After a few months of prostate play and several p-gasms, I found myself travelling and aroused but without the time, toys, or equipment for a session, so I decided to "rub one out" the old fashioned way.
Only I found that the way I used to stroke was no longer satisfying. It felt clumsy and dull. What I ended up doing was playing with my nipples for a long time, doing some aless contractions, and rubbing my frenulum with a bit of lotion, sometimes slow and light, sometimes fast, always changing it up.
When I did this, I ejaculated twice in rapid succession. While it wasn't as intense as my prostate orgasms, it was way better than what my penile orgasms used to be, and the pleasure was not constrained to just my penis but shot up into my stomach and took my breath away.I once did this to finish off an aneros session with a super-T and it felt so good i thought i would pass out.
I think the past few months of discovery have taught me to listen to the more quiet sources of pleasure, and as a result, i find direct stimulation of the penis to be blaring.
Does anyone else relate to this? Have prostate orgasms changed the way you masturbate "conventionally", if you still do that?
Dammit I replied to the other one and my post got deleted! Just my luck. Anyway as I was saying before I was so rudely interrupted... 😉
There have been times on my journey where my Aless was particularly strong and I just enjoyed laying in bed and enjoying being hard while the energy pulsed around my prostate. Back then I wouldn't want to ejaculate for weeks so that I could build up my sexual energy and just really enjoy how delicious it all felt. The last few years it hasn't been like that but I've been teaching myself to edge more and also try to touch myself in new ways. This video helped quite a lot just recently, especially the "making fire" technique, in fact I spent the entire time just laughing at how different and novel the sensations were. And then also I try to be more intentional about exploring the pleasure in my body without goals and stopping a masturbation session before I ejaculate. I don't always make it...in fact last month I ejaculated 13 times and 10 of those times were within a 2-week period...I was a horny boy...
Dammit I replied to the other one and my post got deleted! Just my luck. Anyway as I was saying before I was so rudely interrupted... 😉
hehe, sorry about that! I somehow managed to double-post from my phone. I blame shoddy wifi 🙂
The last few years it hasn't been like that but I've been teaching myself to edge more and also try to touch myself in new ways. This video helped quite a lot just recently, especially the "making fire" technique, in fact I spent the entire time just laughing at how different and novel the sensations were.
Thanks for sharing the video, there were definitely a few strokes in there I haven't tried yet! I'm also interested in edging and generally getting better control over when I ejaculate, although the main motivation there is to prolong sex.
And then also I try to be more intentional about exploring the pleasure in my body without goals and stopping a masturbation session before I ejaculate. I don't always make it...in fact last month I ejaculated 13 times and 10 of those times were within a 2-week period...I was a horny boy...
Oh my 🤭
Thanks for sharing the video, there were definitely a few strokes in there I haven't tried yet! I'm also interested in edging and generally getting better control over when I ejaculate, although the main motivation there is to prolong sex.
Indeed, that should be the primary goal for any man! So much damage control to deal with, considering how many boys were raised in shame or still learned to masturbate as quickly (and quietly) as possible to avoid getting caught. My heart breaks for women whose husbands can't control themselves because they never learned how, and I'd rather take care of it before I find the right woman.
@diddlemethis While I'm thinking about it here's another video that gave me some interesting ideas!