Male Squirting advice

Looking to get input and advise from all those lucky guys out there who are able to male squirt.

On my path with my aneros I’ve been reading quite a lot and have been intrigued about this mysterious male squirting that some are able to accomplish. So recently I’ve been splitting my time 50/50 between trying to progress my aneros/super-o journey and the desire to be able to squirt. I’ve tried to discover and read everything the web has to provide about it but the information is scarce and fragmented.. From what I am able to gather there are 3 fairly common (I use that word loosely) methods to produce a male squirt.

1. Prior to an ejaculation rub just the cock head glands staying away from the frenulum
2. After ejaculation do the same rub just the cock head glands, I’m not sure but I don’t think there is any issue with rubbing the frenulum this time due to ejaculation already have happened
3. With the aneros inserted do a lot of mental focus on the area between your cock base and tummy, trying to magnify the feeling while remaining totally relaxed and not flexing any muscle in the region, a reverse Kegel is supposed to help with releasing any possible tension that might be built up

These are fairly rough descriptions of each method I’ve read about and I haven’t fully detailed everything I’ve read with them, I’m just speaking from my own experience.

The method that I think I am having most success with is method 1. I usually get into the relax zone by listening to some hypno tracks for a few minutes before I even do anything.. Lately I’ve been massaging my testicles during this initial build up so I become aroused and my cock gets hard.. when I’m ready I start by holding my cock in my left hand to stabilize it and then rub just the back of the cock head (the part that faces you if you look down at your cock) I just use my thumb and a bit of lube and rub in circular motions, the arousal builds while this is happening I don’t flex anything and just try to focus on the sensations and feeling around the base of my cock to where it meets my stomach, when relaxed enough I get brief trickling feeling of what feels like fluids building up inside my prostate and maybe even the same feeling in my bladder but that might just be a phantom feeling, these typically happen a little at a time at the start then start to happen with more frequency, perhaps every 30-60 seconds. It feels very interesting while this is all going and I have to relax completely which might be a little hard to do because of those sporadic feeling of fluids building, but you have to relax into it. For me I know I’m on the right track as I can very easily feel my heart rate jump from a relaxed rate to what feels like is such a high rate it could beat out of my chest. Again while this is happening you have to try and remain calm and relaxed (which might be harder than it sounds given the level of excitement). Again relaxing everything.. mind and body. Continuing to use my thumb to rub the same spot on my cock head.. usually as the feeling build I will decrease the size of the circles I’m making with my thumb almost to the point where I’m just rubbing on one tiny spot on my cock head.. All this rubbing for the most part is quite slow, but usually when the feeling build I tend to rub faster, but I have found that if I get too excited and rub to fast I lose the feelings. As things start to build I usually start to get quite hard as the sensations of fluids building and the urge to pee (feeling in the tip of my cock) as the sensations build I understand that you have to relax more and more, and just go with the feeling.. accept them, enjoy them, and never try to force them.. This is all very enjoyable for me but I still haven’t made it to that land of squirt yet.

So now if all you peeps could provide any advice it would be great. As I mentioned I am really only focusing on method 1 right now as that seems to be the easiest and most successful method so far. But I am hitting some barriers, when I get really hard during the buildup the sensations seem to drop and I lose a bit of the sensation of fluid fullness and the feeling of needing to pee in the tip of my cock.. if I’m careful I can get past that and enjoy a bit of a plateau, but sometimes with the decreased sensations I lose 50% of my erection and lose the feeling of needing to pee and fluid buildup. Any advice on how to further relax or any tips to get to that squirting would be awesome

Feel free to add any input or ask and questions I will try to answer as best as I can