Need help please with Progasm

Is this your first Aneros? It will take a while to start having "success" -- it varies widely among guys. Keep reading the wiki and the forums for advice and set your expectations appropriately.

Hello ernestio!

Welcome to the Forum!

gm501 has given you good advice here!

Although, if this is your first Aneros and you have only had 2 sessions,
your expectations could be a little high.

My advice would be to relax and enjoy the Journey . . .

There is a learning curve that varies allot, as GM 501 has already said.

Since you cannot force an orgasm with the Aneros, you must learn to notice
and observe even the tiniest of good feelings in the beginning and they will
increase in strength and eventually become the orgasms you seek!

I would recommend at least 3 of these (30 min. - 60 min.) sessions a week,
till you start seeing some real success . . .

It took me about 5 months to earn my first Super-O!

Please don't give up and enjoy your sessions!

Hope this helps!

Later, Hlaser99

hey ernestio,

welcome man, twice...in total? Don't dismiss the progasm as piece of junk just yet - for most, its a pretty lengthy journey - and if you're starting with the progasm (as I did) and not one of its smaller counterparts, it takes more than a little getting used to!

The biggest key is in relaxation. You naturally tense up down there during sex, and with aneros you just have to relax and let go as much as you possibly can. Focus only on how much you are contracting down there and when you catch yourself doing it (you will), just release it slowly and allow pleasant sexual imagery to flow through your mind.

for some, results are instantaneous. for most, the rewards are reaped a little further down the line 😉

if in doubt - this forum does everything short of delivering the orgasm to you, trust the advice given and don't give up

good luck, and have fun 8)

Here is my way. it may or may not work for you. However, I still recommend it. I forget about the outcome. Just enjoy the good feelings. The only ones to avoid are any that may hurt. For me I have never had those. I go for whatever happens. At times I can hardly stand the stimulation becuase it is so good. At other times I am simply glad that I did it. By enjoying each one for its own benefits, I always have a positive experience, relax and enjoy whatever is happening, and looking forward to whatever happens in the future. I know that I am just an old guy, but I alaso know how to enjoy each experience of life. There is no need to push for more. Life is rich enough.

Thanks guy for the advice. Yes this is my first Aneros and kinda my first time using any anal toy, so I guess the Progasm will take getting used to. With lube it inserts fine, and it doest hurt at all. And im used to using my PC muscles because i tighten it during orgasms to keep going.

So i guess i just have to wait until my body gets used to it. I guess after seeing those xtube videos, i expected to have those types of results like right away.

When you say dont tense up and relax, Im I suppose to not contract the progasm in and out of my anus using the pc muscles and just let it sit there for 30 mins before starting?

superb answer phils and tres photographs of your contour nice
😉