need advice...-gctid2273

Hi gwmwest,

Welcome to the Forum.

No, you should not be jerking off while using the Aneros if you are trying to reach the super-O state.

Here's my spiel , in hopes that it can 'jump start' your learning process and save you some frustration and disappointments :

A.) If you haven't already done so, I would highly recommend that you read the Sticky posts titled "B's Keys to the Backdoor" - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=767 & "B's Best of the BEE-Line" - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=768 by 'B. Mayfield', also the Sticky post titled "GLOSSARY" - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1619 by 'darwin'. It won't take very much time to read through those. There is a wealth of essential information contained within those threads, which will save you a great deal of time and frustration during your learning process, plus they will answer a good many questions you have yet to formulate.

B.) The instructions you receive with your Aneros or from the web site are just an introduction to the learning process or "re-wiring" as it is frequently referred to here on the Forum. The path/journey toward the super-O is more than the attaining of a certain state of sexual/physical arousal. This process involves you listening to your body, becoming more attuned to the many subtle feelings being generated and then gently nurturing those feelings into heightend physical and emotional states.

C.) The information from the posts of the users on this Forum will be enlightening, interesting, intimate, humorous, honest, open and occasionally irritating, I encourage you to make use of this expanding knowledge base as a valuable resource during your journey. Use of the 'Search' function may lead you to answers for your questions which have been previously discussed on the Forum as well as opening new avenues of thought and practice options. As you progress down the path, the questions you pose on the Forum may be answered by others who have shared your experience and can offer helpful advice to advance your learning. Especially note the responses by the Forum's 'Experts' (veteran and very knowledgeable users) such as 'B Mayfield', 'Darwin', 'Pan' & 'Buster'.

D.) The time frame for this process of "re-wiring" can vary widely from individual to individual, some users get to a super-O almost immediately, others have taken more than a year to reach that goal. In any case your journey is going to be unique for you, what you will be learning about yourself will be valuable and enjoyable, the process is very much worth the effort.

E.) Try to suspend expectations of results, relax and enjoy the ride for the pleasing sensations you do receive. Try to be patient with yourself, open to the new feelings and nurturing in your attitude, these feelings and sensations can NOT be forced or otherwise coerced to occur. Try to give yourself permission to release egocentric mental control. Just "Let Go!" to allow your body to generate this phenomena for your pleasure and enjoyment.

Welcome to YOUR journey ! Enjoy the Ride ! 😆