My First Super-O!!!! How to get there.

Hello all. I am new to this board and I am a straight 41 yo male (divorced) who is also new to anal play and prostate play.

I am assuming that the large majority of men that are reading posts on this forum are men who are somewhat frustrated and who have sadly found their first "Super-O" elusive. I kind of figure that once a man gets "in tune" with how his prostate reacts and works.....well....he really isn't in need of any more guidance or direction. He probably has "happily" logged off for good! 😉

I have read in great detail literally one hundred or more posts to this forum - all of which give tips, suggestions, advice - but I have yet to read anything that gives the info as I am about to present it. I am 45 minutes removed from another in a long line of intense, body shaking Super-O's - the kind that leave me virtually frozen on my back and unable to move for 15 minutes or more.

I scream, I pant, I grunt, I convulse and my body contorts and squeezes together as I find myself thrusting my pelvis repeatedly into thin air! It is an overwhelming sensation that I would conservatively describe as 10x the intensity of a normal orgasm! This is how I got there in two weeks over roughly 6 sessons.

I think the most useful line that I read on this forum is that "every man MUST get in touch with his prostate and how it works." Before I had my first Super-O, this line meant very little to me - but now I understand this phrase completely! THE MOST IMPORTANT SUPER-O IS THE VERY FIRST ONE, AFTER THAT THE REST COME MUCH EASIER AND MORE NATURALLY!

After you are finally able to crest the peak and reach that first "O", you will find that everytime you try thereafter you will be "in tune" with your body, you'll know what sensation that your searching for and the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th will come that much easier. As such, you must do whatever you can to reach that first magical orgasm.

Here is my suggestion, and I'm hoping that the fine people at Aneros don't edit my post of block it. I think Aneros makes the finest quality prostate massagers on the market today. I personally own a Helix and I use it every other day. But this is not the tool I used to reach my first Super-O.

I used a Rude-Boy Dual Stimulator made by a different company. Now in the interest of full-disclosure - I do not work for the other company, I do not endorse this other company and I truly believe that over the long haul you must buy an Aneros for your maximum pleasure - but for the first Super-O I belive that it needs to be "forced" out of you.

As I said, I am straight and new to anal and prostate play - so I had no idea what to expect or what would feel good. The available anal stimulators simply didn't do enough for me, but the Rude-Boy did. It has a vibrator attachment that "buzzes" both your perineum and prostate evenly. As I put on the "vibe" for the first time I found that my squincter muscles would contract involuntarilly and spasm quite naturally.

After 10 minutes or so I didn't need to any longer force my rectum together as it had spasmed shut and was now clamping down on the toy w/o and action at all on my part.

I had my first Super-O with the "Rude-Boy", while the vibrating mode was activated. Here is the "kicker" though, once I had my first Super-O - I now knew exactly what I was searching for and my 2nd came much, much easier. I then turned off the vibration mode and had my 3rd and 4th just as easy w/o any vibration at all!

After having experimented with the Rude-Boy, which is a well designed toy, but is made of cumbersome rubber and I woudn't advise for long term use - I switched to the Aneros Helix. The Helix is a very well made and high quality toy.

Now that I am more "in tune" with the workings of my prostate and more comfortable with the sensations as my body begins to build up intensity, I can now use the Aneros Helix as an everyday sex toy!

I think the most important Super-O is by far the FIRST! I think it is important to get your body to that point of orgasm, in any way possible! Lay on a bed, on the floor, sit in a chair. Start with your legs apart, or together or crossed. Lie on your stomach, or your back or your side - but do whatever feels good untill you accomplish that first Super-O! Then you will finally understand "it" and how "it" works.

Using whatever kind of assistance you can find to get you there for the first time -is the key. I fould that the Rude-Boy Dual Massager was the toy that finally put me "over the top" Then it was time for Aneros and their fine line-up of products to take over. But the Aneros stimulators didn't work for me until I knew what exactly I was searching for. Its an amazing "floor thumping" convulsing experience and worth the search!!! 🙂

Roger out..............