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03/16/1999 6:00 pm
Hey guys! Just wanted to do a quick write up of my experiences with Aneros.
Brief bit of info about me, Im a 30 year old single straight male, and have been doing anal as a form of pleasure on and off for about 10 years now. I first heard about Aneros about 3-4 years ago. Started reading the forums, but just wrote it off as a load of bs. At the time I was using a vibrating prostate stimulator aka 'get a grip'. It brought me some good feelings, but nothing to the level discussed here. After the the thing died, I ended up tossing it and taking a break.
Since turning 30, I have been in money saving mode, until one fateful day I splurged and really went after catering to my own sexuality. I went to a sex shop and bought a fleshlight, small anal dildo, and some thongs and sexy underwear. Also a small safe to put them in. I live alone, but peace of mind is paramount to me. Started shaving my legs too, and getting freaky, was having a blast.
Then, I remebered this site, and just said, 'what the hell' and ordered a helix syn. I read the forums everyday in preperation for this thing, and could hardly wait. Ive always been a very sensual/sexual person, and had some amazing tantric experiences, but only when I was younger. So seminal retention, breathing techniques, meditation was nothing new to me. I used to be able to give myslelf the electric full body tingles (p-waves?) just by masturbating breathing and moaning while edging.
Then, I got the device. Locked myself in my apartment, and went to work. I decided to lay on my center floor, not to draw attention to the neighbors via sound or vibratoons. Put some music on to drown me out. Very first session, the full body pwaves come back. I have only been able to do this when I was a teenager. They lasted as long as I wanted them to, and were very nice. I used the 'do nothing' technique, and slow steady breathing, focusing on distributing the energy where I could. My whole body felt electrifying.
I continued these sessions for about a couple of weeks. I would call them somewhat orgasmic from how long it would last. One session gave me vertigo, another sent the tingles straight to the ground when I got up. These were all great, but I wanted more. I wanted the fabled 'super o'.
So I went back to the drawing board. There was something else there I just couldnt quite grasp, a real bonified orgasm and I was right on the cusp. I started investing more into my sensuality. I bought mens under armor stretchy pants, more thongs with matching socks. I know, sounds almost effeminate, but it works for me. Im very Christian, and not pushing things too far into the feminine zone is important to me. I have had trouble with such things in the past, and above all else, my sprituality is of upmost importance.
So I did as much as I could get away with, LOL. And it definitely helps. I dont know about you guys, but shaved legs with strechy pants and a thong feels fucking amazing. That with just some light nipple play, and I am BUZZING with sexuality, which is very, very important for reaching new heights I have found. Whatever works for you, do it.
So there I was, working for something, day in, day out. Still with the do nothing technique. Trying heavier breathing, and then faster breathing, which led to panting. I had to start covering my mouth with a blanket to avoid being caught. Thats when things started to 'unlock'. But there was a limit to how far I could go. It was somewhat orgasmic, in the sense that I lost control and the pleasure took my body over, but my body would get starved for oxeygen, and I would lose focus.
This became VERY frustrating. I was so close, but couldnt get over the edge. I became obsessed, I had to figure this thing out. Once I became so pissed that I didnt get off that I watched porn and jerked it, which is a HUGE no no for me. I kept at it until finally one night it happened....
...I started off slow, and just relaxed. Some foreplay, gentle teasing of cock, nipples, getting off on my attire and legs. Put the aneros in and just relaxed. Started with pwaves first. Then came what I had been doing recently, which was Heavy Slow Breathing, with Subtle Abdominal Contractions/Shivering/Quivering combined with some Nipple Play. This is what does it for me. Not anal contractions or PC muscle movements. If I do the abdominal contractions/quivering, I can feel the helix lightly rub my prostate, and actually sense my prostate swell up with increased sensitivity. This gives me building pleasure with some warm feelings that build, and build, and build! I kept at this, I was persistent and focused on making sure the pleasure keeps increasing, and not losing Focus. It. Just. Kept. Building. Then... out of no where, my proatate got so sensitive, my pleasure so high, I just 'let go', and melted into the feelings, all the while keeping pace, then BOOOOOOOOM!!!!!!!!
It hit me like a load of bricks!!! I wasnt being super loud, so I didnt need to cover my mouth, which was great cuz a lack of discretion would of ended it. But my body and prostate and the pleasure JUST TOOK ME OVER. I was no longer in control of myself, the orgasm was. My eyes rolled backed, fluttered. My breaths matched perfectly with my abdominal contractions, i was locked in and in full sync with my pleasure. And it just kept going, and building, and moving. Lost sense of all space and and time, and of self, and all the stresses of this world. This had to go on for a good 5-10 mins at least. Precum everywhere, whole body being massaged by pleasure waves and contractions from the inside. It was beautiful.
My first super O. A few days later, I repeated it. Now, I can do this at will, unless im too tired. Also now that im in tune with my arrousal, breathing techniques and abdominal contractions/quivers, I can reach an orgasm without the aneros even in. Granted its not as intense, but still VERY strong, and VERY good. Its now usually my warm up /forplay going aless. Then once I do put the aneros in, holy shit my body is instantly on fire almost instantly super orgasming.
These orgasms can go on for 20 mins or so, in an ebin flow of waves of peaks and valleys. They can stack on top of each other, and create some very surreal super human trippy experiences. Ive had my fare share of psycidellyc drug experiences, and these are sometimes up there with that.
I go into trances with my eyes/face. I can feel pleasure orbs orbit my body clockwise, increasing in pleasure with each orbit. Ive had legs tense up and lock, as well as face and jaw quivers. All kinds of crazy freaky shit hahaha.
Aneros is really wonderdul in unlocking your tantric self. As someone from the outside looking in, it can seem like total bullshit, and I can relate. The first few minutes of use I was like, "fuck, I just wasted 80 buck on this little thing that I can hardly feel in my butt. Fuck me." But, im glad I stuck with it, my life is forever changed.
Im now fully practicing seminal retention, and im a much more happier energetic person. I smoke less pot, and am motivated to keep my body pure and healthy with exercise etc, cuz I know it will just make sessionss better(trust me, im very content as it is now). It has become somewhat addicting, but im getting a grasp on that too. More rest = better sessions.
So thank you Aneros. All you new members that are 'close', just stick with it. Its frustrating, but just do what works for you, and you will get there. Focus, let the pleasure build, and dont be afraid of it. Let yourself go, and dont expect just feel.
I will leave you in the wise words of Bruce Lee,
"Don't think, feeel. Its like a finger pointing directly at the moon. DONT concentrate on the Finger or you will miss all of that heavenly glory"
Peace and love.
11/13/2015 5:04 pm
If you guys have ANY questions, please feel free to ask. I feel that I have taken SO MUCH from these forums that I have NO PROBLEM giving back 🙂
11/13/2015 5:15 pm
should be posted as blog dude. Looks like you don't need any help either, just know there are people here that would die to just get half of what you experience.
11/13/2015 7:14 pm
Sorry it was a long post, just had to get it out on paper so to speak, didnt realize there was a seperate section.
I would reply to that as saying 'the grass is always greener'. Im sure there are many people that would love to be in your position too :). Always gotta appreciate what we do have and count our blessings.
11/13/2015 7:31 pm
Sorry it was a long post, just had to get it out on paper so to speak, didnt realize there was a seperate section.
I would reply to that as saying 'the grass is always greener'. Im sure there are many people that would love to be in your position too :). Always gotta appreciate what we do have and count our blessings.
no worries just thought it should go there. nice positive attitude, I respect that. I'm sure it's easy to have when you're experiences are that incredible, that intense and that fulfilling. I hope to be in your position one day, congratulations on your success.
Yes I'm probably better off than some, perhaps I'm just a little tired. The bit about building is probably what frustrated me when reading, it's where things cut out for me. I'm still trying to figure out ways past it.
Anyways, well done. Perhaps you can make an instructional video or something one day? Also I wonder why every person that first buys an Aneros either goes for a helix or helix syn first? It's not a beginner device? Never understood that.
11/13/2015 8:21 pm
I dunno I just thought it was the most popular aka best chance to work. Ive done anal before, so im not a total beginner.
What works for me is as things build I start panting faster, quicker, shorter breaths. Just the sound and act turns me on more. Sometimes my abs give a quick jolting contraction, and my breath will 'catch'.
Deep diaphram breathing is key.
If you can build pleasure up even just a little bit, no matter how subtle, just focus on that. Ride the waves, up and down, but keep breathing. If your getting real turned on, feed that through breathing, nipple touching, ab contracting, whatever works for you that builds you up and gets you going. Try not to think about what you 'should' do, or what you 'read' about, just do what you think will make you feel good at that time.
You almost want to mimic how a female cums in the porn videos. Its internal, and closely related I think.
Im not comfortable making a video lol, but im here to help!
11/13/2015 8:28 pm
When things start to fade and I lose momentum, using wet fingers and pinching/rubbing/touching the tips of my nipples always jolts me right back up.
11/13/2015 8:37 pm
If things are getting too intense, I just slow down, relax and breathe, enjoying the small subtle sensations, before it builds back up again.
...so relaxing, diaphragm breathing, and abdominal contractions/shakes/quivers are my keys.
11/13/2015 8:38 pm
also the foreplay and sexual charging are key. Focus on your sense of self and what makes you feel sexy. I think porn is limiting in that way if thats what you are using....
11/13/2015 9:09 pm
So regardin the abdominal contractions, is it squeezing like bearing down? Or is it lime ducking the belly in navel to spine? Or more like doing a crunch?
11/13/2015 9:30 pm
Both tightening/flexing the abs quickly, like a quick jolt as if before you were about to get punched.
Also sucking the navel down with strong diaphragm movement I feel rubs the device against your prostate, also syncs up with strong diaphragm breathing.
After a while I will only slightly tighten, and this will make my stomach start to quiver with breaths.
Tightening as inhaling will also increase quivering.
....sorry, very hard to put into words something that I find comes kind of naturally. Im at work now, ill try to elaborate more later.
11/14/2015 12:15 pm
Its like quick successive shaking of the diaphragm. Very rapid, but not always constant, until it becones constant (when im cuming)
11/14/2015 12:17 pm
I tried anal contractions lastnight and this morning. The orgasms were good, and intense, but very quick and not as nearly sustainable as abdominal ones.
11/14/2015 12:19 pm
why did you buy a helix syn as your first device? i don't get it! its not a beginners tool, its massive!?
11/14/2015 12:53 pm
The furthest along I have gotten so far has been using do nothing to get started followed by lightabdominals. Any type of PC or Anal contractions seemingly do nothing or stifle whatever I am feeling.
11/16/2015 10:24 am
I would say the pot has had added alot to your success!!
11/16/2015 5:06 pm
Actually, pot kind of diminshes the experience. It makes my lungs a bit congested, and my focus a little dull, and just really isnt needed as the sessions are great enough on their own.
That being said, smoking does help to get in the mood, but again not really needed.
11/16/2015 5:08 pm
Sorena im used to much larger things goin in my butt, so no problem there.
I like the larger model cuz the device doesnt really need to move to give me pleasure. Rather it just stays there, and I use my stomach to rub and vibrate my prostate against it.
11/16/2015 10:12 pm
So do you try to avoid all pc/analysis contractions, including involuntary ones through breathing or do you allow those contractions to occur. Just wasnt sure if you fight them off or if you allow them to roll wi th out assisting
11/17/2015 12:22 am
I personally think it's bad to fight anything. Let whatever is going to happen happen.
11/18/2015 12:00 am
Ya I just let them occur. It doesnt contract over and over like it would during a traditional o. I feel some twitching, and it does tighten a lot when im coming. When im coming my stomach actually contracts a lot, and sort of bears down almost like im sobbing/laughing at the same time.
11/18/2015 12:06 am
...reading some of these forum posts I think there is actually a lot more pleasure to be had (sounds crazy).
After two weeks of not ejaculating I notice I am MUCH more sensitive in my sessions. I come on a lot quicker, and much stronger as well. Im sure knowing what makes me tick is helping, but I strongly believe there is something to the not ejaculating thing. My nipples have doubled in size too when erect, which is also helping.
Still so much to explore in this journey and im really enjoying the ride. Now if I could just get my ass back in the gym!
11/18/2015 9:51 am
your description of the belly trick was really excellent.
i tried what you suggested last night: firmly contracting my abs on exhale for a number of breaths. sure enough, that quickly led to incredibly sweet abdominal focused orgasms, which went on and on, and added profound sensitivity to my whole body.
in fact, they seemed to lead, in turn, to my first experience of my balls being the center of orgasms: they were vibrating and shaking with ball-gasms.
but... the belly ones, wow are they beautiful, and easy (for me) to access.
THANKS
darwin
11/18/2015 7:23 pm
Rad! Glad I could help. Yes they are easy to get into no doubt. Great to get your prostate warmed up doing those Aless, then dropping the aneros in after 1-2 Aless gasms is just ELECTRIFYING.
...I kind of take back the no anal contraction comment earlier. This happened to me lastnight where I had the anal contractions when I was cumming. My body felt like a giant penis orgasming hahahaha.
Really glad I can contribute! Keep shaking, shivering, and quivering your way to bliss!
....that sobbing/laughing gasm tho...
🙂
11/20/2015 5:01 pm
why did you buy a helix syn as your first device? i don't get it! its not a beginners tool, its massive!?
It is not massive. It's an intermediate size. It is not a bad choice for a beginner. The Progasm is
the largest device.
11/20/2015 7:31 pm
why did you buy a helix syn as your first device? i don't get it! its not a beginners tool, its massive!?
It is not massive. It's an intermediate size. It is not a bad choice for a beginner. The Progasm is
the largest device.
I would say the mgx is intermediate, progasm is large for example, helix though not the biggest is still large. I'm sure the official charts say otherwise but it's obvious to see its a little more than just 'average' in size and for a first device it's not IMO a good 'entry' point, sgx or helix would be I would say.
11/25/2015 2:36 am
@newguru69 - great post. Its great to meet another forum member with a similar backstory to mine. I'm also a single, straight male, 28 yrs old. I've been experimenting with anal pleasure for probably the last 5-6 years.
I also call myself a Christian and consider my spirituality very important to me; it was nice to hear the experience of somebody with similar beliefs and values as myself. Initially I felt strange about my experimenting but soon came to realize that despite my Christian beliefs there was nothing wrong or "sinful" about what I was doing. I've never shared what i do with anybody for fear that they would judge or misunderstand, or think that I was secretly gay.
The aneros was my first venture into real anal toys. It wasn't until after that I began to purchase a few others. I've had some great sessions with my Progasm and Helix Syn but no major Super-O's to speak of yet. But I'm enjoying the ride.
Cheers!
11/30/2015 7:44 pm
Awesome man. Ya I keep everything under lock and key. People are pretty close minded/synical, some things are just better kept to our selves.
No idea on how to explain this to a future wife tho, especially hard with the no premarital sex thing...
12/01/2015 3:30 am
Awesome man. Ya I keep everything under lock and key. People are pretty close minded/synical, some things are just better kept to our selves.
No idea on how to explain this to a future wife tho, especially hard with the no premarital sex thing...
I agree. Though in my research over the years I've discovered that there's a lot of open-minded Christians on the subject of male prostate pleasure and anal play in general. There will always be people who object to it but I think if you find a loving partner who accepts you for you, she may surprise you with what she is accepting of and/or willing to participate in.
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