicon

TOTAL NEWBIE HERE!!!

After reading a lot about prostate massage and multiple mindblowing superorgasms I want to experience that also. I am 50years old by the way. So said and done I bought the quite expensivè luxury syn helix, my first sex toy in my live. I was surprised how smal it is!!
Huge excited I followed the instruction step by step.
Well to keep things short: no super orgasm, no mind blowing feelings, NOTHING!
AM I TO STUPID TO USE THIS TOY???? After 20 minutes I surrendered very frustrated and huge disapointed!!
PLEASE HELP ME AND GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!! I feel a little like I need to urinate when I try to squeeze my muscle but thats about it!! I follwed all instructions given by aneros how to use this toy! HOPE REALLY SOMEONE CAN ENLIGHTEN ME!!!!!

Like the others said, it will take time to experience it. Think of it as working out in a gym. You go work out 2-3 a week, but exercising your muscle sets can be done while sitting in a chair at work. You can do it with out penetration.. Don't give up. Keep working at it.

I will NEWBIEmob! Haven't checked out the chat room yet! Hatsuhime, I've done 4 or 5 sessions so far and think I'm just starting to feel a little something down there.. Don't think too much about it or get into your own head... Everytime I do a session, I read a bit more here. Read other's various experiences. You've definitely gotta read that wiki info! I just got around to reading it last night... Read a lot of different threads... Even if they don't pertain to your particular situation you will pick up a lot of good wisdom on the process!

Thanks guys for all the help and advice!!!! I highly appreciate it!!!!