Hi all, I thought I'd share my ongoing experience with my aneros. Would love to hear what you guys think!
I had a really good session last night. Nothing I would call an orgasm, but still really intense. I started getting the usual p-waves, and they just kept growing. Eventually it was a lot more than just the tingling session; I started getting very aroused. I just relaxed, and let it all happen. It was interesting and really intense: like I was building to a big orgasm, but like I had never orgasmed before. It's true what they say about it feeling like "the first time" again. After a while, the feeling died down, but I'm definitely on the right track! Can't wait to do it again!
I think what made my session especially good was that I've stopped masturbating for the time being. I have regular sex, so I'm still having penile orgasms every other day or so, but on top of that, I would usually masturbate once or twice a day. It's been 5 days since I've masturbated, and although I don't feel particular hornier during the day, I was a lot more sensitive to my aneros session. I would love my body to get the message that orgasms will have to come from inside!
I've also noticed that when I get a good session, it gets me very excited, which in turn makes me try to hard. After about 15 minutes of it feeling really good, it settled down, and I couldn't get back to where I was, mostly just because I was trying to get back there. Relaxation is key, but it's hard sometimes, no pun intended.
Hello Collegeboi,
And welcome to the Aneros forums. 🙂
Those are great results and sounds like you are on the right track. Keep at it!
Love_is
Hi Collegeboi,
I'm in the same boat. Every session for me (on average) is at least slightly better than the prior, but I find myself getting too excited and forcing the issue. Like you said, I think relaxation is the key.
I noticed something interesting the other day: I think I'm becoming much more aware of my prostate in general. I was masturbating the other day, and I decided to try completely relaxing my muscles as I did it. I've tried this before on and off, and it always feels pretty good, but not like I'm going to cum. I usually tense my (PC?) muscles when I masturbate, so it's a very different feeling to completely relax them.
After a while, I realised I was getting a lot of the same feelings as I do with my aneros. It felt like I was feeling sensations more in my prostate than in my penis. I started to get really aroused, and the sensation kept building until finally I started to feel the beginnings of an intense sensation I had never felt before. I think the best way to describe it would be a dam about to burst, and it was centered somewhere in my anus.
It started to feel overwhelming, and unfortunately I choked and tensed up, and ended up having a regular penile orgasm. I want to try it again, and keep completely relaxed, and just let it build. I'm not sure if this is the same type of thing some people get with the aneros (handsfree), but I'm very curious to see what happens when that dam breaks!
Does anybody else have any similar experiences?
I don't use my Aneros very often, but the journey has made me much more aware of my prostate, especially during traditional penile masturbation. One of my favorite techniques now is to handle my erect penis like a joystick (i.e., gently rocking it side to side and in circles) instead of like a piston. The joystick movements cause the root of the erection (the non-visible part of the penis buried inside the body) to stimulate the prostate. This technique combined with conscious breathing, engagement of the PC muscles, and manual pressure on the perineum (at the spot immediately in front of but not touching the anus) is mindblowing. I can't imagine jerking off any other way now.
that's one of the secrets of orgasm control: taking yer time ... and not tensing up
... rather let yerself SINK into that preorgasmic bliss don't fight it just think of it as a quicksand of pleasure pulling you down into it - down is the way up ...
as you sink into that bliss you actually are allowing the orgasmic energy to LIFT you to a higher plane of feeling and ecstasy
... new myself to aneros and anything anal but i think the prostate trip is meant to be a similar path to total mind and body ecstasy allowing the blissful energy of genital pleasure to suffuse itself throughout your whole being and to control your consciousness
- rip