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03/08/2016 8:12 am
So you guys know my struggles and how ive had no real notable orgasms through direct aneros (or any other device) usage. Last night things changed somewhat and it was an amazing experience i need to share and get opinion on. Everytime i would start a session i would get really far within a few seconds-5mins and then it dies INSTANTLY and never, ever returns. It may give me p waves later on in the day perhaps, which are nice.
Simply just putting my legs up as if i were in session and using my mind to focus on where my prostate and the surrounding muscles and 'willing' or 'asking' them to move, or perhaps just being aware of where they are in my body starts the sequence. There is NO device present.
This 'sequence' is movement of the muscles, the asshole and creates ramping up of warmth and tingling and ultimitley orgasm. Very similar to involuntaries and maybe thats exactly what they are? usually after a few seconds of focus i dont need to anything, its automatic. (to a degree)
Last night I was able to repeat the process (even after stopping to adjust pillows or the sheets or soemthing) for around 10 orgasms, one of which was amazing (though not super). These orgasms are the most intense things ive ever felt (aside from ejacualtory ones which feel VERY different), these are blissful, calm washing over of feeling, not those intense leg shaking vidoes you sometimes see. My penis might get hard on the big ramp ups, but again focusing my mind on the muscles and prostate and specifically its location within me, often removes the focus on the penis. Its a little odd because with devices inserted my penis would always get hard and when, or rather IF i were to get a dry or mini o i would feel it both in my prostate AND my penis. These orgasms last night were primarily in my prostate, which might then radiate out to my penis too.
This process requires almost no effort, just focus. However this morning, i awake to find my prostate/muscles inside feeling a little 'tender' like ive had a vigorous session with big toys...
What i find perplexing even now is after years of trying with every device available, none of them ever give me orgasms in session. Its simultaneously unlocked the power of dry orgasming but also stiflied it by not letting me actually orgasm through direct usage of any device.
There is something physical going on with me that is unusual. The addition of a toy stifles muscle movement perhaps, i do feel its a physcal issue and not a psychological one.
I think this is a puzzle, we each have one to solve and i beleive mine is a combination of things but mainly what i need, or seem to need currently, is indirect stimulation without a device (or at least a peridise or smaller device) and to allow muscle twitching and freedom of muscle movement which most if not all devices currently stifle doing so.
*NB* this even occured a day after i had an unsuccessful aneros session
where i used the largest peredise (and several other devices too) to no
success, but perhaps when i manually moved the larger peredise it
unlocks something for me in later aneros less sessions.
03/08/2016 3:07 pm
@Sorena_, so glad you are making serious progress. I too have had difficulty making progress with a device. I do not feel any prostate contact and tend to focus on the "something's in my ass" factor. So my sessions are many times very frustrating.
Recently I have had much more success going without the device. I have been working on the sensations that arousal produces and trying to move the feeling around my body. It's almost all mental and it's working.
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03/08/2016 4:21 pm
Great to hear. I also wanted to state as well that this is not some esoteric or mystical notion, i am merely using my mind to tell it to send signals to begin a process of muscle movements
03/08/2016 5:33 pm
Hey @Sorena_,
grats on your progress!
i am merely using my mind to tell it to send signals to begin a process of muscle movements
This! Most important part of rewiring is imho, that your brain learns to directly communicate with your nervous system. That thoughts alone can spark a reaction. All the tools in your butt are "just" handles to give your brain something to grasp on, while learning to listen and to speak with your nerval clusters.
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04/03/2016 1:17 pm
So some weeks later I have found I'm unable to repeat this process, a breakthrough like all my others that last for one session alone. It's making it so hard to work out the parameters of what constitutes a session.
Edit; I tried the tug of war technique, it worked for 2-3 mins and then like all my sessions with an aneros device the feelings vanish and never return, just as they begin to show progress of ramping up nicely, I'm heartbroken really. I did realise though that my issue is not mental (or at least it wasn't until recently!) but something is off on a physical level, perhaps over sensitive nerves, nerve damage in the past or something as yet non identifiable. I've had the best results from indirect stimulation, Ie aneros less or with the peredise, the auto f*ck process only happens with these devices, the others just stifle that ability terribly.
I know this because during those mind blowing aneros less sessions I can be in any mental state, even tired or so far away from an aroused state and still orgasm harder and longer than I ever thought possible. When I do get the muscles in just the right 'mood' I can do anything as the twitching carries it forward, I can masturbate I can stand up, any position works, but it's such a rarity. I do not know the process for a good session, but I have one piece of the puzzle, I think I need some kind of 'indirect' stimulation.
04/03/2016 2:34 pm
Hey @Sorena_,
have you seen @DarkOrbs threads about hypnosis and Amygdala Clicking? You may give these a shot!
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