My First Post! Very Long Lasting Contractions and Full Body Trembling.

I actually got an Aneros because I also had a toy that started moving on its own. It was an old nexus revo with a dead engine that I broke and filled up with hot glue. I had no idea what was happening and some googling is what got me here.
What you are describing is more intense than what I had at that time. So whatever it was, it can't be bad.
I found that the Aneros initially did less than what I expected when it finally arrived. It took a couple of tries for it to take off like my old one would.
But... yeah man, sounds like you're doing it; look mom, no hands!

@kdymp3891 first, welcome on board.

From what I can read, with what you have done so far and the feelings you are receiving as a result are indicative of your re-wiring process well on it's way. Most members can describe what they feel more accurately when they progress from a starting point. I suggest you wait and gain a bit of experience with Aneros Helix. It is not a toy but a real massager that should help you progress.

Doing things with your wife is great but you need to know that real progress is gained in solo sessions. In solo, you are not distracted and you are in a better position to recognize every feelings your massager gives you.

Good luck in your journey and know that you can count on members of this forum to help you along the way.

Thanks for the response guys. Today has been crazy to say the least. We actually started last night with another butterfly session, but I didn't cum just to let it build up. I also gave the wife an early anniversary present, a silicone suction cup dildo for the shower.

When I woke up today, she told me she had plans for me. She started by just teasing me for a good hour or so, running her finger over every inch of my body until I thought I was going to burst. Then we stopped for a while and went outside for a "smoke" break to help elevate the mood. When we returned to the bedroom, she had me lay down for a full body massage. After a while, i felt cold lube back there and a pressure, which turned out to be her new toy. She used it on me for a good 2 hours, and the closeness we felt to each other was amazing. I was doing my breathing and contractions, and eventually exploded in what had to be a super-o. She was amazed and dripping wet.

After she removed the toy, the real fun started. Those muscles were twitching like crazy, and she had me so worked up she could literally make me orgasm by pinching my nipples. It was instantaneous every time. This lasted for another hour or so. By the end, I was a quivering mess. I literally had trouble standing as every time I moved I would explode into orgasm again. I felt high, likely from all the seratonin and dopamine and whatnot being released. She had my entire body awakened like it has never been before. My vision was hazy and I felt exhausted, but in a good way.

She even made me orgasm while we were sitting in the automatic carwash by simply pinching my nipple and kissing me. The kissing has been another almost instant trigger for me today.

We have continued to tease each other all day. We are both throbbing with anticipation for the helix to arrive. Tracking says tomorrow so here's hoping! She works Friday evening and I will be home alone all evening. We plan on having her get me all worked up so I can get aquainted with our new friend while she is at work. There is a good chance I will still be going when she arrives home!

I know many people prefer solo sessions for maximum impact, but there is nothing better than sharing this journey with someone you love and trust. It has renewed our sex life and strengthened our marriage over this past week. I highly recommend it for any couple to try!

@kdymp3891 I found your discussion of using Aneros with your wife very helpful...I am a solo user(age 66) however my wife is fully aware that I have Aneros and do prostate massage for both health and pleasure on my own. She doesn't know my frequency of use and has never asked me about it. (I'm a 2-3 times a week user early in the morning before I get up and often when she is out of the house for a couple of hours or more)...I want to incorporate Aneros into our sex life together and your post gave me some encouragement to give it a try. Since you have already done so with your wife...can you help me with any other suggestions that will make this transition successful...I'm already rewired and have had several Aless orgasms with my wife in our typical love making sessions that were quite pleasurable...but I would like to do it with her having my Eupho or Peridise inserted. Thanks in advance for your help.

I'm glad sharing my experience helped someone else!

The best advise I could give is to sit down before hand and talk things out for a good long while. Get everything out in the open. Ask each other questions like what each of you are comfortable with trying, fantasies you may not have shared before, etc. The important thing is to be honest and open. You both must feel trust and comfort with each other before you begin. If you aren't completely sure that you are ready and fully committed to the experience it will just feel awkward and weird for the both of you. However, if you are prepared, mutually aroused and mentally connected, you will likely feel a new bond between the two of you and experience feelings you never imaged.

And one more thing:

Communicate with each other during your session together. It may feel awkward for a moment, but just let yourself give in to the moment and it will help strengthen the entire experience. It will also help you learn new things about each other. My wife and I are close and thought we knew everything there was to know about each other, but you would be surprised how much more of yourselves you will be willing to share and how close you will feel when she has something stuck in your ass lol.

Anyways, best of luck to you!

Helix will be here tomorrow. Tried holding off on cumming, even after the wild day we had yesterday. The blue balls were starting to get to me last night though, so the wife woke me with a blow job today. She was shocked at the amount of cum and the thickness of it. She said it was like milking a cow lol. Just gobs of thick white goo that continued to pump out for over a minute straight. She said she has never seen anything like it. Finding this forum is the best thing that has ever happened to our sex life, and I haven't even gotten my Helix yet! Good things to cum.

Just wanted to post an update to my story here. Last night...it finally happened! Over and over again! At least 10 Super O's of varying degrees of strength and length.

I haven't posted anything in about a month mainly because I just didn't have much time for any sessions, and when I did have time, just wasn't in the mood. So the wife and I decided to abstain from sex and only allow ourselves foreplay and teasing for a week until our anniversary, which was this Tuesday. We never usually get to do much celebrating for things like that with our busy lives, but this year we finally got a sitter and was able to get away for the night.

We got a nice little room for the night, which was conveniently located next to a small but surprisingly nice adult store! Cirilla's I believe. We ended up getting a couple grab-bags to feed the wife's grab bag addiction (not counting the one we got at the head shop earlier in the day). We also got some various lube samples, and my Helix got a new friend! The little store actually had decent prices on everything, even lower than the big box adult store nearby. They had most of the aneros line, including the Progasm Black Ice which I strongly considered and will be getting very soon, but I ended up going with something a little cheaper for now. It's called The Prostimulator VX1 and it was like $15. I was able to compare this with the aneros line, and it is basically a spot on replica of the SGX without the ribbed design at the base. It is also black just like the Helix I ordered last month, which I found out through a little Google-Fu is actually the HIH knockoff, but basically identical.

(I vape and have never minded using clone hardware so why not do the same with my massagers? Haha! But I digress.)

I was a bit disappointed it wasn't bigger like the MGX but figured it was worth the $15 to try. I'm glad I did as this actually turned out to be a blessing in disguise and helped me finally unlock the Super-O.

In using this device, along with the helix and even some of my wife's toys for experimentation, two things I have known the whole time from reading the forum and wiki finally clicked and made sense for me:

1.) Like any other muscles, the muscles needed for the Super-O have to be exercised to build up enough strength to actually move the device properly.
2.) The device is designed to align itself and do all the work. Contractions are necessary, but there is a fine line between maintaining a baseline and getting in the way of the device from doing its job.

(I plan on making a separate thread about this later tonight in the hopes that I may help someone else who can get almost to the point of the Super-O but can't seem to figure out how to cross that line.)

I also discovered something else that proved to be the final piece of the puzzle for me. Hypnosis and audio erotica seemed to help put me in the right state of mind to finally allow the Super-O to happen. Watching porn turns me on like crazy, and having my wife involved is also a wonderful experience in itself, but just laying back in the dark with noise cancelling headphones on and some nice audio stimuli just put me in a different place.

So here is what I did this week:

Tuesday: I Gave in and ejaculated at the hotel after our long night of fun, but have not done so since.

Wednesday: Used the most of the day to just relax, enjoy some light foreplay and teasing with the wife, and watch some porn and read some hot stories.

Thursday: I woke up with a horrible pain in my shoulders, which I attribute to sleeping on my neck wrong. My neck and back are not in the greatest shape and I have suffered from back pain for years, so pain is a common thing for me unfortunately. I did the dance with the pain meds for several years and lucky came out of that living hell still in one piece, but now I am learning to cope with pain using other methods. I did find a medicine called Gabapentin (aka Neurontin) that does wonders for nerve related pain without the buzz and hellish side-effects of opiods, and I use this, Tylenol, and everyone's favorite herbal remedy to manage my pain now, with the latter being the most preferred and effective. I've always loved my greens! Because of this intense shoulder pain, I tried some relaxation hypnosis and meditation videos on YouTube. To my surprise, it actually helped! The first few minutes were painful trying to just lay there on my shoulders, but laying down flat on my back was the only way I got any relief. As I focused on the session, my mind almost detached and I no longer felt any pain at all! I ended up spending most of the day in bed with my headphones on, eyes covered with a blindfold from one of our grab bags (they came in handy in many ways!), just laying there breathing and listening to meditation and hypnosis tracks. I ended up finding a lovely lady by the name of Eve on YouTube with some hands-free orgasmic hypnosis videos, and these drove me absolutely crazy! I literally came just inches away from a Super-O just from listening to these. This is proof that relaxation and state of mind is EVERYTHING to unlocking the Super-O.

Thursday Night: The wife was tired and wanted to give me some space to stay comfortable and continue my meditation to keep the shoulder pain at bay, so we went to bed early, kissed, fondled each other a bit, and said goodnight. From there, I inserted the new SGX style massager and just layed back and relaxed. i inserted the massager about halfway and let it settle into place. One of my biggest mistakes was not allowing this to happen and trying to adjust the massager based on preconceived notions that deeper is better and the p-tab was not reaching the right spot because I'm a bigger guy. I finally learned to let my muscles and the massager do the adjusting. I also learned the difference between using small contractions to help set the device off in the right direction versus forcing contractions to try and force a Super-O. Doing this always led to me being real sore inside and out the next day. I learned to just lay back, breath, and let it happen. I also discovered the proper way to find a baseline contraction and hold it very slightly, just enough to keep the muscles active, but not so much that they didn't have involuntary control of themselves. I used the SGX style massager for about an hour as to help give my muscles a warm up period, then followed it up with a small 15 minute break for a vape and a stretch, then inserted the Helix. I continued as before, letting the massage do all the work. I listened to some Audio Porn, which is basically just audio of real people having sex and masturbating, and I never expected this to be as much of a turn on as it was. Something about hearing the action and visualizing it myself, making the people look exactly like I wanted, doing exactly what I wanted, drove me absolutely wild. It was during this time I had my first Super-O, then another, then another, then another. I did not try to count or even acknowledge it was happening, I just let it happen. I didn't convulse nearly as much as I normal do during a session, nor as much as most of the videos I have seen online of other guys having Super-O spasms. I do have a gut feeling that the Super-Os I had last night were only the tip of the iceberg, so to speak, and as time goes on they will get more intense.

I ended up falling asleep with the Helix inside, and surprisingly woke up with no soreness at all, and although the outside of my ass was dry as can be, the inside was surprisingly still nice and slippery. The layer of vaseline on the massager followed by lube along with a squirt of lube up the old poop chute works wonders. Just be sure to watch the hard contractions or the massager will practically fall right out of you, especially after the session has been going a while and your ass has loosened up and relaxed. I have read that your ass will get stronger with time and get used to holding the massager in while relaxed, so just be aware of what is happening down there. Luckily, this awareness of focus is what will help bring you over the edge!

What happened last night was absolutely amazing, and while I can tell it was just a small taste of what is in store, I enjoyed every minute of it and look forward to the entire journey still ahead, not just the destination. I'm sure there is more I will wish I included here, but this has been long enough and I doubt anyone is going to make it all the way through as it is haha! Plus, the wife is at work, I don't go back to work for another week or two, and everyone else is gone for the evening. I have the house to myself for the next 4-5 hours and plan on making the most of it.

This will probably be my last post in this thread, except for replying to any comments it may receive from others.

Thanks for reading, congrats if you made it to the end of my rambling, and good luck to everyone else on their Super-O journeys!

@kdymp3891. - did you notice a "hum" in your prostate after your first night of superO's? I did after my first time and it lasted several days.