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09/17/2014 3:28 pm
Hi there, I'm little new to this so bare with me and before you get confused let me explain. I have been recently looking on the Aneros website, and other websites, and I have been really interested with the idea of a prostate orgasm or the 'Super - O'. I would love to have the Helix to try this out for myself but due to circumstances I cannot get a hold of one. However, I have managed to get a hold of a bullet vibrator (the Durex bullet vibrator) and I thought I may as well give it a shot thinking I could get something out of it. I have only done this twice, yesterday and the day before, and I'm planning to use it again very soon but I want to know if I'm getting somewhere with this.
On the first night I read up about how I should prepare myself, what I should do etc. and basically got stuck in treating the vibrator like it was an aneros. I laid myself on my back and relaxed before lubing the vibrator up and slowly inserting it in me. I then laid there for a while for me to get used to the feeling and it was surprisingly really good. I quickly got a hard one and it began to twitch with excitement so I started to contract to get the vibrator moving. I followed what people said and concentrated on the feelings in my anus and surprisingly on my penis (throughout the whole session I didn't touch it until the very end) and I really got into it as precum came out and my legs were twitching a little. It wasn't until I got onto my bed, on all fours with my chest on a pillow and my ass pointing slightly upward that something wonderfully weird happened. The feelings were much stronger, my body twitched so much more and I was thrusting my pelvis with strong contractions and it was 'awesome'... but I don't think it was a proper orgasm to people's description. This went on for about an hour before I decided to finish of the normal way because it was getting late.
On the second night I repeated what I did last time but I quickly went into the position that I love now and it almost immediately repeated like last time. This went on for fifty minutes before I noticed the vibrator was sticking quite a bit out so I pushed it further in, making sure it wasn't all the way in but as far as it will go and it was like flipping a switch. The next ten minutes was heaven and I could actually feel like I was going to have an orgasm and then it just stopped... I can't explained what happened whether it was me trying to hard or it was the fact it wasn't an aneros and a vibrator? I don't know but I think I was really close.
So what I would like to know is:
A) Is what I am experiencing nearing a prostate orgasm or even a 'Super-O'/ is it something similar/ is it not that at all and there's something wrong with me.
B) I am only going to get this with an aneros or I am going to achieve this with a vibrator and if so, any pointers?
Thanks for reading.
09/17/2014 6:55 pm
Given your description, you were experiencing many sensations and reactions to having your prostate stimulated. Splendid descriptions by the way!
Does your expectation of an orgasm include ejaculation? If it does, it shouldn't.
Reflect on all the other sensations you get with a traditional ejaculation...minus the ejaculation...and you sound like you were having many of them!
I don't believe, based on your writing, there is anything wrong with you, except maybe your expectations.
Plus, there is much to become familiar with in this journey, that you have really just begun to notice the range of sensations you are likely to have over time!
As far as the vibrator is concerned, on my journey I found that subtle stimulation is actually more valuable than aggressive stimulation! The vibrator may give you great feelings, but you may find even more if you embrace the Aneros concept of subtle stimulation.
Be patient, relax and enjoy every little sensation! This is a journey for a reason! There is so much to learn and experience! Have fun!
TG
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09/17/2014 9:06 pm
Thank you so much for clearing up a lot about this and I really appreciate the advice and help.
However, there is one little thing I still don't get. Like I said on the second night near the end when I was having the time of my life, it just stopped so abruptly and without warning. Is that normal?
09/17/2014 10:12 pm
So what I would like to know is:
A) Is what I am experiencing nearing a prostate orgasm or even a 'Super-O'/ is it something similar/ is it not that at all and there's something wrong with me.First off, NO, there is nothing wrong with you! Second, if you were enjoying these sensations for that long a time, I suspect you did have a couple of prostate orgasms. You need to understand that prostate based orgasms are qualitatively different from ejaculatory/penile based orgasms, I think it is important for you to understand that distinction. Thirdly, only you can determine if what you experienced fit within the definition of a Super-O, I suspect you were well on your way toward one, you may even have had one but that is for you to determine.B) I am only going to get this with an aneros or I am going to achieve this with a vibrator and if so, any pointers?IMHO, learning the path to a Super-O can be had in many ways and using an Aneros is only one such way. Your use of that dido is another learning tool one may employ, just as KSMO, Tantric practices, etc. are other methods of achieving enhanced orgasmic states. Patience, persistence and relaxation are all important elements to any approach one chooses in their journey.
Good Vibes to You ! 
09/18/2014 12:16 pm
Good for you for being open minded and experimenting, but please, the toy you are using is not anal safe. It could get stuck inside of you, and then you'll be making an embarrassing trip to the emergency room. See the following link:
http://dangerouslilly.com/2012/12/carrot-dildo/
My own rules about anal safe toys is:
They must be made of known non-toxic and non-porous materials and from a reputable sex toy manufacturer.
It must have a sufficiently wide flared base or arms to keep it from getting sucked inside your rectum, or be sufficiently really long such that there is no way it could all go inside you.
And the part going inside of you must be all one piece of material. Not two pieces like the Picobong Tano which I've read an account of it coming apart inside the person.
I'm sure there must be a creative way for you to purchase a Helix Classic discreetly.
09/18/2014 1:08 pm
"However, there is one little thing I still don't get. Like I said on the second night near the end when I was having the time of my life, it just stopped so abruptly and without warning. Is that normal?"
Yes, completely normal! Because, you are still learning how to "push your swing" at the right time to make it go even higher! That analogy is so appropriate because you will learn how to nurture these new sensations in very subtle ways that it just takes time to learn how! Also, like a swing, if you push at the wrong time, it doesn't help, but keeps you from going any higher! Be patient, and keep at it!
TG
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