Yeah, whatever it is... as long as you enjoy it it's good.
Regarding labeling and facts... I couldn't agree more. Just giving you the perspective from my experience. Everyone's experience and even someone's experiences truly are different. Of course take what I say with a grain of salt, just as everybody else's. It's only natural and wise. I am not offended.
Still I would advise you (as others did already) to not be too impressed by some recounts of super graphic experiences... some have been proven flat lies. Just a hint... most advanced users have orgasms they describe as non graphic (few people would know they have it while standing aside). The pleasure is inside. From my experience the flying limb is often either the effect of trying to hard, or excessive energy from pleasure that you couldn't relax in. Relaxing would have made the energy transform in pleasure, the spasm make the energy lost and reset you a few steps down.
Why are they lying? why then is it called a super o?? hah what!
No idea.
Some have amazing experiences, even mystical. Others seem to have a harder time and like to call their frenzy orgasms. Everybody does what he likes... who cares. Just don't be surprised the dots don't always connect.
I think you don't need to run after this thing. You are advanced enough now that it is coming to you. Just accept it to not be what you expected. And really don't blame yourself for that. Who could know what it is before he experienced it ?
@inhope: "Think less, feel more" is good advice when it comes to Aneros sessions. Hope that you can keep it rolling. Just think (there's that dirty word, again), you may end up down the road giving advice to others on how to optimize their experience. Congrats.
i already have given advice, a few times to those that are stuck in nowheresville just like i was.
Sorry but I'm still confused as to what a dry o or super o is and if I'm having em or not. One thing i do know, I've been having this awesome warmth in my prostate for the last 4 hours after my a less session
First off: I'm really glad I'm getting somewhere in my sessions at long last, the frustration is much less these days (i still stand by things i have said in the past when in frustration, 4 years+ of NOTHING would test even the most patient of human beings) and grateful for the feelings i get in each one.
I had another session today after ejaculating in the previous one (a session which didn't feel as good as the previous one strangely), something i was worried of doing because it feel that intentionally masturbating might slow my progress during the rewiring process? anyways....
Felt good, even though i wasn't as aroused as i should be, had a few moments where it felt like i was going to cum again, heat in prostate etc and then drops off. This sessions was different to the one i posted above in the sense that i didn't have a sense of pleasurable feelings running throughout the entire session. The previous sessions i felt a constant sense of warmth, partially orgasmic feelings and other things. This one i had to manually generate each feeling of pleasure every time. (maybe because of less arousal than previously)
One other aspect that is becoming true of my sessions is this: i require at least 2-3 sessions (read: 2-3 days) before finally in the 4th i experience the 'height' i.e. get a reaaaaally awesome session (with the constant feelings running throughout)
I know asking this is kinda pointless, but is this normal? or rather is this something that others find as well during the early rewiring/early days of 'finding your place' with sessions?
Any help is appreciated, as always.
@inhope: You are truly the warrior of these forums. To keep at it for 4 years is truly a show of resolve and dedication. When you finally get there, the whole forum should rejoice.
Anyway, as you know I'm still new. But I do find that sessions progress from one to the next, and when my prostate gets activated, it stays that way for a few days, leading to better sessions. BUT, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes I've learned (from you guys) that a little rest is good. But I hear you about sessions building upon one another. I haven't discerned a real consistent pattern, though. I've also found that ejaculation does very little to lessen my sessions. In fact, some of my best sessions have come after having sex with my wife. So I don't try to time my sessions around sex/masturbation any more. I just let it happen as it happens.
It's been 9 years since first putting an aneros up my ass, but 4 of solid trying. Seriously.
Awesome, a break is cool with me. I have the same thing where when I activate my prostate it stays that ways for days, uncontrollably so so when I'm driving etc I'm feeling things.
I think I've had dry o's as well... Just going by descriptions here.... Or perhaps mini o's of some kind, there is a sense of pleasure but not the same as ejacualtion, more subdued but nice nonetheless, it doesn't explain these extreme plateaus I feel though whilst getting super aroused, it feels like there is something beyond it. Still even if it is a dry o/mini o it's no super o!
Ok this is.... Interesting.
Went to bed after this session, had a few twinges in my pstate area, slightly uncomfortable, perhaps stinging which nearly totally woke me up., drifting in and out of consciousness.
Then shortly later had the most vivid dream that I was ass fucking someone and pulled out and came everywhere,it was the biggest load I've ever shot and the biggest orgasm I've ever known, lasted forever! I woke up and yup, wet dream. Eh?
This is an amazing post. So much in it to get though and take in. I did think tah everyons experience is different but just what are they experiencing? If i say that colour is red are you actually seeing the same as I am? My perception of red may be very different to yours. We dont know.
You talk about the stories of explosive, mind blowing screaming orgasms that some guys seem to have. I now think this needs plenty of salt. That kind of thing did me no good at all. It set impossible goals too high too far too good to be true. Yet again, who am I to judge and decide what they experience. Thanks for the great post.
Yeah... I would love to hear about thoughts on my wet dream, which tbh was very odd and out of place as an experience, great though it was, it was my most powerful ejaculation to date, even moreso than my blow job i received the other week which was just.... unbelievable.
I wonder why that one session a few days ago, was more successful than every other one since? I'm sure it was due to focus, i think that contractions, even more than just light ones (and even really light ones) actually is hindering my progress, i need to be super aroused (use pics or something) and do nothing OR reverse keels (push out/push out holding the device)
Also, if orgasms arnt 'super', then they shouldn't be called 'super-o', maybe 'different-'o. Or perhaps 'not-sure-if-i-actually-had-an-orgasm-o'
Im excited and happy but also confused. As always i suppose!
Another session today (against advice of leaving it for a bit) and started very well then just a meh session (apart from one bit) leaving me feeling super Horney, just like the days where i felt little and now I'm all.... antsy and my body is aching for orgasm.
I realise I'm still in the awakening part of my journey, but i thought that once it had awakened, or started to get feeling in there that every session have would be similar (or flow a similar level/pattern of feeling in my prostate, not that every session is the same), this one i really had to concentrate on feeling the things i felt. So thats 3 in a row of feeling pretty close to nothing and 3 of feeling loads.
Not doing anything different in these sessions, perhaps I'm not as aroused in the later 3 sessions, which would explain things.
The thing is, the do nothing approach results in nothing over 'just nice' things happening, it levels out and fizzles (granted it might be because I'm not turned on enough) but this then forces me to contract a little, and if this doesn't work to then do it a little harder. Sometimes i then get the heat back and the build up happens and something like a 'dry o happens' but its not like that one session was, its just not as good.
I would love to further understand this and what causes so that i can avoid it and have better sessions that do not result in frustration (albeit mild in comparison to the years of feeling zero things)
Do you guys leave it a week between sessions? or do you have them every day? what do you recommend is a good timeframe between each session? is it a good idea to let tension build for a time as opposed to having sessions every day?
@inhope,Have you considered opening a blog on this site in which to record your progress?
Nobody reads those dude.
Anyways, I asked a question in my post, so it's more relevant to post it as general topic.
Nobody reads those dude.I do, so you're calling me a nobody, that's a pretty arrogant elitist allegation.
Hah, took that the wrong way 🙂 I meant they hardly get read/views compared to the forum posts, which have helped me immensely I might add.
No need to be insecure 😉 thanks for your comment.