End of january now still trying every few days with minimal or no results.Guess ill never be one of the lucky ones.
2/20/07 Had an interesting session yesterday with the helix. Had it in place about 30 min. when i started feeling a pulse like feeling rectally,almost inperceptible but there. I tried to help it continue or even increase and i lost it.It only lasted for about 30 seconds but it was great.Hmmmmmmmm...... maybe theres hope for me after all.I thought all had been lost and maybe im being too optimistic but i shall forge ahead and continue to post my successes or failures here.
well here we are at 4/4/7. Two different models,hrs of reading posts,hundreds of experimentations and the best i can come up with is pleasureable feelings.maybe thats all there is for me.Dissapointed,Disgusted,and depressed.
5/5/7 Still trying without much success.
Originally Posted By: drslyr
well here we are at 4/4/7. Two different models,hrs of reading posts,hundreds of experimentations and the best i can come up with is pleasureable feelings.maybe thats all there is for me.Dissapointed,Disgusted,and depressed.
Rumel here, 'drslyr', if your "disappointed, disgusted and depressed" while having "pleasureable feelings" it would seem to me you're cross wiring yourself for failure. I too am a bit frustated with learning the re-wiring process, but I am enjoying the pleasureable sensations, trying to focus them into something stronger, each session is feels good even though I am no where near a Super-O. You post on 2/20/07 was right on for the deep inner sensations to focus upon and subtly encourage, I got my only Mini-O (which lasted about 5 minutes) this way and it really felt fine. Sorry to say I haven't been able to repeat it yet. I'm going to keep repeating the sessions on a regular basis without expectations of a Super-O, as long as I'm still getting those good pleasurable feelings, maybe I never get the Super-O, but at least it feels good on the way, and at least I know that Mini-O's are possible and are very pleasureable. Hang in there,
I bet it will get better for you.
almost 2 yrs now still no super o still trying 🙁
still continuing with the mission impossible quest for the mythical super o. I feel it must be located some where with don Quiote or maybe at the end of the rainbow under the pot o gold,or maybe if im real good, 🙄 the easter bunny or santa will bring it
dude..come on...after 2 years nothing pleasurable?got wild on my fourth try//u gotta be kidding me
Have had some pleasurable feelings but nothing earth shattering.Nice little toy but it seems unfortunately not to be the 1 for me. Maybe im 1 of the poor suckers it just dosnt work for. However i will continue my sessions in despair,and continue to print my failures here for all to read. 😥
now its mid may . Still trying. no new developments.
Hi drslyr,
I am hoping you make it!! Why should you be the only one to not get the pleasure you deserve 🙂
The good thing is that you seem to be patient and wanting of the big O, especially after 2 years, but remember, you must be rested and have the time to just enjoy the feelings.
Let the feelings flow... (sounds like something from Star Wars) do not push for them and try harder to get something.... or they will go away...
I know that is always easy for a guy to say when he has no problems, but it does work...
Make sure you are a bit excited, or feel you really could use some good sex. If porn is not your bag, then listen to some music, something with a rhythmic beat, but not to fast.
Use mild contractions, but not to hard.. Make sure you have about 40 minutes to an hour to just relax..
I am not sure if you have read all the information in the new wiki, if not go take a look it has a great deal of information I had previously missed or overlooked myself...
about 2 wks ago i was having a morning session with my helix . i was lying on my right side and began to feel some pressure building in my lower right side. i thought maybe this was some thing good building. After several minutes i felt some thing pop in my right side then excruciating pain.I went to work anyway. Three days later i ended up in the emergency room. Too embarresed to say what i had been up to i said it seemed like a kidney stone attack of which i have had many over the yrs. after being x rayed and sonogramed i was told i did not have kidney stones or gall stones. I have been living with this for 2 wks now, and its getting worse. maybe i'll be the first to die from aneros use.
Wow and I thought my time was long....I been at this almost as long as you have and got just about the same results.....haven't much had the inclination to try lately due to the fiancé's extreme disapproval of it but I know one of the problems is not doing it regularly enough...like 2 or more times a week....
I see from your posts you update your progress intermittently but maybe its not working for you cos you only try once or twice a month like me??
As for the pain thing.....it might be a hernia? Had something similar to what you describe happen to me when I was a kid...very unpleasant and painful!
"Wow and I thought my time was long....I been at this almost as long as you have and got just about the same results.....haven't much had the inclination to try lately due to the fiancé's extreme disapproval of it but I know one of the problems is not doing it regularly enough...like 2 or more times a week.... "-
I know you love your fiancee to pieces, but i must say this. You have every right as a MAN to experience the pleasures that a WOMAN experiences, if your fianceee cant get her head around somthing that has been going on with us men for thousands of years then she needs to wake up to the 21st century. I asume she means "anal play=gay"? Which is kind of closed-mined and pathetic if you ask me.
drslyr,
What actually happened? Are you OK?
Johntrevy: Do a search for my previous posts and you will see what shit I have been putting up with....Yeh her issue is that if you put something up your bum your automatically Gay......I agree its pathetic and close minded! She has put such a damper on it I feel no inclination to even try much for the last few months? I think I've had one session in three months? or something like that....*shrug*
Hmmm, i just had a thought crimson. Why dont you go over the differnces in your pleasures, your anatomies? what makes you both tick. Maybe she will understand why you "stick things up your bum"?
Our G-spot is in our butts, hers is in her vagina, what is so differnt? They are bot holes, many women enoy anal play, if a girl has one (g-spot orgasm) why cant we?
So what an object is entering our butt, but is it a penis?no, do you want it to be a penis?no. So what is her problem?
Sounds like a "i can have multiples, its my right, not yours BOY!", maybe they are still rding the whole equal rights (which i whole hearitly support- but has been blown out of proportion) bigrade, after all these years.
Johntrevy.
im still alive. using my aneroses very infrequently now. Pretty much have ginven up.
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You should come to the chat today.
almost 3 yrs now. Still trying with little results.
I think its 4 yrs now ive been trying the aneros. I have 3 models, and up until recently lots of frustration. I bought the hypnoanerosession cds. It has been of tremmendous help to me.That and findng a position that would work for me. Anyway all along ive played with my different models, sometimes 1 or 2 times p/wk, sometimes not for wks at a time. I was experimenting with positions and found 1 that seemed to work. Its on all fours, face down, knees up and spread with chest and hips mashed to the bed. unfortunately this position is exhausting. Anyway i just discovered this position a wk or 2 ago.I listen to the hypnoanerosession cds while in this position and have made my greatest progress since i started the aneros experience 4 yrs ago. Ive had involuntaries for 30 seconds at a time followed by more involuntaries 3 or4 at a time about 20 to 30 seconds each followed by 3 to 5 seconds of something i cant describe but i think may be a mini o. Ive been so excited about it ive been having sessions like a madman. Finally after 4 yrs i have an understanding of what everyone here talks about.Make no mistake im still not anywhere close yet but my frustration has turned into hope and anticipation once again.The bad news is the freqent madman sessions have aggrevated some hemeroidal problems and have had to take a break till they subside."yikes maybe too much info".lol. Anyway forging ahead with renewed hope and anticipation.
Hello drslyr, 🙂
That's fantastic to hear that you have finally started getting some pleasurable results after all this time! 😀 I totally understand where you are coming from. I've been at this for a bit over three years, and no super-O yet. But unlike you, I've been having pleasurable sessions for quite some time. It really changes your perspective when you feel something incredibly good from the session. Keep at it! 😀
Love_is
update................ at least 4 yrs now still trying infrequently now. no new results to report. Just about given up with this toy. Oh maybe because of new girlfriend 10 yrs younger than me and wild non stop sex............
Hello drslyr, 🙂
Don't let the new girlfriend stop you. Try adding it to your sexual activities together. That can certainly add a new twist to regular sex.
Love_is