Moaning during sex/sessions = pleasure gauge

we have testicles too.

hmm. as a real live woman with a multiorgasmic vagina and a flexible view on gender roles I would like to put in my 2 cents.

A - as far as being multi-orgasmic, as far as I know, very few women are - whether that is physiology or psychology, i don't know. My vagina had to be tuaght how to orgasm from penetration, and once it was, the multiples came easily. But I am also pretty uninhibited and know how to get the kind of stimulation i need, so it's pretty much guaranteed even with the most inept partner, I'll have an orgasm or two.

B - as far as moaning goes - it's primarily for my partner's benefit so he knows when he's doing things right. If i'm masturbating on my own, i typically don't moan until i actually reach orgasm.

I will say one place where you may have a point is this - guys traditionally have to do most of the work when it comes to penetration, and i guess many get quiet while they are concentrating. When I'm bottoming I have the opportunity to relax and just take it, and I become more verbal, since I can focus on sensation and not necessarily mechanics.

But if i'm the top - i want my partner to be able to relax and let go and moan and talk dirty and whatever else he feels like, because it gives me feedback and increases my pleasure. Luckily my partner is very verbal like that, and I enjoy it. I find myself not having the mental freedom to be as verbal when i'm doing the work tho.

So is the moaning really just fake? do men and women moan equally? it seems as if the media women moaning more.

Also why can't a woman do an equal amount of work during penetration?

I don't get this "testicle" and "million dollar spot" thing. The testicles aren't really all that. Not compared to a woman anyway, and the $1 spot - if that isn't the prostate then please let me know what THAT is.

You are reassuring yourself with this "men have X nerves, women only have Y nerves", which is neither true nor helpful to you.

Pm me if you want.

I don't get this "testicle" and "million dollar spot" thing. The testicles aren't really all that. Not compared to a woman anyway, and the $1 spot - if that isn't the prostate then please let me know what THAT is.

You are reassuring yourself with this "men have X nerves, women only have Y nerves", which is neither true nor helpful to you.

Pm me if you want.

Its the spot between the testicles and anus. I don't know about you but my testicles get very sensitive during masturbation.

How is that statement not true? The foreskin has 20000 nerves. Clit 8000. Penis 4000.

Many women don't even have g spots.

I don't get this "testicle" and "million dollar spot" thing. The testicles aren't really all that. Not compared to a woman anyway, and the $1 spot - if that isn't the prostate then please let me know what THAT is.

You are reassuring yourself with this "men have X nerves, women only have Y nerves", which is neither true nor helpful to you.

Pm me if you want.

Its the spot between the testicles and anus. I don't know about you but my testicles get very sensitive during masturbation.

How is that statement not true? The foreskin has 20000 nerves. Clit 8000. Penis 4000.

Many women don't even have g spots.

Many men don't have foreskins.

I don't get this "testicle" and "million dollar spot" thing. The testicles aren't really all that. Not compared to a woman anyway, and the $1 spot - if that isn't the prostate then please let me know what THAT is.

You are reassuring yourself with this "men have X nerves, women only have Y nerves", which is neither true nor helpful to you.

Pm me if you want.

Its the spot between the testicles and anus. I don't know about you but my testicles get very sensitive during masturbation.

How is that statement not true? The foreskin has 20000 nerves. Clit 8000. Penis 4000.

Many women don't even have g spots.

Many men don't have foreskins.

This is true depending on the country you live in. But it is the norm to have one.

It's also worth pointing out that some women don't moan during intercourse, even if they're enjoying it - it's just not how they express pleasure.

I used to be supremely jealous of the female orgasms until I started experimenting with my peridise, and the world of sensations it's opened up has been quite extraordinary - and I've never even had a super-o!

I think the problem with men's sexuality is that penile stimulation (be it sex or masturbation) gives a very strong urge to go faster and faster, to punch through to the orgasm as quickly as possible, which not only stops you from appreciating the sensations you are feeling (and often leads to a dissapointing orgasm), but also lessens your emotional attachment to what's happening. Slowing down and really feeling every moment, allowing yourself to really get into it without orgasm necessarily being the ultimate goal has improved my masturbation enormously, and (somewhat counter-intuitively) not forcing the orgasm makes it so much sweeter when it finally comes. Patience is definitely a virtue.

As for prostate/anal stim, the thing that is increasingly surprising me is that the penis is very much involved in the process, even if there's little or no direct stimulation of it. The sensations generated in the anus and prostate seem to earth themselves up into the head of the penis like an electrical spark, and even at my very basic level, can feel incredible. It also seems to feed back into normal masturbation too, so now when I'm masturbating normally, I can feel my prostate chiming in with little sparks and tickling sensations that deepen the experience and make me appreciate it more.

The problem might also be that women are taught they deserve more than they get because they can't reach orgasm as easily. Not fair for men.

Men are taught to give more than they take because women need more.

Selfish of women in my opinion.

Yeah, I would put it like this:
Head of penis (Glans) = Clitoris
Shaft of penis = Vagina
Prostate = G Spot

What about the perineum, urethra and testicles? Women have siilar structures but it is not pleasurable for those to be pleased. that is why all the people who like urethral sounds are men.

My Progasm is making me moan more and more!