My Foolproof Method!!

Before you even start, make sure you are horny and your body wants it. How do you know? YOU KNOW. If you do it without any arousal/horniness, it's probably because you are bored and want to do it because it's something to do. It's like when addicts compulsively do things/drugs that gave them pleasure in the past, even though they get little to no pleasure out of it now. Don't do that!! And once you know you're horny...

1. Follow a routine. It's all about comfort. Do your sessions in the same place, in the same way as much as possible. Your brain remembers all of this and comes back to things quicker if you do imo.

2. Rewiring takes time. Coming from a porn/masturbation addiction, it took me 7 mos to get this thing working. My guess is if my brain wasn't already screwed up to start, things could have been much faster for me. But, the aneros prevented me from jacking off chronically for those 7 mos, because I think it was satisfying some pleasure itch even though I wasn't having orgasms (as well, they say when your mind is resetting, you lose interest in sex, which is exactly what happened for me). Learn to enjoy relaxation and meditation, and your wait to achieving prostate orgasms will be much more pleasant. Now I get bored staring at walls or looking into the dark for hours on end, I think I'd give up on this whole thing if I had to do that, so I highly recommend you watch something that will entertain you, distract your focus somewhat and let you zone out. But nothing engrossing, something pleasant and relaxing. More on this later...

3. Relaxing is essential to getting good pleasure. The pleasure also relaxes you more (until right before unstoppable orgasm that is. But once the orgasm hits, I usually get super pleasure and relaxation/release at the same time). It's a sweet feedback loop! If you think you've lost what you had going or that nothing is happening that is not always the case. I've found that starting out the aneros begins moving around and it's obviously pleasurable, like touching your penis even when it is limp and there's no chance you will orgasm. It still feels immediately good. This obvious prostate pleasure often then goes away for some time, but something is happening. I believe the pleasure is not longer centered in the prostate exclusivly, it is being very evenly diffused throughout your body, pushing you deeper and deeper into relaxation and trance. It feels very good but not in a mind numbing orgasm type way, or even in the feelings that build quickly to orgasm. How do you know when you've hit the right kind of trance? For me, it is when my whole body is warm and radiating, body feels heavy and hypnotic, and frankly I feel top of the world, like I could do that forever and would hardly care if I got any orgasms than night (even though my id probably cares!!) You lose track of time. You don't care that you have lost track of time. You don't care too much about anything in particular, and anything you are watching seems interesting even though it doesn't have your full focus. Everything feels clear, calm and peaceful. A zen state I guess?

4. What should you watch? Peaceful scenery could probably work, with some sort of new age meditation music. Something that will get you into trance and hypnotize you. My favorite is softcore tease porn with trance/hypno dance beats. THE LONGER THE VIDEO, THE BETTER. Unless you can queue multiple videos up, you will have to slightly screw up your trance to start another video. So I guess that's some advice which I just thought of now, if watching porn and the site allows you to select and queue up videos, definitely do that! Here are a few of my all time favorites, these along with the aneros definitely zone me out and then push me to powerful orgasms. I do not recommend hardcore porn, because it really doesn't relate to the slow sensuality and build up to orgasms that the aneros brings to the table. So I watch something that turns me on to some extent, and that is beautiful and rhythmic. Women dancing, swaying, stripping, moving seductively does that for me. Watching hardcore intercourse doesn't build up anything for me. It's desensitizing, it's nothing like foreplay which is what the aneros is like, it's just jackhammer and that method never worked for me when actively flexing my pc muscle in that sort of fashion. Just gave me a sore ass lol.

These videos, and those that are like them, absolutely work best for me: The pussycat trance series @ https://www.pornhub.com/video/search...ussycat+trance

5. Why do I use the do nothing method? Because any active method requires work and concentration, WORKING IN DIRECT OPPOSITION TO RELAXATION AND ACHIEVING DEEP MEDITATION/TRANCE!!!! YOU NEED DEEP MEDITATION/TRANCE!! Plus, over the course of a session my body knows what to do, and when I tried to do things myself I got shit, my timing was all off, I clenched too hard and killed whatever I had been building etc etc. And what is do nothing for me? Watch something, relax, focus on the relaxing feeling in my limbs once I've hit trance (and this is not super pleasurable at all like I've said, but focus on that feeling. Warm and tingly and building and building. The aneros is building that feeling and enhancing the trance, is my firm belief. ). And finally when some pleasure starts to build, focus on that. I do not focus on breathing, my body knows how to breath, and when in deep meditation, it's not something I think about. When about to orgasm, I get weird breathing urges and patterns I could never come up with consciously, I utter huge gasps and take deep breaths...they are just something that happens. Nothing I planned, or could predict would happen a millisecond before they happen. And when they happen with the right kind of sound, I know an orgasm is imminent, and that I likely have hit point of no return. And I believe, these mental and audio cues to orgasm that I utter have become something of a hypnotic trigger for me. But I could be wrong, it probably doesn't matter.

6. Edging builds up stronger traditional orgams. Foreplay builds up stronger orgasms when having sex. The strongest prostate orgasms are also that way in the sense of buildup/foreplay, but in this case the aneros is doing that subtle work for you, hands free. So don't clench! And here's where your body may betray you and your rational mind needs to do something, and that is when your body is fighting to clench, fight back and do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. The more you deny yourself the immediate impulse urge, the more tiny subtle movements are magnified to a much greater extend than they would otherwise. Anyway I can't fight all the involuntary clenches, and at some point in your ride you're gonna cum whether you a few minor clenches or not, in fact at the right time they likely help. But if get the wise idea that that orgasm time has come and start to try to bring on an orgasm with some clenching, you'll likely just kill off what you had been immediately building. Not to worry, relax and let it build up again. It won't ruin your entire session unless you persist in that folly.

7. Late night am sessions work best for me. And I've had multiple male orgasms pre-aneros, often late at night or when waking up in the middle of the night, or early in the morning and being drowsy. I think doing session late at night, you're somewhat tired and that helps to relax. But they can be pulled off in the day too, if you are good at your meditation/trance. Still I think late night gives me the best most powerful results. At the same time, if you're too tired, you may fail to orgasm, or if you had a good session and it gets hard to orgasm or they get weak, it's likely due to body fatigue/need to sleep. Time to end the session! If you really want to try to have more fun at this point, remove the aneros and go aless. Prostate and anal canal get fatigued with the direct stimulation for a long aneros session. But I've had good luck assuming the fetal position (which is how I get the best results with aneros as well). Tuck your balls and penis in front of your stacked legs, now your glans will get the total focus with aneros gone. It will likely be very sensitive from aneros effect and lack of major focus/stimulation. Minor involuntary pc muscle twitches brought me to a weird rapid fire multiple orgasm session after my aneros. The aneros orgasms were better and I think longer, but the penis based were much faster on top of one another as my pc muscle went off on its own out of control pumping to way too many orgasms to keep track of. and nothing to sneeze at. Wow!

I'll update this if I remember any other pointers that have helped me.