Brace yourselves, this is a long one; read-on if you are interested and move on if you get bored. Please do not take any part of it as suggestions. It is simply a snap-shot of my own experiences.
First, a bit of background. Its been 7 months since my first encounter with my Aneros Helix Syn. With no prior backdoor activities, I expected (and still expect) the process of rewiring to be long and to reach the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow even longer. With every session, there is hope with no expectations, there is pleasure with no explosions, there are new sensations with no boredom and there is always happiness to know that even as a late starter (61 years old), I will have the rest of my life to enjoy the sensations produced by this new discovery.
Lately, I have been practicing semen retention (18 days now) without any blue balls effect; in fact, its been much easier than I thought. Im doing it simply because ejaculation, however good it has become, is a drain on my system and sets me back as far as mood to explore is concerned. Does it help or not is a question best answered by experts.
I have also been trying to practice transferring my sexual energy from my genitals to the rest of my body as described by some Taoists. This is not an easy process and requires a lot of concentration. Its true, when you concentrate on any part of your body, you can transfer energy to it. For example, if you concentrate on your right thumb, you can feel it and if you stick with it long enough, you can almost feel your heartbeat in it.
I have been working my PC muscle pretty hard and regularly. It is now strong enough to easily stop urinating several times and stop ejaculation at just a bit before the point of no return. I have been practicing edging and towel bouncing with surprisingly good results.
Last night, I prepared for a session with my Progasm Ice. My preparation process includes defecating a few hours prior, lubing up inside (2.5cc) with water based liquid, lubing up the toy with water based jelly, laying out a cushioned mat and pillows on the basement TV room floor and having a good fantasy in store for the occasion.
My fantasy (latest one) might sound far-fetched but it works for me. When I was a young teenager, I had a strong sexual drive and I was always looking for opportunities to spy on my 3 sisters (yea a little pervert). My oldest sister always enjoyed a night swim in the lake at our cottage and as I did countless times before I peeked through the door between our rooms hoping to catch a view of her getting in or out of her swimsuit. I was never successful until one night when I faced a full frontal when she unsnapped the clip on her top and proceeded to towel herself dry! I dont exactly remember this part but I mustve creamed my PJs. That one time success images still are vivid in my mind providing me with a great base for this fantasy. She catches me spying, pulls me in her bedroom by the ear and yells at me. After explaining my curiosity, she helps me learn everything about the girls bodies with different scenarios over time while she gets to indulge on close-ups and tastes of young male anatomy Enough of this; I will keep it for later.
Back to last night, during my session, while doing light PC contractions and with slow, deep lower abdomen breaths, I experienced some feelings in my penis. These feelings are located just under the cap of the penis, just under the V section where my penis hotspot is. At this point, instead of trying to grow them (pushing for results) I tried to draw those feelings and transfer them through different parts of my body. I did that by pulling in my perineum and then concentrate on transferring them to, first, my lower body and then up my spine. All this was done with my deep breathing coupled with light contractions while of course fantasizing. I had some level of success in decentralizing some of the sensations as I started feeling twinges in my balls and then lower abdomen and belly. Unfortunately, time was progressing and I had to call it a night. The feeling were so good, I couldve stayed all night.
Good news; the story does not end with the session! In the early hours of the morning, I woke up with an erection which I have been getting plenty of in the last few months. I decided to throw in a few strong contractions to wake up some of the feelings and the sensation at the sweet spot of my penis returned with a vengeance. At that point, I reduced my contractions to a light level and again tried to pull the sex energy to my abdomen, spine and upper body. It worked a lot better than it did during my earlier session. Not only did the sensations traveled through my lower body but the multiplied to a level I never experienced before. Unlike orgasm with ejaculation, the sensation did not peak and dive, it rose slowly at first, then higher and quicker and stayed at peak level for several minutes. What a great feeling and all this without any of my Aneros toys inserted.
After enjoying this part for several minutes and feeling some pre-cum flowing, I forced it stopped not to awaken my wife beside me (she is not aware of my curricular activities). Doing some contractions during those nightly erections was not new to me but trying to de-centralize the sensation was. Im not ready call this an Aless Super-O but it was certainly an on-going Aless Dry-O with ambition to go to the end.
Imagine this! Achieving Aless success before achieving it with the toy inserted. All day, my prostate has eager to get more attention and Im anxious to get into another tonight.
Life is wonderful!
Excellent to hear of progress. The journey never ends as long as you are willing to explore.
All I can say is "wow"! I've been reading about breathing and moving energy as well. Having success with rising peaks and delaying ejaculation during intercourse. Amazing that this works! Where has this been all my life???