Need some help to gauge where I'm at

One problem I'm having is when I have the "serious attack of pleasure". It jolts my body and I'm having a hard time relaxing into it.
When that happened to me, I had trouble not making some large, sudden movement. With practice, I learned to anticipate it, and to prepare not to spaz out.
So not much advice there other than to keep doing it.
I try to concentrate on my breathing, but it ends up distracting me from my pleasure.
The training material puts too much emphasis on breathing, I think. It almost becomes a task, separated from its original context of relaxation exercises. If it's leading you away from what feels good, mentally reduce its importance.
Should I try to go into a meditative state where I completely clear my mind and separate mind and body?
If it's something you're familiar with, sure. If it's new to you, it's going to add another layer of problem-space to untangle.
Would I be better off with the do nothing method.
Try it. It was the key for me. I had no concept of the small-scale motions my body made with the aneros before that. Everything I was doing on my own was comparitively clumsy.Also, I've noticed if I concentrate on my penis and what a traditional orgasm feels like, I can replicate the feelings of what the moment before an orgasm feels like.
You say "orgasm," but I read "ejaculation." That pre-ejaculation feeling that starts deep inside your pelvis is where you want to go. So long as you haven't been stimulating your penis, ejaculation is unlikely.
Is this something that should be avoided since you are supposed to leave your penis out of the equation on this?
That was my initial misunderstanding, too, and one that really created problems for me. Don't exclude your penis from the party, just don't touch it more than is necessary.

I don't make any huge movement when I have the sudden pleasure, I just sort of flinch and it's enough to ruin it. So basically just do what feels good, but stay relaxed and let the pleasure come? What about body tension? I can increase pleasure through body tension, but can too much be a bad thing? Will I at some point not be relaxed enough to get the super o, or is that more of a being mentally relaxed sort of thing? Do you have any thoughts running through your head or just a blank slate?

I forgot to add, I do get the butterflies in the stomach effect like when you think of something that makes you horny. Is that something I should concentrate on, or should I just focus on my prostate? Or both?

My penis does get involved a little through me switching positions to lay on my stomach. When I'm on my stomach is when I do small pelvic thrusts and get pleasure off my penis contacting my bed.

One last thing. I can manipulate the aneros to where it hits a spot that has kind of a deeper more intense pleasure in my body while also flexing my stomach. I have to work hard to keep that feeling going. Is that something I should focus more on to?

I'm going to give it another go tonight after I digest my dinner a bit more. Thanks for your help!

Concentrate on the pleasure. If it feels good go with it and let it build. No magic formula everyone is different, but remember it's a mental exercise more than anything.I think breathing it important, you have to 'breathe into it', don't obsess about it, but use it and do what feels good. Try different breathing techniques, plenty about those in the forum. Breath of fire really works well for me sometimes.

I'm going to do some breathing exercises outside of my sessions so hopefully I can incorporate them into them without ruining concentration. I certainly have never had any problem getting pleasure from my sessions, just building it. It just feels like I'm stuck at the edge of cliff but my mind is too scared to take the plunge. I've been doing a little reading about chakras, kundalini awakening, and moving energy up the spine. Have you found this to be useful? Any visualization tips?

Last night I had a new experience. I was having my typical session when I decided to start rubbing my BC muscle. I think that is what it is, but basically my taint lol. It felt really good and so good that I felt like I was going to potentially have a dry orgasm. I did have an orgasm from this eventually, but it was not dry which made it disappointing since I was trying to abstain from ejaculation.

I've also tried sleeping with it, but no luck from that. All that happens is I wake up wondering why something is in my butt. No intense pleasure at all that some have described from using this technique. My Progasm and Peridise will be delivered this week and I'll try sleeping with both of these in and see if there are any differences.

I'm not sure if I will have a session tonight or not. I've done it 3 nights in a row and may need a break. I guess I'll just see if I'm in the mood or not. Or I may wait to take a night off tuesday since my new toys will be here wednesday.

I felt the need to add something else to this. I sometimes will have unexpected sessions without the aneros. These sessions are just about as good as they are with it in. One time shortly after I got the aneros I experienced this floating sensation almost as if my mind and body became separated. This happened when I was trying to go to sleep and didn't have the aneros in. I've had trouble reaching and maintaining this sensation after that. Is this the beginning of a calm seas orgasm? Can a calm seas orgasm be a super o if you maintain those feelings long enough? I feel like I have a hard time clearing my head and maintaining focus sometimes and I get to focused on maintaining and intensifying the pleasure. Should I just stop worrying about the pleasure once I start getting waves and just let things proceed on their on, or is it better to focus on the p-waves and try to intensify them?

Also, I've read users descriptions of a vibration in their prostate or pelvic region. I've yet to experience anything like this. I do get what I would describe as hot flashes coming over me, just no vibrations.

The good news is I've been able to generate p-waves pretty much at will today and my prostate has felt engorged all day. I agree this whole thing is mental and I've just got to let go of expectations, but it is hard. Sometimes during my sessions I find myself reaching for my first dry o. I was going to take the night off, but all day I haven't been able to get my mind off it so I think I'm going to go for it again. My body feels like it's craving it if that makes since.

@aneros_user120711 It's a rollercoaster ride. When I least expect it I have the most amazing experience, if I am determined and desperate to have a super-O I won't even manage an orgasm of any sort, all to do with expectations. You don't really have any concious control over this, you can only 'direct' it and keep your fingers crossed.Read up on energy fields and chakras, I think the more 'in balance' you are the better it becomes.
You might be over-analysing which also stops things happening (for me anyway). Try to enjoy it and be just be pleased with what you get, then you might suddenly realise you are having a proper dry orgasm, even a super-O when you least expect it.

@aneros_user120711, you're getting good advice from @smudgefish and @PSLabs, and you are trying a lot of things. This is all good. Enjoy the new toys. I find the peridise is great for anal orgasms. They tell me calm seas orgasms are super orgasms and I can vouch for that. If you want to try a breathing technique that is fun, try feeling the pleasure from your anus/prostate area by lightly squeezing your glutes. If you can feel it, image that you are drawing the pleasure up your spine while you inhale. Let the pleasure fill your head for a moment. Then push it back down the front of your body to your prostate with your exhale. After a while and with increasing arousal, you should feel the sexual energy moving with your attention and breathing. I find I can fill my body with sexual pleasure this way. There's a detailed description here: http://www.aneros.com/blogs/euphemisms/breathing-meditation-revised/

Also as you say, you can separate dry orgasms from ejaculation. Here's how one man does it: https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/16837/edging-for-sexual-energy. I think it is a distraction from developing aneros dry orgasming so don't recommend it for you now but it's an instructive and fun activity 🙂

@smudgefish. I agree about forcing it. Sometimes I realize I'm forcing and as soon as I stop the pleasure increases again. I feel like I'm not in balance right now. Not enough sleep (some blame goes to aneros for the last few nights) and not eating healthy the past couple months. I'm going to use this as motivation to do better. I think I've had some Kundalini activity. I can feel the energy in abdomen, even right now. A couple years ago during one of my sessions I felt an energy in my chest. Never the full blown explosion of energy, but I'm probably not ready for that. This is what kind of got me interested in Kundalini and Chakras.

@euphemisticI'm excited about trying both toys. For some reason I get a good feeling about the Peridise and the way it is shaped at the bottom. I've noticed there is any incredible amount of energy and pleasure in the perineum region. I barely touch that area and it's like I'm hitting my prostate even deeper than the aneros is. I would have had another wet orgasm last night if I would have kept rubbing it. That technique you describe about squeezing your glutes, I was actually wanting to ask about it. I discovered that I could increase pleasure doing this the other night. I'm going to try to put it together with breathing and try to move the energy around. I've attempting the edging for dry orgasms thing. It feels great but it always ends in a mess. I don't think I have enough control yet to involve my penis that much.

Last nights session was another good one. Some new feelings and the beginning of what I think would have been a super o if I could have maintained. This feeling happened after taking a break and lubing up again. As soon as a inserted it the 2nd time, a relaxed calm came over. Like everything in world was perfect. It wasn't intensely pleasurable in the physical sense, but mentally it felt amazing. I got to the point where I could feel pleasure start filling my entire body, but then I lost it. The rest of the session was good, but I could never get that feeling to come back.

I'm definitely going to take the night off from the aneros tonight. Today, despite not getting much sleep, I feel energized and aroused. Like my body has unfinished business and is begging me to put it back in. P-waves are coming without any effort on my part and I keep getting that butterflies in stomach feeling. I have a feeling once I lay down to go to bed, I may give in to the pwaves and have a quick aless session until I fall asleep.

re: body tension feels good
That's a tough one to get past. It takes practice to find that point where the good feels are getting choked out, and to establish the discipline to back off.


re: mental aspects
"Relaxed" doesn't imply stupor. I need to pay attention and stay alert. "Do nothing" tuned me in on how my body moves the aneros, and feeling it move on its own became a huge turn-on for me. Like a cruel, teasing lover who would send me into orbit with the slightest touches.


re: penis stim from belly-down position
Avoid that. If a prone position is what works for you, stretch your penis down between your legs so it's not griding between belly and bed. Or wear a condom to reduce sensitivity.


re: breathing
For me, the breathing exercises were most useful for eliminating my habit of holding my breath and bearing down before ejaculation. My takeaway was more "keep breathing" than "observe proper breathing technique."


re: chakras, energy, etc.
Mystic traditions aren't my bag. Many people find them useful, and I don't argue with success.


re: sleeping with it
Doesn't do anything for me except induce wiggy pooping-related dreams.


re: calm-seas orgasm and altered mental state
My first calm-seas experience was remarkable for its abrupt onset. One moment I was all twitching and wriggling and grunting, and the next moment I fell into complete stillness. It wasn't deliberate, or caused by any injury or condition. I just didn't have any desire to move. I didn't get an O out of that, but I did feel pretty good. Some of my most memorable sessions have a similar, though less sudden, transition from excitement and activity into euphoria and corpse-like passivity.


I couldn't tell you what techniques can intensify the waves. Just being aware of what's going on does it for me, and makes me even more aware. In engineering controls-speak, that's unstable positive feedback.


I rarely go into an altered mental state, and it's usually just an early stage of falling asleep. The times when I do feel out-of-body, I don't notice any effect on my pleasure. It's just kind of "this is a thing that is happening."


re: internal vibrations
I believe my vibrations come from my internal surfaces moving against each other and the aneros. My body had been given a voice, and "do nothing" let me hear its whispers.


re: first dry-O.
My first one was garbage, but it was an honest hands-free event. No doubt my first coital orgasm was sad too, but it stays memorable because "Holy shit, I'm fucking her right in the pussy!"


re: body craves it
Hell yeah. I wouldn't have imagined "ass-horniness" would become a real thing in my life.

@PSLabs

Yeah I agree with staying alert. Sometimes I notice myself entering that point where I could fall asleep if I get too relaxed. I usually change positions when this happens. Maybe I should drink a red bull before.

I've tried sticking my penis towards my legs but it hurts when I get hard. I'm usually pretty good at redirecting those feelings from penis stimulation to somewhere else when I'm in that position. I also like switching positions and usually do once I notice the pleasure diminishing or I get tired from being in a certain position. Speaking of condoms, have you ever put one on the aneros. I read a few people have success with this. I was thinking of experimenting with this.

With regards to the calm seas orgasm. I don't know why, but I feel like eventually there will be something that grasps me and hold me down to where I can't move at all. I know it's weird, but I feel like there is something lurking that is just going reach out and pull me under a wave of bliss.

I forgot to mention in the previous post about the calmness and mental bliss I experienced, I felt the aneros moving on its on, but not in a way you would expect. Instead of going in and out, it was moving from side to side. I'm hoping to experience that again, but I can't go in expecting it or I know it won't happen. I'm certain that is how the beginning of a super o will start. I've just got to maintain focus.

Another thing I remember from last night towards the end of my session is that I felt this agonizing feeling that I couldn't satisfy or cross over to orgasm. It was almost painful in a sense that I wanted it so bad, but just couldn't satisfy it.

There is also a couple different sensations of pleasure. One is coming from my prostate which is a deeper feeling, and another one coming from the base of my penis. The one coming from my penis I can concentrate on and have mini o's. They feel like the moment right at the PONR. Do you think this is how you have dry orgasms? I feel like if I could get these two sources of pleasure to sync up I may be able to crossover into something much bigger.

Ass horniness huh. I'll have to remember that lol. I've liked playing with my ass since I was 12 lol. I wish I knew what I know now back then. I still remember the first time I put something in there and how it made me feel.

@aneros_user120711 I know what you mean about the 'agonizing feeling that I couldn't satisfy or cross over to orgasm' I'm really wondering if I have even had a real super-O yet I keep getting a VERY potent intense feeling of something massive just about to happen and it keeps getting closer to breaking through as if I am going to be catapulted into something beyond what I could even imagine possible, but I'm just not quite there. It's almost as if my body is allowing it to get just a bit closer to happening each time to make sure it can take it. Each time I have to accept that it's not going to happen and break off. Can't wait to find out what it is I'm sure patient acceptance is the key.

@aneros_user120711
Having a red bull is certainly worth trying. I prefer coffee, even though I have to pee when an O is winding down. I don't know whether having a full bladder is disrupting the O, but I still prefer not to nod off before the O even gets started.


The calm-seas shouldn't be like paralysis or cause feelings of helplessness. When I get there, movement just becomes trivially unimportant to me. Banal. Pointless. I'd describe my mental state there more as "dispassionate" than "calm." Perhaps empathy becomes prominent, but other emotions just go away.


I have tried the condom method. The idea is to surround the aneros with ample lubrication so it can't adhere to any surface. I found the process to be messy and fussy and unrewarding in the end (heh), but I don't regret trying it. I might try it again, now that it's back in my mind. Stuffing a piece of plastic into your butthole tends to put you in an experimental mood anyway.


Whatever motion the instrument is making, recognizing what's going on is a valuable talent. Unsatisfied expectation is only a problem when it causes disappointment. I have had no pleasant sensation happen once that did not happen a second time. What you call "expectation" I would call "anticipation."


My dry-O is very much like crossing the PONR, except there's no ejaculation. I think that removes something significant, but it does open the possibility of having several in quick succession.


@smudgefish described the "not there yet" agony well. Each time I think my orgasm has nowhere left to go, it ratchets up another notch and renews its threat to unleash the hyper-O and incinerate me.

That is kind of what I was wondering about dry-o's. If it felt like a regular minus the ejaculation. My mini-o's feel like I'm crossing the PONR but just not nearly as strong.

Your statement that calm seas shouldn't be like paralysis or helplessness reminded me of something. Sometimes I'm a vivid dreamer and have weird things happen while I sleep. Sleep paralysis happens to me occasionally and sometimes it's associated with a dream. The first few times it happened it was one of the scariest things ever. I felt like I couldn't breath and thought I was going to die. Now every time it happens I know what is happening so it isn't quite as bad. The other thing is about pleasure during dreams. This happened more often when I was younger, but I would have sexual dreams. I wouldn't orgasm usually but the arousal and pleasure associated with these dreams felt better than an orgasm. The feelings would just take over my whole body. These feelings are what I think I'm beginning to touch on and what our brains are capable of producing. It feels like I know what a super o is going to feel like and I've just got to figure out a few more connections to make it happen. I think letting go is going to be the biggest key for me.

Everytime I sit down to post on here, I get continous pwaves and my prostate even feels like it has an electric current going through it. I really want to go for it again, but tonight would make 5 nights in a row. The only time I'm not getting pwaves is when I'm up doing something active. This feels different than in the past when I would use it only once every 2 months or so. I would get the pwaves during the session, but then finish myself off and never think about it again. No craving at all in bw sessions. Now I can't seem to quit thinking about. This is all I have wanted to do all day. I need this lol.

The weird thing is that I've felt no need to ejaculate. Normally I'm always horny and need to let loose at least once a day and sometimes up to 3 times. That almost primal urge feels like it has left me. Now that I have committed myself to this I think I'm on the fast track and it is just a matter of time. I'm crossing my fingers.

Well I couldn't resist last night and had another session. They seem to be getting better each time while also slightly different. The main disappointment being I had an accidental ejaculation last night from rubbing my perineum. I would have never thought I could make myself cum by just rubbing that area. Yesterday, in the few hours leading up to my session it felt like the feelings in my prostate where getting out of control. The only thing that lessened them was to get up and walk around or do something active. They don't seem as bad today after ejaculation last night, but they are still there, lurking.

I have something else happening that is starting to occur more frequently during my sessions. When I get the attack of pleasure, it gives me sort of an adrenaline rush and I get that feeling in my stomach. Sort of like when you just avoid being in a wreck and you get that burning sensation in your stomach and increased heart rate. Not really pleasurable but it's occurring more frequently. I don't really know if that's a good or bad thing because there isn't really any pleasure associated with, just the lead up to it.

One more disappointment was that I didn't feel the Helix moving on it's own this time. Last time it was associated with what I described as the potential beginning stages of a super o. Just a surreal mental calmness/clarity. Not intensely pleasurable, but I could tell something was building. About a minute before these feelings went away, the Helix felt like it was moving from side to side on it's own.

Typing my experiences out is kind of helpful to me I think. It allows to me go back and review what I remember about my session and help me see things I can work on or focus more on. I can't wait for my new toys to get here, but it is taking longer than I expected. I ordered them Saturday so I knew they wouldn't ship until this week, but all that is happened on tracking is that a shipping label has been created on Monday. Hopefully it just hasn't updated and is in route.

I need to stop ejaculating during my sessions. I mean it felt great, but after that the session was ruined. These are the first 2 orgasms I've ever had that didn't involve directly stimulating my penis. The one that happened last night occurred when I wasn't even doing vigorous rubbing of the perineum. I went with it hoping it would be a dry one, but it was definitely not. It was probably one of the biggest loads I ever shot. I'm going to have to only apply slight touching to that area from now on.

I had more mini-o's last night and they seem to be getting a little stronger and easier to get, but still pretty weak though. Oh and I had a sex dream last night which rarely happens these days. With out going into too much detail, it was extraordinarily weird. Like sci-fi weird. It's really amazing how our brains can create these vivid images and make it look like real life and even invent things which never have existed and make them look so real.

@aneros_user120711 Thanks for sharing your experiences. I love reading other peoples experiences of using their aneros. I can't help but notice that you are doing a lot of sessions, it's an addictive past-time and I think I am similar to you in that I seem to be choosing a session rather than actually getting any sleep at the moment and I think I am getting exhausted.I have noticed that the more tired I get the more difficult it is to concentrate on getting or holding an orgasm and I'm wondering if that is why I'm not breaking through to any super-Os at the moment. I'm going to try to get an early night tonight but just know I won't be able to resist, and will probably wake up early and try again (my morning sessions never go anywhere I'm so tired!) I wish my will power was stronger.

Just a thought.

@smudgefish I like reading others experiences as well and seeing how my experiences compares with others and also to learn new techniques. I feel like I may be doing too many sessions for too long, but I think as long as I'm having good sessions and have the time to it is prob ok.

I had a little spare time this afternoon so I decided to go for it yet again in hopes that I can go to bed early tonight. Another good session, but nothing earth shattering. I did have something new happen. At the end I decided to try that edging technique in hopes of getting close to a dry orgasm. I accidentally went too far and crossed to PONR even though I tried to hold it. What was different was I felt like I could keep going so I did. After two strokes I had another orgasm, but this time it was dry! So I had a wet orgasm followed immediately by a dry orgasm. Now I've just got to figure out how to do that all the time minus the wet part.

Well I decided to try going to bed with it in again after reading some more comments about it. There wasn't much sleeping last night though. I think I may have a had a breakthrough.

I'm getting pretty good and drawing up those pre-orgasm feelings. I continued to do so until the feelings in my penis were every bit as strong as right before the PONR. What I need to get better at is relaxing into the peak of this feelings. I was able to do this a few times and crested over into what I assume is a dry orgasm or a really strong mini-o. I'm not sure what to call it because I didn't have the rhythmic contractions normally associated with ejaculation, just a clamping sensation in my perineum. Is this normal during a dry orgasm to not have these contractions? These lasted about the same time as a regular orgasm with exception to the last one. The last one was not quite as strong but the feelings lasted 20-30 seconds.

I think this was probably my best session ever even though I've had some that were right up there in different ways. For example the floating sensation that I've experienced a couple times. I'd like to get that going again and that was originally what I was going for last night. For not using pot beforehand, last night blew every other session like that out of the water.

No ejaculation last night so it feels like I'm being tortured with sexual energy right now. My balls are still wedged against my body so much so that it feels kind of achy. It stills feels like the Helix is still in there stroking my prostate. It's going to be torture waiting until the next session.

Try waving your hand over your perineum slowly. You have a sensitive perineum so I thought maybe you could feel the energy doing that. It feels great. Move your hand any way you want and see if you feel anything other than the warmth of your hand or the movement of air. It may feel like mild electricity. You seem to be on a roll!

@euphemistic I never realized how sensitive my perineum is I guess because I've never played with it much. It's insane how engorged it gets during my sessions. I'll have to give that technique a try. I tried something similar on my chest and stomach after reading something about it, but didn't have much luck. My nipples don't seem to be wired to my prostate so much. I have noticed wiggling my toes can send out pleasure waves. Sometimes I get a feeling that the energy in my body is moving up and down or side to side, but so far haven't been able to get anywhere with those feelings. Even if I didn't progress any further than I did last night it would still be amazing to do that again and again. Right now I feel like if I concentrated I could get back to that same edge within 5 minutes even without the aneros in.

Not sure if it might help but when I was having real problems orgasming I realised that I was concentrating on feeling the pleasure build in my penis, when I shifted the concentration down into the perineum (and built up the pleasure there) and felt the energy being drawn up through the anus and into the prostate with each breath in I cracked it and started getting orgasms again.

Yeah I see what you are saying. I think I may be putting too much emphasis on this. I'm still a little hazy on what falls under an anal orgasm and prostate orgasm. I just concentrated for a few seconds down there and it feels like I could have contractions start in my perineum very easily. For some reason I seem to have more involuntary contractions with the aneros out than with it in. I really want to get that floating/melting feeling back and see if I can hold onto that longer. That seems like it has the most potential for something big. I think concentrating on building that feeling in my penis is prob the key to dry orgasms, but not a super o. Unfortunately, the floating feeling is one thing that using pot before sessions seems to help with. If I can get that feeling back without it then look out! I'll prob do a session with it in a couple weeks if I feel like my progress has stalled. I think my Progasm and Peridise should be here tomorrow. Hoping I get sucked into the orgasmic abyss this weekend. :-O Looks like it's going to rain this weekend too so I won't feel bad for staying indoors and only poking my head our for food and water.

Again, this is only my experience, but if you are trying to get a prostate orgasm you have to focus on the prostate. It should build up to an orgasmic feeling in the perineal area, add in a few contractions (or allow them to happen if they are going on their own), do the breathing right, and concentrate on building the pleasure even when you feel it is going 'over the top' because you probably aren't there quite yet, then at some point you realise you are in an orgasm and it's going of it's own accord and keeps building from there. Doesn't always go to plan, the mental attitude has to be right, don't try to force it, but that's generally how it goes for me.
I have had an anal orgasm once I think when I concentrated down there, concentrating on the penis has never done it for me though.

Digging this thread because im in a similar spot. Actually probably not as far along. But ive felt some of the similar sensations. My problem now is my prostate is bored or something and ive got nothing much going on.

Looking forward to your take on the progasm. As well as the return to pot. Do you like to get ripped or just a little high? I agree though that you have to lay down the groundwork sober.

@smudgefish That makes a lot of sense and I've read through some old threads and I found something that may be useful to me. Something about visualization and imaging squeezing the tip of the aneros with your rectum. I tried that and it replicated that deep feeling of stimulation I get in my prostate. I think a problem I'm having is thinking I'm almost there and I stop doing what got me there. So like you said most likely I'm not there and I need to keep relaxed and keeping building it. What does an anal orgasm feel like? Not sure if I've experienced that or not. Is it similar to a dry orgasm?

@bonobo Usually I would get pretty freaking ripped before. For some reason it is so easy to slip into those pleasurable feelings and I can build them effortlessly when I use pot. I've found that something as little as stretching or wiggling my toes can kick off pwaves when I'm not feeling much. Try manipulating body tension in various locations. New toys should be here tomorrow so hopefully there will be something good to report this weekend.

I was going to add - the main thing that messes up my orgasms at the moment is when I think I'm going into an orgasm and stop trying to build it too soon, then find I'm not in an orgasm and I've lost it. That triggers off all sorts of cognitive processes and I'm not relaxed about it any more.I'm really trying to make sure that I let my body tell me I'm in an orgasm rather than constantly 'monitoring' it consciously. Bottom line is you can't control it, you can only guide it, and you have to listen to your body. The more I think I've got it mastered the more I have problems, it really is a frustrating thing at times.
It sounds like you are doing what I often do - try waiting for your body to tell you what is happening, when you have an orgasm you will know about it.

Not sure if I really had an anal orgasm it wasn't anywhere near as intense as the ones people describe here, but it was just like a pulsating orgasm in the anal area, nice enough but I'm not sure. You can orgasm anywhere if you want - I've had a few abdominal orgasms they're nice.

PS have you read some of the bad experiences people have had with pot (triggering Kundalini Syndrome)? Be very careful.

I've read a good bit recently on Kundalini and the syndrome. Hopefully that never happens. I've had the energy thing in my chest one time, but it didn't feel out of control and actually felt quite good. It started in my abdomen and moved it's way up to my chest.

This is sort of weird, but a visualization technique I use sometimes is imagining I'm a woman getting sexed up. I imagine having a vagina and what it feels like for a woman to approach orgasm. Really when I think about it outside of a session it seems really weird since I'm a very masculine guy. I've done this with varying degrees of success. Sometimes I'll start rubbing and flicking a spot on my perineum imagining it is my clit. File that in the things I would never tell anyone but the anonymous internet lol.

Last night was kind of meh. For some reason I don't even have much energy floating around. Not even really any ass horniness right now. Disappointing since my new toys will be here today. I may just need to let my butt rest for a day or 2. Off course that may change once my package gets here and I start opening it.

Just got my new toys!!! Progasm Ice looks amazing. I think the extra length and girth are going to be awesome. Peridise are smaller than I expected. Looks perfect for going to bed with it in and generating those subtle sensations. I was debating which to use first, but I think I'll give the Progasm a try tonight and prob go to bed with the Peridise. Can't wait!

P.S. The packaging for the Progasm Ice is unbelievably nice. Looks like something you would keep on a bookshelf!

Tried out the new Progasm Ice last night, and it is big! Took about 10 minutes to get relaxed into it. No super o yet. I tried the new technique of relaxing my butthole. Everytime I got it relaxed it would contract back on it's own. Not sure if this is what is supposed to happen or if it's supposed to stay relaxed continuously.

At the end of my session I straddled my pillow and generated sensations. I think I almost had an anal orgasm doing this. There was a distinct pleasure in my anus that kept building and I think if I were able to relax a little more it would have crested over. So I think I may know the difference b/w the 2 now. Prostate orgasm is deeper, anal orgasm is right around the anus. Unless someone wants to correct me on that if I'm wrong.

Something else of note is that I get these sensations of something moving back and forth across my body. It can be my feet, legs, or torso. It's not particularly pleasurable, but I like it. When this starts I feel like everything is in sync nicely. It's like an energy field moving in my body. If it is in my feet and legs, I can move in back in forth from one side to the other. Something always happens and I feel like eventually I'm working against these motions moving around my body. Haven't figured out why yet.

Last night I also detected a heavy buzzing sensation in my legs and feet. I tried to concentrate on those feelings but they never really went anywhere.

I really need to take a break since I've been going at this all week, but even without super o's these sessions are still really pleasurable. I think I'm going to make a rule that says no perenium or penis touching because it always seems to end in ejaculation no matter what my intentions were. It's hard though because by the end I have this unquenched lust that I just can't seem to satisfy.

Another thing I want to note is something that is somewhat weird. I was reading through some of the forum and read something in particular about rewiring and how he was having all these orgasms without an aneros. For some reason that post woke something up and I felt like for sure I knew how to relax and have a super o. But then I lost that feeling of knowing what to do. Really odd and maybe I was just tired and delirious after my session. It just felt like something stirred subconsciously.

@aneros_user120711
You need to take a break now.