Need some quick help

Fissures usually form at the anus, and usually they're painful and bleed drop or two on the toilet tissue after passing a large stool. Often you can see them squatting over a mirror and gently pulling the edges of your anus apart. I've not heard of fissures up in the rectum and I would think some sort of tear of the rectal tissues inside would result in bleeding. A followup visit with your gastroenterologist should give you reassurance about the angulation of your bowel inside up from your anus.

Thank you again, There is no longer a question of any damage as I have managed to pass stool without any pain, blood or any other complications and I realise that I really need to see my gastroenterologist to have some of the other questions cleared up. But the appointment is about 2 months away and I am keen on continuing the use of prostate massagers until then, so all Im hoping for at the moment is some feedback from other Aneros users as to whether their Aneros also ends up with the tails and P-tab sliding off course ?

This is important information for me because if you guys also finding the need to manually twist it into to place to make the tail and the and p-tab sit in the right spots because of the curvature inside your bowels then I should be able to do it as well without causing complications even tho it causes me a bit of pain to do so. But if you all have rectal curve that goes straight up without curving immedeatly and the aneros seems to sit exactly where it needs to the first time then I will take a bit more caution to avoid going against the grain of my natural flow as to avoid injury.

Thinking through it again, here, but you say after an enema and you know you're clean inside and you lie down on your back and you slip the Aneros in and it wants to lie in a position where both the P-tab and the tail are angled up upon your butt cheek rather than the P-tab on the little happy trail between your scrotum and anus and the tail centered in your butt crack, right? And it's only on one side it wants to ride or one or the other?

Makes me wonder again if you have a large, spongy prostate from prostatitis, which 29 year old's like you can get. (I can't imagine it being prostate cancer at your age or rectal cancer in view of you already having had a colonoscopy). Your feeling pain where the prostate is if you try to manipulate the massager into a centered position, and your earlier description you felt fullness in front of the rectum makes me again wonder if a large, mushy inflamed prostate is the problem.

See if you can make an appointment as early as possible with a urologist and let him feel you there. I think he could answer a lot of these questions. You don't have to necessarily tell him about trying the Aneros, as that might feel embarrassing, but you can tell him you felt your bowels were having trouble going around the area and it felt painful there and you'd already had a colonoscopy and wondered "if it could be your prostate or something" and he'll take it from there and check you out good. Then of course a follow up with your gastro in December would be good, but I doubt he'll make you go through another colonoscopy this soon at your age.

Best wishes with all of it.

Hello Twinkle, 🙂

so all Im hoping for at the moment is some feedback from other Aneros users as to whether their Aneros also ends up with the tails and P-tab sliding off course ?

No this is not normal. The only time I even remotely have issue with this is with my MGX and Helix that I have removed the tail/handle from both. Which one of it's purposes is to keep the Aneros properly aligned and thus keep the P-tab from going off center. And even then it's rare for me to have to adjust it. Usually this only happens when I have involuntary rectal contractions that partially push the Aneros out enough for the P-tab to no longer touch the skin, then it twists off center quite easily on it's own.

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Thank you so much, I appreciate the help. I hope slimjm is right and its just an enlarged prostate causing it to push off to the the left because if it turns out if its some defect where I hve a sharp off- centered rectal curve then I may never be able to enjoy the pleasures of prostate stimulation =(

It seems very anatomically unlikely your rectum is curved in some way differently than in other males. This is just an area without much variation in the general arrangement of the structures there.