I bought my first Aneros product out of curiosity. I read some crazy stuff on this forum and was intrigued. I went on to buy almost every model that Aneros makes, except for the SGX, Tempo, and the smaller Peridise Models. I've been using them for about 3+ years now. Still no super-O, but I've been close plenty of times (I think- haha). So I bought a feeldoe slim about a year ago. Tried to use it maybe on 4 different occasions over the past year. Didn't do much for me...sure it felt more "full", but that wasn't enough to take me over the edge.
Last night, I was exceptionally horny and showed it to my wife, who has never seen it. Mrs. P looked thought it was a joke at first and started laughing. She acted like she didn't understand what end was supposed to go where. I had to explain that the shorter end was going in her and the penis end was going in me! She then had an devilish grin on her face and I knew she wanted to try it. I've told her of my Aneros addiction, but she has never watched or participated in it. When we first started dating I would always try to get her to give up some anal, but she would always reply with "Let me fuck your ass with a strap-on first, and I'll think about it." Well that was 10 years ago, and way before I found out that I enjoyed prostate play. So I knew that on some level the whole fucking a guy in the ass thing was a fantasy of hers.
So we get in bed, I bring along my Helix and some Probe lube. I lube up, and stick in the Helix to kind of get my ass ready for what's to come. She blows me for about 30 minutes, which is extra good with a prostate massager in place BTW! Then I remove the Helix and she fingers my ass for a little bit. While she is lubing up the Feeldoe, I begin to get a little nervous. She inserts her end (without the vibrator because it wasn't working properly) and takes a minute to enjoy the view. She smiles and says, "Now I have a penis!" I guess penis envy is a real thing!
I tell her to go slow, and she inserts the thing little by little, giving my ass time to get used to it. She strokes my cock to keep me hard, and I am thoroughly enjoying it. Then she starts to fuck me. Let me tell you, it's not like an Aneros session at all. It's very different- even more different than the times when I used the Feeldoe on myself. We only tried one position- me on my back, spread eagle and her on top. There were times when her thrusting was hitting my prostate perfectly and I felt like I was on the verge of cumming. There were other times when she went deeper, making sure that it was all the way in. I didn't think I could handle the whole thing, but I surprised myself. I know that as far as dildos go, this thing is not that big or long.
After about 20 minutes, she says that her legs are cramping up. Being on top thrusting requires muscles that girls don't normally use! She takes it out and we fuck for about 30 minutes and then she finishes me off with a handjob while sucking on one of my nipples and a finger in my ass. When I came there was so much volume that I think I could have filled half a measuring cup! (I normally have a lot of cum anyway, but this stuff came out thick and it felt like it went on forever!)
So all in all it was a good time shared by both of us. I can't wait to try it again...I told her next time I want to try it doggystyle!
About 3 days later I had a solo Aneors session with my Helix and Maximus. Over the past several years, my sessions have become better and better, improving as time went on But this session was one of the best sessions yet! It's like I've become more sensitive to prostate stimulation. During the time that I was being fucked by the feeldoe, I felt sensations that were stronger than my typical Aneros sessions. I can totally understand why gay dudes are into ass fucking. It feels great! However, it's not something that I plan on doing on a regular basis- maybe once every couple months or so. I feel pretty safe using Aneros products on a more regular basis because they aren't very big. I've seen videos on XTube of guys being double fisted and sticking HUGE things in their ass. I'm not trying to win any contests here!
I feel that a Super-O is in the cards for me and that if I give it six more months, it will happen! I've always been hard to please sexually. Whenever I was with a new girl, it would always take me a LONG time to cum- at least 2 hours MINIMUM. But that was in my 20's and now i'm closer to 50. I still masturbate for at least one to two hours 3-4 times a week. Up until last year, it used to be daily! I think that the reason that I have not yet had a Super-O is because I have developed this habit of trying NOT to cum while fucking or jerking off. My interest has always been in prolonging the experience. When I have an Aneros session, I totally try and tune in to the sensations and hope to cum, but so far no luck. But I am definitely getting closer!
Sorry for the rambling guys, but I guess the main thing I wanted to say was that if you feel that you're not progressing, maybe you should try a strap-on!
Thank you, Pnoman, for sharing that. Very well descriptively written. It can serve for porn for me. I can never understand why men who consider themselves totally hetero, yet like something like Aneros or pegging, can't consider the possiblity that one might possibly be bi-sexual, somewhere on a continuum between complete one or the other. We are simply sexual. It doesn't matter where the stimulation comes from. Of course, if one is in a committed relationship, attractions to or desires for sex with other persons of either sex are to be controlled and not acted on.
There is a forum on pegging that was added to just today. This could have fit there. My reply above applies to that whole forum and the pegging related to bi-sexuality. I haven't read that whole forum yet. Maybe I can find answer to my bewilderment there, or maybe it just doesn't seem relevent to others, which would puzzle me even further.
Paul
Thanks for posting this pnoman. I'm glad to hear you are making progress and that the Feeldoe made an effect. I to have had some effect from solo play with my Feeldoe More. I don't know if it is just the larger size of this model, or that it feels completely different than an Aneros, but I find I'm forced to really learn to completely relax to take this thing in and then even more to be able to comfortably accept thrusting of it. And my prostate will swell and tingle in a very nice way. No super-O yet for me either. But it sure is fun exploring on this journey. 🙂
Pnoman,
Awesome update on your pegging experience. You, Dave and Voyager have peaked my curiousity. So much so that I plan broaching the subject with my wife. The journey continues.
N
Thanks so much Pnoman!!! Congratulations man and wife!!! All the best continuing explorations!
artform
Paul, thanks for your thoughts too!! We should chat!
artform
Awesome, pnoman!
So great for you and your journey. Hoping to get there someday myself. Good to hear of your experience. It encourages me to keep moving that direction.
The best to you and your wife!
Keep having fun!
Brian
It seems to bring out different feelings when my wife pegs me almost feminine feelings me and my wife have been together for 12 years and have just started trying different things in bed and has sparked some fire that was turning to embers hope the Helix will add another level to the intensity of our relationship