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03/16/1999 6:00 pm
Hi guys. I am as new as they come. I just recieved my aneros last week and have since tried i 2 times my first session being 6 hours my second being 4 hours. I am very new to this whole thing and have only ever experienced a prostate massage 3 times which have all happened in the last 3 montha all which have involved somebody doing a manual massage or with a small dildo at the same time as masturbation. All 3 times were a great success having some of the most incredible most powerful orgasims (penile) of my life. Due to this i decided to enbark on finding a massager and due to medical issues stumbled eventually on the Aneros as my best chace of solo prostate massage.
i have been reading lots and lots of information from tips and tricks to how did I achieve my super o to beginners guides etc i feel like i am fairl well informed on what is supposed to occur and what i am supposed to do to make it all happen.
so far i have to say ive had little to no success. Now before you say its a journey and it takes time all that i understand that yes and am in no way expecting to achieve orgasim after only 2 sessions.
my first session i began by watching some porn and getting aroused before lubing up my helix trident and after a few attempts (it is hard for me to reach my anus due to my medical condition and i am slightly overweight at 115kg for my 6ft 3 frame. However after pursistance and wanten i managed to get my helix half way in untill my asshole swallowed it all the way.
from my reading on forums and wiki i was well aware that i am not supposed to touch my penis and so continued to watch porn and tried to settle down and focus on what was happening in my anal region. Up untill receiving my aneros i was actually unaware it was unpowered in any way as everything i read described the tool taking over and massagung my p spot and rotating and pulsating on my spot of which i was a little bit confused on how this will happen without any mechanism inside. Anyway i was not detered and i continued on my way spending the next couple of hours trying a mixtureof porn and hands free orgasim aiduo from pornhub to just focusing on my breathing etc as well as the ocasional contraction to try to get things rolling down there. After a few hours of basically no excitment apart from the ocasional nice feeling however brief after a contraction and release on my p spot.
i wasnt detered and decided to try help get myself going by abit of penile stimulation. This seemed to help a little bit as i feel it helped engorge my prostate and helped with the whole arousal thing but knew i was cheating myself so i would stop and my erection would die and id be back at square one. After a couple more hours of this i decided this isnt happening tonight as i was unable to feel any "involuntary" contractions or stimulation in my anal region so decided to just finish myself off the old fashioned way with a penile ejaculation which was nicer than normal due to the gentle pressure on my prostate.
i then gave it a rest for 2 nights and then on the third night decided id try again. I refrained from any form of self please to make sure i was horny and ready to go.
i however had virtually the same experience again. Was unable to get anything beyond a bit of a nice feeling in my butt after a clench for a split second but could not seem to get anything going. Unable to feel anything involuntary or feel any kind of sensation other than just having a slight pressure on my prostate. After my first night i tried a couple of thingsdifferent which i thaught may have impeded me my first time in that I used alot more lube so the tool had plenty of ability to slide around inside me and i also refrained from taking my pain medecine that day as it can sometimes effect my ability to cum when i masturbate and thaught that it may have been a hinderance. Also with my weight and my inability to lie on.my stomach because of my medical condition i am only able to lay on my back or my side and am worried this along with my weight possibly is effecting my ability for my tool to.move freely. Although i did feel abit more aroused than the first night and my orgasim was abit nicer it alas was only penile with the added pleasure of a slight pressure on my prostate. Can anybody steer me in the right direction of some more information or can see anything im.doing wrong so far or am.i simply just being impatient. I only ask now so as not to waste time doing the wrong techniques or something and waste time that i could be on the road to anal bliss. Thank you very much sorry for my bad spelling and grammar but part of my condition is bad fingers and its difficult for me to type and very painful. Thank you for reading this and look forward to and embrace any kind of advice and direcection to help my journeys start in the right direction. Thanks
06/30/2019 3:18 pm
i have been reading lots and lots of information from tips and tricks to how did I achieve my super o to beginners guides etc i feel like i am fairl well informed on what is supposed to occur and what i am supposed to do to make it all happen.
That's great but depending on the source of that information it may not all be correct, you'll need to verify congruency with your own experiences.
so far i have to say ive had little to no success.
This is quite common as learning to tune into the subtle sensations of self prostate massage with Aneros devices requires a paradigm shift in thinking about what constitutes orgasm. Patience is required, but forcing yourself to endure multi-hour sessions with non-productive effects is just boring and may be laying a foundation of future futility. I'd advise you to try shorter sessions to begin with, a time frame in which you can focus on your breathing patterns, monitor your bodily responses and quiet your internal ego dialogue. A kind of meditation session only long enough to avoid slipping into boredom, this might be only 30 mins. to an hour in length. As you start to become more attuned to your body, the pleasurable sensations which will emerge will be your encouragement to extent session time.
from my reading on forums and wiki i was well aware that i am not supposed to touch my penis and so continued to watch porn and tried to settle down and focus on what was happening in my anal region.
I am glad you are heeding @Cockadoodle ’s advice from Penis, NOT, however, IMHO, watching porn during an Anerosession may be counterproductive as it can be very distractive to monitoring your own bodily responses. High arousal is important to generating prostate based orgasms but it may be best to be highly aroused prior to beginning a session (please see Are you "aroused"? & Aneros, Arousal & Abstinence/Semen Retention).
...decided to just finish myself off the old fashioned way with a penile ejaculation which was nicer than normal due to the gentle pressure on my prostate.
Super-T's are nice but it might be best to avoid making those a regular practice if you want to accelerate building the neural paths to prostate orgasms.
... i also refrained from taking my pain medecine that day as it can sometimes effect my ability to cum when i masturbate and thaught that it may have been a hinderance.
Pain of any sort can be a session killer, if you need a prescription pain killer, I'd advise you use it as prescribed. The fact your pain medication may inhibit your ejaculatory response does not mean it will necessarily inhibit prostate based dry-O's.
Can anybody steer me in the right direction of some more information or can see anything im.doing wrong so far or am i simply just being impatient.
I try to avoid thinking in terms of 'right' or 'wrong' when it comes to Aneros practices, since there are no rules per se you have a lot of flexibility to pursue techniques which will 'optimize' your experiences. It seems to me one of the best practices you could start practicing right now is development of your Pelvic Floor muscles by beginning a training regime of Kegel Exercises. This training will make you much more aware of the muscles which interact with your Aneros massager and thus will give you greater sensory feedback during your Anerosessions while simultaneously increasing muscle tone, strength and stamina.
Good Vibes to You ! 
P.S. I sent you an introductory Private Message (Newbie's Notebook) with some additional hints and tips to get you started here. Click on your 'Messages' button in the Forums to retrieve it.
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