Let's say there's a Super-O pill...

Posted by: @flesh_joe

@ggringo there is hope. I encourage you to read or re-read the wiki topic(s) on the Do Nothing method. After 10+ years it works reliably for me to cause a cascade of super Os.

P.S I just posted a thread in this forum about it. So even for old dogs like me, 10+ years into the journey, there's hope. I honestly don't know that it will work for sure for you -- YMMV no guarantee in life etc etc

 

@flesh_joe thank you so much for your encouragement and suggestions, I really appreciate it.  I did read and enjoyed your last post!; well done.

I'm a very young 65 year-old and I've got the patience to wait until I'm a very old man to have an encounter with the Super-O if that's what's in store for me; meanwhile, I'm having a blast!  I'm also a big believer in destiny; whatever happens, happens.

Until then I will continue to enjoy myself to the max!

Good vibes to all.

@ggringo

I've been re-reading the thread and just tought about something. 

When I'm feeling good, sometimes I'll tell myself that I really wouldn't mind staying at that particular level, then I create a plateau for myself and just stay there for a while, and I'm just happy and feeling great. Then I ask for a little more and BAM ! an orgasm hits me like a truck.

When that scenario happens, I'm always amazed that I was on the very brink for 10-15 minutes. I mean, I was feeling great, but not Super-O great, and I was *this* close ? 

Now I wonder if you're experiencing something similar. All is good, no expectations, no Super-O yet but you're having so much fun that you don't really care one way or the other. You're just on this super long plateau as far as the eye can see, feeling great, not asking for more. So your mind tells itself, ok we're fine, we have just enough, that's a good balance, let's just stay there, right on this balance point. Do you think that's a possibility ? 

@zentai

Posted by: @zentai

I bet there would be less singles but it could go both ways, shy people might just not bother.

That is a good point. Many people, especially guys, when they are younger are a mess of hormones and lust. Sex is the largest part of a relationship to them, sometimes not even caring about a connection (Not that there's anything wrong with that between consenting adults).
So would introverts be satisfied in their single-ness when young?
Would a meaningful relationship become something pursued once more mature?

I've always loved the idea of a Siesta, how the countries which still do it have this time in the middle of the day to chill out. Everybody in that community agrees to it, no one expects businesses to be open etc.
Maybe that would be a functional way for society to continue in a world with a widespread super-O pill. Everyone agrees that at this one time in the middle of each day, you can swallow one and let loose. The rest of the daytime, keep it in your pants, heheh.

One thing talked about on this forum a lot is not touching your penis. Not because it is bad, or not useful in a quest for higher pleasures. But because men have already naturally learnt one specific type of penile ejaculatory orgasm. The start of this journey requires one to learn to feel new sensations and forget the dogma of a traditional orgasm somewhat. It's too easy to slip into old mindsets when touching your cock, a distraction from the new.
  Anyway, to get to the point. Would the next generation of people, raised in the world of the super-O pill, have such a focus on their genitals, on traditional orgasms? Probably not!

It's a double-edged sword. Why would they feel the need to learn how to please a lover. Would the base instinct towards being penetrated/penetrating be swept away in these daily waves of ecstasy?
Partners simply lying together, caressing each other. Enjoying the shared elation. A generation of clinically induced multiorgasmic lovers.

@kazama

Aaargh ! I'm a sucker for dystopian fiction and when I look around I always see society moving right in this direction. I wish I could let go and only see the positive aspects of this little scenario. Logically there would be an uproar, petitions to ban, some accidents, divorces, and I just hope no country invades another one for ingredients... but let's say the dust is settled. Or it just works right from the start. So it's safe, effective and widely available, with a bottle in every home, and no stigma attached, but we are not at "universal orgasm induced world peace" yet. So that's just reframing the original questions a little bit. Think positive ! 

I still could see this replacing a lot of medication for stress, anxiety and the like. There must be benefits on cardio, muscle tone, cardiac health, these things would be studied and the pill would be called a miracle wellness drug and recommended by doctors as part of an healthy lifestyle. 

I don't think the Siesta idea could work as it is right now, mainly because of time constraints during the day (some people just wouldn't come back or very late, you would need at least 2 hours), but I'm pretty certain that you could take a couple personal wellness days a month to indulge and that would be normal. Siesta would come at the end of the day, I guess very few chores would get done after 8 PM and not being able to reach some people would be expected. 

What I think would be necessary it to have some serious classes and educate people. A minimum age to use would help, since the brain is still developing until the mid 20's. 

So I'd say from 18 to 25 you would work towards the super-o with the tools that nature gave you, and in such a taboo-free and guided context, most would get there in that time frame. Then the pill wouldn't seem so extreme and I bet some people would prefer to go at it "old school". The others would be ready for the effects. In this way we would get normal sexual development, it would be pretty dystopian indeed  if people stopped having fun with their genitals and using them... hum... as intended.

Now we just need to change "pill" for cult, brain chip or alien mind parasite and we have ourselves a book series !

Posted by: @zentai

@ggringo

Now I wonder if you're experiencing something similar. All is good, no expectations, no Super-O yet but you're having so much fun that you don't really care one way or the other. You're just on this super long plateau as far as the eye can see, feeling great, not asking for more. So your mind tells itself, ok we're fine, we have just enough, that's a good balance, let's just stay there, right on this balance point. Do you think that's a possibility ? 

 

@zentai , it could very well be what you described.  I'll have to pay attention next time.  One way for me to really remain at and enjoy the state of pleasure I attain has been to stop analyzing while riding.

Thanks for your insight.

@ggringo. I’ve been rewired for about seven years now and have concluded that prostate massage is as pleasant if not more than penile stimulation. But the ongoing pursuit of the “Super O” for me is nothing more than a mirage. On the other hand as you practice massaging the prostate, simple penile stimulation just doesn’t satisfy as before. But put the two together and it’s a whole new experience. And from the perspective of one coming from a sexless marriage, and committed to my marriage, it’s a great alternative. My wife is very understanding, which frees me up to explore this new aspect of my sexuality.

@bladerunner , what you wrote mirrors my situation exactly except that my wife is totally unaware of my prostate adventures.  I also doubled my pleasures with the discovery of Aneros and I could not be more satisfied with my overall sexual pleasures especially considering being in a sexless marriage. 

Stay safe!

@ggringo Sounds like maybe we are on a similar journey. I don't go into details with  my wife, because I really don't think she wants to hear, probably because sex isn't of interest to her at this age, though my libido is still pretty strong. She feels bad that she can't satisfy or be satisfied as much, so she is more than willing for me to find other means of meeting my needs. One thing I would recommend in addition to Aneros products, would be the Njoy line of products. I have a couple butt plugs and the Njoy Wand. The butt plugs are great for extended wear, and puts you in the mood for a great experience later on in the day.  If you're looking for direct, immediate stimulation of your prostate, the NJoy Wand can't be beat. A real mind-blowing combination prostate and wet orgasm. 

@bladerunner , thanks for your response and suggestions. 

My wife of 43 years would never accept any explanation having to do with rear end play.  For her, the butt hole was designed for one thing and one thing only.  It's dirty and not meant for playing.  She is an extremely clean person and very germ consciencioused which I appreciate so unless I get caught, I don't plan on sharing anything about prostate play.

You're right, Njoy toys are great; I have the Magic Pure Wand and I absolutely love it.  It took a long time for me to experience some peasures from it but finally, it's proving to be more than an excellent prostate milker.

Good vibes to you.   Life is wonderful. 

@ggringo Interesting! We’ve been married 43 years and your wife could be sisters with mine! She is absolutely opposed to any kind of anal play from her end, but has succumbed to my journey for “health” reasons (enlarged prostate), and subsequently the pleasure factor I have described as a “side benefit.” Which is not completely dishonest, as that was what motivated me to start. Little did I know at the time the extreme pleasure factor that comes as the prostate is awakened to massage and milking. And of course the older we get the more challenging it becomes to hold an erection for long, which is when the anal play becomes an excellent “go to” method for sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Thanks! It’s good to talk and compare notes, considering the hard facts that our wives are not available on this particular subject.